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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too... But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I ...

The boys I've known have only been after one thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i know im only 19, ever since i have been 15 i have always had boys attention,iv always had a boy to text and cheer me up when im down. but latley iv realised that they only wanted mefor 1 thing and kept we sweet to get it. since i have realised ...

I take a beating from him because I love him, but I cant cope anymore with his accusations

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year and half..I saw him working one day and decided to talk to him and we exchanged numbers..in the beginning this were great.. 2 months into it he heard stuff from people that was not true..and started calling me a hoe ...

My girlfriend is ignoring my phone calls and text

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend left for the weekend with some friends. She told me that she will be staying in contact with me the whole weekend. She kept her promise all the way until yesterday afternoon when she texted me. I replied to her later on but she ...

Am I too obsessive? I need something else in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I feel really strong about each other, but the thing is I feel more strong then him.. He says he always loves me more, and I feel that's a lie. I know I love him more but I feel a little obsessive. If he doesn't call me back ...

I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still wi...

Is he commenting on other women to get a reaction out of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - tonight me and my boyfriend were watching a tv show and tara reid the actress was on it, he started commenting about how hot she used to be before her breast implants etc..then later during the show he mumbled, "tara reid is hot" and i said huh? ...

What can I do about his gambling addiction? I've wiped out my savings trying to help him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for 5yrs now and found out that he has a gambling problem 1yr into our relationship. At that time, I didn't know the extent of his gambling but he has since lost his parent's home, his father passed away and he gambles ...

Why is he no longer attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is 44, I am 25. When we first met, he pursued me, trying reallyyyy hard, and I know he thought I was really hot. He still tells people about how beautiful his girlfriend is, even tells me if he could ...

Suspicious that he's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...

She makes me stop before I can get her there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - My girl and I have been in a long distance relationship for just under a year. We met in the most romantic way, and fell in love intensely. She is 32, and I am 26. I'm not sure how much of the relationship history I need to give here, but I will...

I think he's been cheating, but he denies it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i broke you with my boyfriend whom ive been with for 6 nonths because i felt like he was cheating on me. we had an on again off again realtionship.. he just wasnt doing rite by me i felt therefore i ended things with him while he in training inthe ...

Boyfriend doesn't trust me because of facebook.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello, my bf and I are having problems mostly because I don't give into everything he wants. I'm tired of the accusations, and the distrust he has for me. I can't keep defending myself to him. I'm loyal, I love him, but I'm worn out literally. I've ...

I don't like him texting girls late at night. Should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I don't mind that my boyfriend had friends that are girls, but I told him that I don't want him talking/texting them late, which I consider after midnight as I was told this was "Booty call time". And keep in mind that we live together. As far as I ...

Caught my husband watching porn when I was pregnant. I have been depressed ever since.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ever since i was pregnant i've been depressed. Okay I'm only 20 years old. And i was pregnant with my first baby. I was only 7 months pregnant when i caught my husband masturbating watching porn. Can you imagine how sensitive i was during my ...

He saw another girl naked before me and I can't handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I's past gets brought up a lot.. Like he gets depressed if one of my friends brings up "do you remember when you and him did that??". And just last night we were talking about sex and being naked, and I asked him if I was ...

Worried by his relationship with his female friend, now he wants to go see her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend has had this girl(friend) quote the word "Friend" for 3 years. Well, he's known her for 3 years. I have talked to her a couple times before and she seems nice. The thing is he texts her a lot, and she's brought up in our fights ...

I can't trust my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I have an amazing boyfriend. The only problem is that I don't trust him.. I use to have his Facebook password but he changed it because he caught me snooping.. again. I always snoop at his stuff. His texts, his Facebook, his conversations. I ...

I want to be cool and trust him but I don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy ...

How do I confront him when I'm guilty of having snooped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok so basically I did the wrong thing and snooped and looked at my boyfriend of just over a years emails. I had a feeling back in January there was something to worry about when he was constantly getting messages late at night and we had one problem ...

How do I give my man more space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title"I was in a relationship for about 2 years and it ended really bad, my ex cheated on me and stuff... I got into a relationship with another guy like 8 months ago... its been good, we have our problems but we work it through... he ...

Does he want her or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" I need help! I've been involved with this guy for a few years now. We've hooked up randomly throughout the years, but we've both been in relationships. Now I am single and he's very interested in me. He texts me constantly and we ...

He's a lovely guy, but I can't help wondering if I'm being played

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I can't quite make up my mind about the guy I've been dating lately. I suspect he was something of a player in the past and I can't decide whether he's different since meeting me (does that even happen?!) or whether I should be really wary of ...

She kissed another guy and I think she told me before someone else did

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Should I be worried?? Ok basically im 18 and so is my gf , we have been together for almost 2 years now. I am her first serious relationship and she is mine. After about 4 months of being together it was a close friends of hers birthday a...

He has an online business and strange behaviour -- is he keeping something from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together officially about 3 weeks but casually dated for a month before that. he has a job and gets paid fairly good money, $9.55 an hour, but he sells a lot of things online. he always has money to blow ...

Should we know each other's password?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - my 5 yrs bf and me were really cool abt facebook. he gave me his facebook password and i gave him mine. i never had any prob with that. but he used to surf my profile and got angry with some guy leaving msg.bhe yelled at me. i initialy used to visit ...

Is something going on with his potential coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend gave me his Facebook password couple of months ago. We're in a long-distance relationship at the moment, and we message each other a lot on Facebook. He is planning to move here in 2 months, and I'm flying down in June to spend time ...

How do I trust he's back to stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Guys i need your help.i met this guy 2years ago while i was a student.we were head over heels about each other.we had a very great sex,letme say he was simply irrestible.he has a son,he told me his son's mother is married to another man.things ...

I want to be happy but am anxious all the time because of my past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had many issues in the past with him being honest and they have added up to me feeling resentful of him, hurt by him and mistrusting. I've always been trying to get the feelings of happiness back from before he started lying ...

Is he lying about selling drugs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for four years and I am starting to feel like he is constantly lying. He told me he quit all of the illegal activities (drugs/sellin) years ago but yesterday was on his FB and a chat popped up and this chick is complaining ...

I've been suspicious of my boyfriend, and now I've found a woman's sock in the laundry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. When we met and started hanging out, I learned instantly that he is a flirtatious drunk. He gets VERY friendly, kissing, grabbing, etc. We spent a few months in the beginning "on a break", ...

I'm too controlling in this relationship, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since I was 16 and now am 20 going on 21 and we live together now. I have always been "the boss", perhaps I can say... In my relationship! meaning that, its mostly all about me. I am a very bitchy mean ...

"My boyfriend said that porn is disgusting but I found out he watches it"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, A few day a ago I found out that my boyfriend had been looking at a porn website when he stayed over at his friend's house. I heard it from both of the people he was with at the time and apparently he wanted to look at the lesbian ...

I don't talk to him as much as before am I loosing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks. The thing is he used to be my best friend and we were so close, we used to talk for hours, joke around and stuff. But now he doesn'talk to me as much, acts awkward and doesn't come to see me at school I a...

Can you heal after being cheated on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I have just found out that my fiancee cheated on me. We have been together for two years and a few months back he had heard some rumours that I was cheating on him and when I told him it was not true he did not believe me. A few nights later I saw ...

He's still have his profile in a Dating ste where we met. Was it a smart decision that I broke up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - "OP's Own title"I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I had found out that he is still keeping his old profile in an internet dating site where we met. And the worst part he viewed one of my "fake" profiles that i created to caught him. ...

Ever since he cheated he does not trust me and thinks I am cheating on him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - my boyfreind cheated on me a 4 and a half months ago but because i love him to bits i decided to stay with him now when ever i go out to a club with my mates or dont answer my phone straight away he has started accusing me of cheating on him now ...

Depression issue or stuck in a rut?

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26 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what is wrong with me anymore...If I have a serious depression issue or if I'm stuck in a seemingly endless rut. I am so irritable with my husband and child almost all of the time. It seems that almost everything that they do gets on ...

Does he like me again or is he just using me to get what his girlfriend isn't giving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Heey guys . okay so ... i used to like this guy last year - lets call him bob , lol so i liked bob , but i didnt say anything cuz i was SURE he didntt like me back - but this year i found out that he did but doesnt anymore and now he has a gf ... ...

Will the guilt ever go away?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i of 5 years have been going through some rough times but were really trying to get through them. I have trust issues even though i know he would never do anything. Well i just became the worst hippocrite because i recently fooled ...

Could it be possible that he will hide things from me now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 years. we see each other almost everyday and we always say goodbye at the end of the day with a big hug and kiss and an "i love you" We still even hold hands everywhere we go. But recently he has been ...

I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. We've been married over 10 years and before me she had this boyfriend named Jim. Right after we got married we moved about 3 hours away to another part of the state for my job...

Can't let go of the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 9 months now. He has been divorced for 2 years now but I feel he still has some feelings towards his ex. We have started arguing a lot lately and they all seem to be about the past! He blames me for still loving my ex ...

Is she just playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I've strarted talking to this girl. We have been on a few dates ad at the end of the second she seemed to kiss me( I was going to make a move, but I kinda feel like ahe beat me to it). We talked about future hangout plans, she wants to drive or pay ...

He betrayed me then blamed ME for refusing a second connection with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i've done everything for him like giving cookies,made pillow for his birthday,listen to his childish talk so that he'll feel better. instead of appreciation,he thinks of me as toy which he can play then abandon when he gets bored of it. later he ...

How can I pursue my online girlfriend in real life, without scaring her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i am 40 yrs old and found a woman 35 yrs old online that is absolutely gorgeous and a wonderful personality to boot. We have shared pictures and personal information about ourselves and communicate really well. We have made out on IM and it was ...

I want my boyfriend off his online dating site, am I over-reacting here??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ...

Is he shy or do you think he is gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hey guys, Ok so my bf (20) and I (22) have been seeing each other for about three months now. But I can't help but question if he really is gay and not bisexual like he says he is. With in these three months he hasn't tried to make a move sexu...

Looking at an escort site and my girlfriend found out...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

24 May 2010 (M) - Where do I start I have been seeing my partner of a year I'm 41 she is 42 we both have kids everything was amazing till I very stupidly one night I was waiting on here to return from work and I used her pc I was fed up been working since 5 am was ...

I miss him, but don't want to take him back too easily.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I finished things with my boyfriend after over 2years because he was texting another girl and I wasn't comfortable with it, he was flirting, he's done this before and we got past it without it being a big issue but this time I felt he needed to know ...