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female
age
36-40,
*tacey5
writes: my boyfreind cheated on me a 4 and a half months ago but because i love him to bits i decided to stay with him now when ever i go out to a club with my mates or dont answer my phone straight away he has started accusing me of cheating on him now which i never have and saying that i only stayed with him just to get revenge and hurt him i have recently found out that i am pregnant and he is just getting worse with all his accusations how can i help or make him realise that i havent cheated on him and i never would i really need some advise please
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (26 May 2010):
He cheated, he's the one who betrayed you, but now suddenly YOU'RE the one who is unfaithful. I agree with CaringGuy on this one: you can't win in this relationship. You may love him to bits, but he's going to make your life worse and worse if you stay with him.
Next he'll say the baby isn't his and get you to terminate.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 May 2010):
Dump him now. He's trying to put the blame on you. You'll never make him realize that you've not cheated. Now you see what he's really like. He's a cheat who will continue to hurt you. Nothing you do or say will make this better. You need to end it for your sake and your baby's sake.
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