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female
age
51-59,
*faye912
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. When we met and started hanging out, I learned instantly that he is a flirtatious drunk. He gets VERY friendly, kissing, grabbing, etc. We spent a few months in the beginning "on a break", still together but seperated by 300 miles. He had a drunken kiss with a girl at a party, which was brought to my attention via MySpace. he apologized, she said nothing happened, I chose to move past it, however always remembering. We are living in his hometown now, and he started hanging out with an old friend, who is his mid 30's, as are we. He is married to a 25 y/o who LOVES to drink and party. Two weeks ago my boyfriend and his friend went out to watch a fight, and ended up hanging out with the wife and one of her single friends. The next morning pictures were posted by the wife of a drunken group, including my boyfriend. One pic was of the four of them toasting, and it was clear that this girl was sitting on his lap. I confronted him with the pic, and he swore she sat down just to take the picture. I had to take his word or not. I have a lot of family issues going on now, and I chose to take his word. Well, I just got back from a week long trip back home. This morning while he was working I took his clothes out of the dryer, put in there BEFORE i got home. In the pile was one black WOMEN'S trouser sock. Is this enough evidence to confront him again, or should I try to gather more?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Go with your gut instinct girl. If it smells bad it will be bad. I wouldn't hang around to confront him he knows how you feel about this drunken behaviour, enough is enough! Just get on with it and move out.
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