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writes:"OPs own title"I was in a relationship for about 2 years and it ended really bad, my ex cheated on me and stuff... I got into a relationship with another guy like 8 months ago... its been good, we have our problems but we work it through... he didn't like me talking to other guys so I stopped even talking to my friends.. but off late Im finding it really hard to trust him, he has a lot of friends who are girls and he talks to them and meets them often, he's even in contact with his ex... I keep wondering if he's gonna cheat on me, when I talk to him about this he gets annoyed and tells me he loves me but he needs his space.. am I just being paranoid or are my fears valid? how do I move away from him so that he feels Im not being needy...??
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reader, Myke  +, writes (9 November 2010):
First, you probably need to give yourself more attention here. You were hurt in a recent relationship. How long was it before you got into another one? This one? It sounds like there are jealousy issues on both sides and some time apart would probably do you both good. Just ease off and let him call you or visit. This will also show how interested he is in you as well. Make it a point not to call him until he calls you.
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