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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud.. I was seeing a girl that just did everything wrong lied cheated and lied some more. it crushed me and she wouldn't admit to it. Finally after all said she admits that she did some really messed up ...

How do I tell him that I know!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpape...

How do I stop having terrible rows with my friend?

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30 June 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for over a year now and we used to be very close but recently we keep falling out. We recently had a very nasty fight and said some very horrible things and did not speak for couple of weeks. We recently started ...

How can I get her to be friends again? I don't want anything serious.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I thought my relationship with my gf was getting too serious so we changed to being non-exclusive, few weeks later I have sex with another girl but realize after that she still thought we were an exclusive couple and we get into a big argument. I ...

How do I regain my parent's trust? They found a hickie on my boob.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My parents recently found out about the hickie on boob from going through my text messages. My mom already had a talk with me which didn't go so well but now its time to have a talk with my dad. I dont know what to tell him and they have already ...

My husband doesn't want more than friendship with me. How do I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - i have been married to my husband for 2 years, but we have been seperated 4 a yr now. he wanted me to move back in with him and i told him yes but i never got off my butt and moved back in with him. a couple of weeks i found out he had another woman ...

Will what I did make him worry more? I don't want to lose him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) Well, basically, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we've been going really strong so far. I have two problems that I hope you can help me with: - I have an anxiety disorder which means I get panick attacks. This anxiety dis...

Is there something still here worth saving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I had a huge moment of weakness, I was working off of 8 hours of sleep total for the last 5 days. I went to first text my girlfriend no answer which was weird. I started to worry something happend she was out of town on work. I then called no answer ...

Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night...

I don't trust him because he "hid" from another girl he dated before he met me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Something has been really on my mind lately and i just can't shake it. I have been dating my boyfriend for well over a year now, but i have had a problem for most of that time. It must have been on our second/third date (and my birthday) in Mar...

During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making ...

He cheats on me but doesn't want me to move on, what must I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - my guy is so over protective towards me and this irritate me as i can't even go out with my friends. he always think that im going to some other guys. he never caught me cheating on him but he just doesn't trust me coz if he trusted me,he could not ...

He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...

He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...

Is this too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - This is quite long, sorry but please bare with me cuz i really need advice! Since my last question i have dumped that guy and are now with someone else. Me meet a few days ago literally, just as friends! as he HAD a gf! But we instantly fell ...

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...

I can't trust him but do I really want to start over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My husband had sex with a women that we were couples friends with over 20 years ago. I did not know of the one night stand at the time. She would not go on with the affair. But my husband admits that he lusted for her for another 10 years. ...

Should I call it off or try and resolve this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - ive been with my girfriend for 4yrs nearly she we met one night kissed it went from there with txting meeting up kissing more etc come prom as neither of us openly had said we wanted a relationship she made out with as many guys as should could ...

So many half-commitments! Why can't she just tell me ...yes or no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago. I admit, as I did to her recently, that I realize that the way I was acting was kind of abusive towards her. Actually, I made a huge mistake and did and said something when she was leaving me ...

Is she "playing" me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I was engaged to a girl that I was with for two years. We began living together after a few months of meeting, just after becoming engaged. We had a great relationship and we were both very happy. However, we both brought children into the ...

I can't believe I turned out to be such a crappy girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a troubled relationship, and I don't know what to do. Ok, so we met and a few months later we started going out. He was my first boyfriend, and I'm the first girl he's ever loved. Well, in the beginning we were PERFECT for each other, ...

We have a baby together but I think he's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i think my bf is cheating on me but have a baby with him so don't know what to do... he showed no interest in our baby from the beggining and only does now when showing off to friends. i hardly ever see him and even then he only wants sex, he also ...

My porn use and cyber sex obsession ruined my marriage! How do I get my wife back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I have been married 19 years. For 8 yrs I watched porn and engaged in cyber sex, and even Emailed women. This became an obsession. My wife found out about it and I tried to lie my way out of it. I did stop eventually, but she left me anyway. How can ...

Will he marry me? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was perfect for two years. suddenly he went back in his hometown and after come back he stared ignoring me and didn't want to talked with me too much and one day he said , he don't want to be with me anymore and after one week I heard ...

How do I get her to warm up to me but at the same time keep it casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hi i'm asking this question because i'm in a situation that i've never been in before and i'm not too sure on what to do or steps to take. I met this girl, who I took to my formal and she took me to hers, we were just friends, and had a mutual ...

Should I really move on? Everyone is telling me I'm in denial.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm so confused cuz I love a man who has been abusive with me and the last incident was yesterday when he tried grabbing me by my hair for trying to get out of his car. I broke this relationship off cuz I'm so tired of his bullshit and excuses on ...

Is he in this just for sex? Why would he message another woman? Does he really care? Do I dump him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a pretty big problem right now. My bf and I met through an online dating website. We have been together for about a month and have decided we are exclusive. Anyway I decided to log onto the website we met just to see if he was still using it, ...

Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...

Why is he making me jealous on purpose?

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26 June 2009 (F) - Me and my guy work together, its been 11 months and there is a girl at our work whom I do not trust. I trust my guy though. She prettier then me, slimer, has more in common with him and he is mega friendly with her. He has said time and time ag...

Should I trust my husband after what he's told me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My guestion is...about for years ago when my hubby and I first got together he was working with this girl that loved to get into the pants of guy that where takin. He has told me that they would flert alot and that he would help her out whenever she ...

Why am I feeling jealous when I totally trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and have never had any problems, i trust him 100%. But I still get very jealous when has around other girls. For example, his ex girlfriend was in his house last night (She is his house mates ...

Should I still see him if they broke up? I need advice badly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - i desperately need advice from anyone.. I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because I discovered from his mobile phone that he was having an LDR with a younger girl who he claims is much prettier than me. This killed me inside but i beg...

Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...

Should I tell my boyfriend about this dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - this is sort of stupid, but i can get my mind off of it. i really had a stupid dream, but i feel that i have to tell my bf about it. i really do love my boyfriend, so dont get me wrong but i dreamt that i was telling a mutual friend how to be with ...

I'm kinda jealous, should I be concerned if he puts some other chick one spot in front of me on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - if this guy ive been seeing puts some other chick one spot in front of me on facebook she doesnt have him anywhere on her top she commented him saying he was cute he didnt comment back and she commented his photos, saying he was cute and s...

He's been visiting the mother of his fourth child without my knowledge!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My husband had 3 children before we met. We went out for a while and then seperated to give each other time to figure out if we wanted to be together long term. While we were seperated, he entered another relationship and had a child. Shortly before ...

My world is crashing down on me... he's registered on a sex site but I'm am afraid to break up with him because of my financial situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - I am devastated! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have been having relationship/financial problems for sometime. I just lost my job and cannot maintain household without his income. I am 3 months behind on my ...

How can I get my life back on track?

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25 June 2009 (F) - I'm nineteen years old, when I was twelve i fell in love with a wonderful girl, it was a whirlwind romance and I as convinced she, delicate and beautiful as she was, was the one diamond love of my life, and we wed at sixteen it was magical and ...

I'm so tired of fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so there is this boy that I have been with for the past three years, on and off. We have broken up numerous times over little things but we never stay broken up for more than a day or two, if it gets a little more serious then maybe a week. I am ...

Are relationships with strippers doomed to fail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Why don't relationships with strippers work? Are they doomed to fail? The females that are caught in the stripper life are caught in the life. A life style of low self esteem and constant admiration. A life style of free drugs and alcohol. A life ...

Are bachelor/bachelorette parties wrong for our situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so my BF and I are thinking about getting married and the topic of the infamous bachealor/bachealorette party has come up. Something I should tell you is that my BF and I have been together for about 6 years now and we were teenagers when we ...

Does he really love me in all this big mess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just jumped me for my best friend. He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :( She told him s...

She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...

My BF left after an innocent misunderstanding? How do I make him trust me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Me in my BF been together for 7 years now we have a little girl and all but lately things have been really bad. We don't go out we are always arguing and tonight I was updating my face book status and one of my co workers must have seen that I was ...

Is she just trying to make me jealous and piss me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend is dating a good friend of mine 2 weeks after I broke up with her. Why? She told me she loved me first, and I told her otherwise untill about a week later. I broke up with her because I was afraid She was going to break up with me. ...

Should I stay in a marriage with little affection or sex? Is this all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have been married for two and half year, the sad part of this marriage is I don’t believe there is any affection when the time I married him. The whole relationship just gone crazy, I was tired of all the lies happened before. And he is very nic...

Suggestions on how to not look like a moaning, insecure girlfriend? I need them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - i am in a serious relationship and i am very happy with my boyfriend and very much in love. We got engaged about two months ago and all in all we have a fantastic relationship. He is a very social outgoing guy and his job requires a bit of ...

I asked my girlfriend not to talk to someone I disliked. She did anyway, is she in the wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I asked my girlfriend not to talk to someone i dislike. she told me she wasnt talking to him, and never would. I believed her. However i found out that she had actually spoken to him, i feel betrayed and upset. I really love her, but am i in the ...