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female
age
30-35,
*atemate
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and have never had any problems, i trust him 100%. But I still get very jealous when has around other girls.For example, his ex girlfriend was in his house last night (She is his house mates sister so I can't be helped) and just knowing she’s there makes me skin crawl, even though they don’t get along.When other girls are there who has friends with i often feel the same. Not with the girls I know or are his friends girlfriends, ones that I’ve never heard mentioned or ones hes had a past with.Saying that, deep down i know he would never do anything to hurt me. I totally trust him... which is why i really dont understand why I'm feeling like this.Can anyone help?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I don't know if you would call it jealousl or been worried that someone might take the opportunity to chat him up which then leads to the possibility of him straying from you. Given the surroundings and the opportunities I can understand your insecurities. I can only suggest making the effort to be part of this female company when they are around and be friendly and involved, as they get to know you it may be less likely they will try and take the boyfriend of someone they know.
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reader, Sambuca Queen +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Jealousy means you care. You care about the indivdual and are of course scared they will stray. You trust him and thats good, trust is important in any relationship.
Youve said he doesnt get on with his ex and thats kinda a good thing, means he wont go backwards if something goes wrong.
Dont let this eat you up. Tell him you get umcortable when she is there. Try and go out, just the 2 of you when she shows up. And just explain to him you feel like this.
Good luck.
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