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Archived questions from: February, 2019 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I asked my mother not to say negative things about my father and now she isn't speaking to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2080 days ago

28 February 2019 (F) - My parents are divorced and I live with my mother and younger brother. The break-up between my parents was extremely sour. My father was never really the "#1 dad" type of figure because he had his issues with a drug addiction. My brother and I never ...

Could these have been semen stains ... is he cheating on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2081 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I just need some advise. I’m driving myself mad and keep toying between am I just being super paranoid or is my gut instinct trying to tell me something... basically I want to know show I be weary of my partner! We have been together ab...

I'm pregnant and work part time. My husband wants me to get another job to pay his parents debts.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My husband's parents owe a large amount of money to a family member which they can't pay. They have asked my husband to pay the money on their behalf, we are talking £500 per month for the next 10ish years. My husband works 9 to 5 and I work part ...

I'm 64 but still frightened of my dying mother.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My elderly narcissistic mother is dying in hospital and after a violent abusive childhood, I hate having to see her. She's an embittered, difficult, hard to please woman and I feel very nervous in her company. I'm 64 now, yet still frightened of ...

My bf just got tattoos for his deceased ex wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - I'd like to have some opinions about my situation. My bf just got huge tattoo representing his dead ex wife. We became couple after he was separated from his ex but shortly after she passed away and he was the one found her dead on the floor at...

I have a crush on my lecturer, I think he likes me too.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

26 February 2019 (F) - Hi, I have a huge problem... I've been married for four years now. I love my husband and he loves me. We are both so busy so we sometimes don't have time for each other. But we still love each other and we know it. In the meantime, I'm st...

My new friend critizes my hair and clothes! How do I get her to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

26 February 2019 (F) - I am 53 years. and 6 months ago I was in a shop and met a lady who is 43 years old, she asked for my number after chatting to go out for coffee. She then asked for us to go out in the evenings, I have serious medical conditions and not in posit...

I am so confused..looking for insight about this relationship..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

25 February 2019 (F) - I met someone 6 weeks ago. Im in my mid-40s and spent too long in a loveless, abusive marriage. Ive been alone for 3 yrs and was resigned to being done w men for good. I have trust and abandonment issues and have settled for weak, passive ...

I don't know what this man wants from me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2084 days ago

25 February 2019 (F) - I am a lady in my 60s and have been in an on/off relationship with a guy of similar age for 5 years. We usually fall out because I get hurt that he has not included me in his family get togethers or not bothered to get me anything for my birthday. ...

How can I help this relationship survive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

24 February 2019 (F) - I am 40 F,3 years ago I met a 21F College student that was on a internship.(Asia)- I Never dated woman before. At the time I was in a leadership role within the college. She made passes and I resisted, because I was nervous, scared and becau...

Somebody keeps hacking my boyfriend or is he cheating?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

24 February 2019 (F) - I keep finding my boyfriend on multiple dating/cheating sites and find his search history is filled with things like: Women near me to have with tonight? I have asked him about it and he says he didn't do it. Tat someone is hacking him. Is that ...

I try very hard to acieve at university but my parents think its nothing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - At the moment, I'm a little upset with what my parents have said. Not exactly sure how I should approach the situation. So it started off by discussing how I'm already in my 2nd year of university and that in a blink of an eye, I would be in my f...

I just got married and I feel that my marriage is already breaking

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

21 February 2019 (F) - Dear cupid I just got married and already feel like my marriage is failing, to be precise nothing changed i.e we were living together even before marriage so it's the same. But my husband emotional support is almost none to these days Most of ...

I’m in an exclusive long distance relationship, despite my desire for it to be open, and I started cheating. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2064 days ago

20 February 2019 (F) - I’m a freshman In college and am doing long distance with a boy I started dating about a year ago (during my senior year of high school). I truly believe that I’m in love with him, as I dated a boy before him and learned the difference between ...

My boyfriend often makes me feel inferior and I am not sure if I see a future with him. Please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

20 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I had a huge argument recently. I mentioned applying for a 6-month advisory governmental job in another town. He got very angry and said he doesn't want to do long distance again (we had done it for a year internationally ...

He played games with me and I need your help to understand why!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - I am a mature person (not perfect and have many flaws, I am only human), I met this guy who was 10 years older than me 4 years ago, I told him I did not want not want to go out with him as my previous relationships have broken down and they have ...

Our sex life needs improvement but how do I approach it because he gets upset and feels bad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months, our relationship is good the only thing that kinda sucks is when we do it.. I'm his first but he isnt mine, when we do it he never takes the time to make me wet, he just goes and spit and...

I get angry over little things, and he thinks that’s dumb!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months. Our relationship is good and I'm happy with him.. but I dont seem to stop getting mad over tiny things, or sometimes i get mad at something and he thinks its dumb or that i shouldn't be getti...

Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the ...

I'm dating a restaurant owner who's 10 years older and struggles with money. Is it worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, It's a bit long but please be patient with me. I'm currently dating a restaurant owner for almost a month. We met a supermarket and he took courage to ask me out on a date. We really hit it off after the first date and continue ...

My husband wants "space" to deal with his feelings of anger towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2067 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hello, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. My husabnd and I have been married for over 10 years. I love him dearly. Recently he has asked for "space." Claims his job and our marital issues are overwhelming him. Says he loves me but doesn't ...

I hate the way my partner talks about my children and I'd rather live alone than be trapped in a relationship with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am in a long-term relationship and love my partner but i feel very trapped. I have 2 children from a previous relationship that are teenagers and my partner doesnt have a strong relationship with them but they do all get along well most ...

How can I deal with my anger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hello I am preparing myself emotionally and physically for life in my mid 30”s. My twenties were a series of parties - insecurities and putty fears with occasional breakdowns Throughout my self reflection I have noticed that I get angry very qu...

I’m so broken up about his porn use and his cheating behaviors!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2091 days ago

16 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 years. Recently I have been seeing allot of things on his phone his name is connected to dating profiles 2 email addresses several text and history in his phone. I feel like he’s been ...

He tells me I insulted him by asking if he was gay! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2095 days ago

16 February 2019 (F) - Hello. Recently the man I live with have been acting strange.We had a lot of arguments and he crossed boundaries and spent a lot of money from my savings account.We kinda broke up but we still live together because he said we should make it ...

My boyfriend’s ex-partner is a nightmare! I feel like we are constantly looking over our shoulders!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

16 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend's ex partner is a nightmare - and I feel like we're constantly looking over our shoulders. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. Things are great between the two of us and we are very happy. The problem we have ...

My lazy partner seems to think my car is also his!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

15 February 2019 (F) - Me and my significant other been together for 12 years When it comes to working, he’s a little lazy and wants easy jobs like uber, Postmates, etc. me on the other hand, I’m a worker, went to school completed my bachelors degree while being with...

My mom is being really overbearing regarding my wedding and it's taking a toll on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

15 February 2019 (F) - This isn't about my relationship with a partner. This is about my relationship with my mother who has been extra attached and possessive with me because my older sibling never became close to my mother and avoids her. Due to which I have always ...

My ex and his girlfriend have teamed up and are cyberbullying me on Facebook and Instagram

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2093 days ago

14 February 2019 (F) - My ex and his gf are bullying me online and I don't know why. I do not talk to my ex at all and I have moved on. I got a message on IG of her telling me to stay away from him which is weird because I don't have any contact with him and I am living ...

My Nigerian husband keeps asking for money and gets upset when I question him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2098 days ago

13 February 2019 (F) - Hello and thanks My husband and I have been married for two years. I love in Canada and he is from Nigeria. For the most part he treats me well he is very charismatic. Tells me he loves me many times predates. I’m working on his permanent vi...

I wish I could end all contact with my toxic mother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2097 days ago

12 February 2019 (F) - I feel so much hatred towards my ‘mother’ but I can’t cut her off because she threatens to kill herself. To put things into perspective, I am in my mid thirties now with a teenage boy who luckily doesn’t know the half of it. He just knows I don’t ...

Do I not deserve my life too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

10 February 2019 (F) - I'm a mother of 2 children ages 12 and 17. My ex husband and I divorced about 10 years ago. He was never really present in my children's lives until a few years ago when he realized I found a boyfriend and was afraid my boyfriend will take his ...

My boyfriend is preoccupied with his size and performance

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2098 days ago

10 February 2019 (F) - Recently my B/f has become paronoid about not being able to please me. He ususaly lasts a min or two and then that is it. Plus he worries that as he isnt as big as he would like to be that I might not be enjoying our love life as much as I could. ...

Has anyone ever lost their libido to this degree due to boredom and lack of emotional connection and was I selfish for not being a sexually dutiful partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2100 days ago

9 February 2019 (F) - Thank you to anyone who reads and responds to my post. I recently separated from a 9 year relationship, 4 years living together. I'm not sure if I have done the right thing but what I do know is that I am heart broken knowing I have broken his ...

We live together and have 3 kids but he hasn't talked to me in 7 days because of trust issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - Tomorrow will be a week since we last talked. My bf of 3 years, father of my 3 children, stopped talking to me unexpectedly. I am unsure why, though I suspect it could be because of a message from an old hs friend. The message was completely ...

My partner babysits his grandchildren and leaves me to fend for myself, after I’ve worked 14 hour days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - I work full time and am up at 420am each day. I often work until 6pm. I have a two hour break in between where I can come home then return to work. My partner is retired and spends his time at home. I do most of the cleaning on the weekends, the ...

On the one hand her behaviour is awful and she's constantly picking up fights but on the other hand she's very keen on moving in together! What's going on here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2105 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hi I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We're making plans to move in together soon. Everything was pretty much perfect until about 6 months ago when she started picking fights with me and usually there wasn't a clear reason, nothing I had do...

Money, my relationship, my girlfriend's friend and her boyfriend "chipping in". How do I deal with all of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hey, I been with my gf for 3.5 years. We are living apart due to finances. Throughout our relationship I have been supporting and providing. Recently I have not been able to due to my work, our meeting has been suffering, we are unable to do ...

She kissed another man and my feelings will never be the same!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2103 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - I and my gf were in a close relationship for 2 years and recently we moved to our respective cities and were in a long distance relationship for 5 months...and one fine day she called me and told that a guy kissed her in a weak moment and she didn't ...

Why was my boyfriend so weird about his phone? Is he trying to hide something from me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2101 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - I was at my boyfriends been together two years and I went to sit down on the bed and saw his phone there so picked it up to move it as soon as I picked it up he snatched it out my hand now I am thinking is he hiding something from me? Has anyone got ...

I’m miserable in our relationship and don’t know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2103 days ago

5 February 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my fiancé for 5 years now we split up for a couple of months last year we got back together but I told him things needed to change as soon as he gets home from work he starts getting stoned I go to work half hour after he comes ...

My mother-in-law is suddenly causing friction and problems in our marital life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2108 days ago

4 February 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been getting into a lot of disagreements/fights lately - mainly about petty things (money, household chores etc) but most have just built up over time. His mother has started to insert herself into this - and even when everyt...

I'm going out of my way to be good to his children as well as taking care of our family but all I'm reduced to is a mom and waitress.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2107 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - Hi I love my husband more than anything. He is a great dad and works really hard. However I am trying to think of ways to save our marriage as he just doesn’t see things from my point of view and very rarely listens to me unless it’s in an argum...

I'm tempted to move out while he's away at the wedding

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2107 days ago

1 February 2019 (F) - I am having severe mixed feelings . My fiancé and I have been together 3 years (engaged for 9 months now) . Long story short things were extremely on and off for the first two years until he finally realized what he had and asked me to marry him . ...