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writes:My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 years. Recently I have been seeing allot of things on his phone his name is connected to dating profiles 2 email addresses several text and history in his phone. I feel like he’s been looking and cheating on me and he becomes so angry and I just feel so heart broken because everything in me says he’s doing this. He gets very excited during sex if the porn is on to Where he will twitch. He says things like ya baby that’s it and and acts like he’s talking to me but he doesn’t even notice I’m not doing anything while he mastervates . He’s very much into the porn to the point if not knowing I’m even there and I can hear everything he says and can see how much he loves watching those women over me. . I’ve found many nacked photos on his phone dating sites and text. I just feel sick and broken. He gets so made everythime I show him something and swears it’s not him and those text or email have been there for other reasons. . I just don’t know where to turn because I’m so in love with him it’s killing me. He has let me sob and want to die and continues to get mad and says he’s nit done anything. I hate this because he’s really the only man where I could be me. I’m so sad help me please. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2019): I dated one who was addicted to porn and I thought men will be men and I had no issues with his porn addict till I found out that he in fact was seeing certain ladies and he was signed on to sex sites and chatting to them and meeting them.I then realised how foolish I have been. He saved their pictures on his photo album and I thought that he had gone too far, he told me these women were fantasy and unreal. I do not think saving these naked women on phone, computer is natural. It said that I did not turn him on as please do not get offended by me saying that you may not turn him on as I was not turning him on, I made me feel ugly and nothing compared to these women, although I know that I am a very attractive and hot women. I dress very sexy classy and I am a head turner but he broke me and I lost my confidence. I got out of the relationship, he may love me and yours may love you but if I am not good enough in the bedroom and if I have to compete with other women, I do not to be in that situation. Whether if I find a decent man or not I am happy without him for now and I never want to look back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2019): This guy sounds horrible and far far from a catch . I’m not sure why you say he was the only person where you can be you because it sounds like he wants every other woman in the world as besides you with all his porn use .
How on earth does that make you feel special or like you can be yourself . You do realise that you deserve better right ? You do realise that you don’t need to settle for some guy who behaves like that ?
If a monogamous relationship is what you want Why not find a guy who is satisfied with YOU sexually and doesn’t need other women ?
This guy sounds really sleazy to be honest
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