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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I friend zoned him, he is trying to be more, which annoys me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - I have known this guy for 4 months, everything was good and we had a very good connection. After a while, he started falling for me, he confessed his feeling to me and he wanted a relationship. He was so desperate for my love which turned me off a ...

Should I be ticked hubby didn't say I love you after I said it to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - Hubby of 5 years and I spent a lovely weekend together. Left the kids with his mom and took a romantic weekend for ourselves. It was fun and passionate until..... I told him "I love you." He didn't say it back because he doesn't want it to be...

He doesn't want children but I want one of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I feel like ive wasted my time , my boyfriend ( of 4 month) just blurted out he doesnt want kids .We havent talked about having any or any anytime soon. i dont know why he just said it , he already has 2 ( pre teen )but i always wanted one and he ...

I need insight and advice on coping with my mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I don't even know where to start... I just want to know if I'm crazy and overreacting or a horrible daughter. And what I can do to fix things or make things better, or at least regain my sanity. So the most recent event is that I got an am...

How do I tell if she ever felt anything for me or if does feel something for me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

27 February 2018 (M) - I met this girl 12 years ago. I had already been in 3 relationships my relationship with her. My first relationship lasted for 2 years. But it feels like she is the only girl that I have ever truly loved and the only girl I will always love. Anyw...

I feel I’m investing more than him! Should I break up with him even though I don’t want to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy since a year now. I am in love with him and I know so is he. However, I am an extremely emotionally dependent human, unlike him. I have always felt like I am investing more in this relationship. But to think ...

Am I a girlfriend or an atm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - so i met this guy some few months ago for us it was love at first sight or so i thought.we kept on dating and at some point he was broke and i would give whatever i had on me without him asking.later on he got the courage to start asking for cash ...

Close friend is abusive toward her husband, should I reach out to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I never really approved of their marriage, because she really rushed it and she is young, 23, while her husband and I are the same age, 29. They married 10 months after we all met despite everyone telling them to wait, because she kept pressuring ...

I've accepted his past so why can't he move past mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - Hi I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly two months is 19. When we first met (a couple of months before we started dating) we spoke about our body counts. I've been with a few guys and he's been with a few girls, nothing major or too far, just as you'd ...

We struggle to communicate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I have a question. I have trouble communicating with my boyfriend. We have problems and we are discussing them trying to work things out and find a solution. I tell him what the problem is ... simple example is I say he needs to work on his sle...

I don't understand his behaviour.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. I once got married and it already got annuled. My bf now is undergoing annulment. We've kniwn each other since we were i college but it never became us because of wrong timing. Everytime he'd be single, id have ...

My wife won't allow me to choose our son's name, constantly undermines me and hates me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

25 February 2018 (M) - My wife is 33 weeks pregnant with our first son. Today she started to fight with me. I had chosen a name for our child. She didn't even pay attention. I picked her up from the church today and she announced that she wants our son to be named by...

I have a new date but my ex has contacted me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Im not sure what to do , last year i started seeing someone who had mental health problems i was very flexi with him and would fit in with him to make life easier for him. id only been seeing him once a week for 2 month he would go silent on me to ...

Husband is making my life miserable because I told both our families of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Married for last 25 years. Husband had affair with girl 20 yrs younger to him 5 yrs back.. myself and my 15yr old son badly affected. I had to divulge the matter to my in-laws and my mother. They broke up last year. Last year my mom died. Before she ...

I can’t shake the things he told me! Am I being unreasonable and paranoid or is he lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - So from a very young age of around 13 I was always strongly attracted to my teacher he was a lot older than me but there was just something. Fast forward 7 years and we start speaking every day problem is he’s married. At first we talked very ...

My trust is in shreds and I don’t know how to move forward in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do about my life and my relationship and I need some help and advice. So I have been with my partner for almost 5 years now. The first two years we're challenging for us, I found messages, images etc. on his phone ( I know I...

Do I break two hearts by leaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

23 February 2018 (M) - I am a gay man and have been with my partner for almost 14 years. We married last year. I love him completely but over the last few years he has developed terrible depression and I can't lift him out of it. We have tried various things to keep ...

We've had 4 dates in 5 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - Hiya I’ve been with my partner for 5 years now we have had problems throughout the relationship due to him we hardly spend any time together. we’ve been for 2 meals and to the pictures twice in 5 years. it’s like he doesn’t want to be seen with me....

My boyfriend seems more interested in his XBOX than in me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and we have a really strong bond . Well we used to. He used to always text me and always call me and seemed to really care . But now when I need to talk to him he never answers because he’s on ...

Married boss claimed to love me, kissed me and has now blocked me! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Ok so basically me and this guy I work with who is assistant manager and is married.. used to get on so well. I used to call him my work bestie as we just clicked and always had a laugh. Over the past couple of months I feel him getting closer t...

My partner sleeps too much and it's irritating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - My partner works evenings, and he finishes work at midnight. I'm usually still up when he gets home around 12.15 and we go to bed shortly afterwards. Now, I get up around 9am (unless I am at university for the early lecture, then we both get up at ...

Am I in the wrong or not with regard to my situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Hi all. Im in deep need of advice to see if im in the wrong or not on my situation. Ive been with my guy for almost 6 yrs now. When I first met him, he was a drinker and a weed smoker. And thru the years he hasnt stopped either the drinking or the ...

My boyfriend's lack of initiative worries me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2+ years. I am his first serious relationship. Overall we have a good, caring, fun relationship. We are generally compatible in personality and values. He is caring, responsible and of good characte...

I’m pregnant and constantly worrying that he’s still in love with an ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - Sooo, I'll try to explain all this as well as I can. I'm sorry if It all seems a bit confusing. It's quite a long story. I have a boyfriend of nearly 3 months. I have known him for almost 4 years and am 5 months pregnant with his baby. The first ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend talks trash to me. Should I tell him that it hurts me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - I am pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. It was an accident. He wanted me to get pregnant tho. He was a player for a long time. He calls me names like whore, skank and bitch. He tells me to just deal with it. It's usually in bed but sometimes ...

I kicked my partner out of my house because of his hurtful comments. Advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - Yesterday I kicked my partner out of my home. He is 60 years old and has been a very high level banker in the past. We had a minor tiff when I confronted him (gently) by telling him I was hurt by a comment he made. I had shown him a mortgag...

Always feel trapped getting in to a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

18 February 2018 (F) - So I’m trying to analyse my own behaviour a bit here. Until recently I’d been in a three year relationship with a man. He was a classical musician so worked away a lot. When we first got together it was this exciting touring lifestyle he had...

Do I ask a friend to ask another friend why he's ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

17 February 2018 (M) - I feel silly asking this, but here goes: I have a friend, whom I'll call A, who I was friends with for decades. Over the last few years something has been up -- he has been avoiding me, and doesn't e-mail or call me. We have a mutual friend, ...

My boyfriend goes home goes out of contact for hours and doesn't get it that it bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Im frustrated with my bf. Hes been staying over at my apartment for almost the entire year. I go to med school about 5 hrs from where his dad lives. I like that he lives with me and we dont have many issues, except for every single time he goes ...

I love him, but his deception can’t go on!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts! I'm 29 years old and in an alleged relationship with a married man for the last one and a half year. It wasn't intended to happen cause we were only friends, but developed nonetheless. At first, he kept his marital status a secret from me....

A relationship with an attached man is making me feel so sad?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a man who lives with his baby mama for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving her and they are not really together but idk..He still live her a year later with no ...

She has a way of clawing herself back into my life! Insight needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi all, I started dating this girl in December 15. I was 25 and she was 22 and was a TA in my class. We eventually grew in attraction and one evening, it progressed. Initially I was reluctant and said no as she was my colleague but she pursued ...

How do I deal with my very difficult father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - My father is emotionally distant and is never respectful of me and my mother in public.As a father, He has never attended any of school events, has never allowed me to bring home friends, was emotionally unavailable all through my childhood. I ...

He talks marriage but I think he is just using me for sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - So I was with a guy when I was younger we didn’t date but we would make out etc teenager stuff right (No sex) it lasted like 4 years so I consider it a relationship he ghosted me and then 3 years later came to see me and we talked made out etc he ...

I want to start a business but struggle with anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - Im writing this today because I am turning 25 and I'm a failure. I so badly want to be a productive and sensible adult but I'm just a big child. I've failed in so many areas of my life it's laughable. I have no career, no super, I finally managed to ...

My husband doesn't understand how important my sister is to me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My husband recently lost his job. I told my sister immediately. My husband is now angry at me and said I should have asked if he wants me to make it public. I told him he cannot control me and that I share everything with my sister and also that my ...

He didn't get me a present for my birthday or Valentine's Day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into a huge fight, and in the end I decided to break it off with him because it was getting nowhere. Last year on my birthday, my bf didn't get me anything or take me out to eat anywhere. It was literally NOTHING. But I ju...

I was working towards a goal that doesn't exist now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but everyone on here gives good honest advice. I feel so lost. I was training for the job position higher than mine, and I moved to another department and increased my hours hoping that will leave a goo...

I treated her good but she ghosted me, I still want her back.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

15 February 2018 (M) - Asking for advice,over a year ago, my ex girlfriend ghost me, no contact since, she didn't even say goodbye,I didn't do anything wrong, but treat her special,what I am asking is ,would it be stupid, in my part to try to contact her,I know every one ...

I don't have a partner, it makes me sad. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I am 32 and single for nearly nine years. At this time of the year my loneliness feels suffocating and I’m finding it extremely difficult to cope with the fact that there is no telling whether I will spend the next nine years or more alone.Given my ...

He treats me like a friend, but gets catty when I talk to other guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and he shows interest but then he acts like we're just friends and gets jealous when I talk to other guys, I like him too but I want to know why hes being catty? If that what it even is, ...

We text and fight, then meet, make up then make out! Now he wants to be just friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I am in relationship from 4 months,we fight alot on texts.Almost every week we decide to break up.But when we meet, we just kiss amd make out ,there is no fight at all.Now again after fight he wants to be only friends.Will we be ...

Toxic relationship with my mother and my family have decided to completely ignore me since I don´t live with them anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - I need advice on a problem that is making me miserable, and it´s that my family are completely ignoring me and my mother was all that I had left but she is neglecting our relationship. This is not a new event, this has been going on since I was a ...

My girlfriend is insecure. What do I need to do from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

14 February 2018 (M) - I told my gf that we should catch up with an old friend of mine and she got jealous and upset. Ive known this friend for 15 years or so but havent seen them for 6-8 years, havent spoke to her for 3 years! Shes getting married and I tried to t...

Does she want to marry me or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

13 February 2018 (M) - I'm trying to seek advice on what to do next here, and what will be the best way to proceed. I asked my girlfriend to marry me about two months ago. She said yes, but not yet. The reasons she gave to wanting to wait, was that she felt she was so ...

He's driving me crazy, how do I get him out without involving courts or police?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - I'm back again with another question. I asked my last question in Novemeber, long story short, I was asking why I didn't want to marry my fiance, and I got most answered that suggested talking to him. So I did a few weeks later and told him I didn't ...

I can't give up the fantasy of a fairy tale ending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - The fear of being alone had led me to be alone - I have searched everywhere for a mate - online - bars - events - charity - church and nothing - when they have come out of the blue they have only made me miserable and empty- but I kept them just so ...

My boyfriend is sending other girls naked pictures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - Hi I have caught my boyfriend messaging other girls even to the point he was sending naked pictures I tried to forgive him but IDK if I really can I always worry about who he talking to so how should I break it of I don't think I can keep going on ...

I'm starting to think I am unlovable :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - I don’t know why it never works out for me. Every time I think it’s going to work out with a guy it ends up just being another dead end... My last actual relationship was a year ago with a guy I’m still in love with (and who apparently still ha...

My husband spends more time with his female co worker than he does with me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - My husband has a female coworker that he has been friends with for a while. They go out to lunch together and text each other here and there. I’ve never had a problem with this, I have male coworkers that I am friends with as well. My problem is ...