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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Fiancée's attitude makes me sick but how can I leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my fiancée of 2 years went to her parents house for her mom's birthday. It was there, her mother told the family she was sick. This is the wonderful woman who put my fiancée through school twice!, bought her a car when she ...

How do I deal with my father being a heavy presence in my life and the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - My beloved mom passed away 5 years ago. i am married and live 10miles away from my father who is single and has been living in the same house he's been living his whole life. The hose is clean because he has a cleaning lady but in terrible ...

I'm angry that my partner returned the iPhone he found to its owner

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - What would you do if you found a I phone? My partner found one by his car and it belonged to a woman because it had a case with flowers on to protect it and a photo of her and her fella. My partner said to see if she rang for her phone and if...

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, j...

How can I find that determination to just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a ...

How do I keep my college-age daughter from falling away from our church and family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I am a proud mother of six children from the ages of 27-10. I am a stay-at-home mom and part-time Sunday School teacher and I volunteer for many church activities as do all members of our family. All of our children attended or attend our small ...

My boyfriend doesn't hug or kiss me in front of his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Hello, I have been dating my BF for 9 months now. We are spending Thanksgiving at his mom's with his family. We are staying for the whole weekend because it's his birthday too. I am not sure why but I feel as he has been distance. He doesn't ...

He's been having long private secret lunches with drinks with a co-worker! Is this forgivable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Please help me. My husband has been having private lunches with a woman 10 years younger than him. The lunches turn I to four hours with drinks and no other coworkers are included. He has been doing this for four years and kept it a secret. We ...

I don't know whether my partner is tired of me or is having health issues and is depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

28 November 2015 (M) - my partner and i have been together 2 and half years.she is seperated for 8 years i am single after a 30 yr relationship.we are both in our mid 50,s and have seperate homes 40 m apart.our life rogether has been wonderful upto 3 months ago.previos to ...

My work has partnered with wife a terrible driving woman. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Hi, A few months ago the company I work for provided a "share drive scheme" What They do is buddy you up with another person in the workplace (they base this on who lives the closest together) and they provide you with a company car - which you ...

He admitted that he only knows two girls who are 'hotter' than I am and they'll be at an upcoming party

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were going to a party and I said as a joke "there are probably going to be really hot girls there" because he is very involved in sports so a lot of the girls that are in his friend g...

I'm married to a narcissistic verbal abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am married to a narcissistic verbal abuser and bully. My husband ostracized me from his children and their mother from a previous relationship. It's like I'm his dirty little secret not his wife. He is always giving me the silent treatment. W...

Why do I stay when he never uses my name?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I just need a bit of advice. I have been going with my boyfriend for about 2 years. He secretly goes dancing without me although he knows I would love to go too, and he never calls me by my name although I ask him if he can remember ...

How often is a partner in a relationship likely to come home drunk? His actions are causing me concern

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, for those cohabiting and/or married, how often does your partner come home drunk? My boyfriend comes home drunk once a month. We've been living together for half a year. He reaches home around 3,4am, reeks of alcohol and is terribly inco...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3289 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

What to do? My boyfriend will not stop talking about the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in soon, but their is one big issue between us. During our time we've dated until now recently, he was the one who drove all the time to pick and drop me up at my home. I don't have my own car. I rely on my mother to allow me...

Online Dating : is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Am I emotionally unavailable. Or is this a combo of both. I started online dating almost a year ago now and have met a few guys. I met one guy who was 10+ older than myself. He seemed very interested in me after our first coffee date and I went...

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

I do want you, I don't want you - is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I feel at cross roads in my relationship. I have been seeing and older woman for two years. We had a rocky start due to her constant lies over her spending time with her ex which resulted in lack of trust on my behalf still even now. I have always ...

Is it just sex, or does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - i used to work with this guy over a year ago we got on great but he had a girlfriend. I met him out on Halloween night and we ended up kissing. We were both quite drunk but he did say he had always fancied me and now he's single. Since then we've ...

He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't...

Is he a complete flake or are all men like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy on a dating site. I initially rejected him because he was much younger than me (9 years) but I thought he was attractive and agreed to have coffee. He was so flaky that we actually were never able to ...

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...

How much more can my heart take? Tired of being Mr Nice and getting no where.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - I tried again, am done being the nice guy, romantic, sweet talker, opening car doors ,poems,I've tried, an tried again, woman say they want to meet a good guy, well I've had it, am not going to be a bad boy, just don't give all I got. So ladies ...

Why does he act like this when I'm supposed to be the love of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hi I just want to know what others think to this. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. We don't live together yet but are planning to next year. He was my first love and after a number of years apart and us both having been married to other...

I lashed out at him. He says we are done. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I lashed out to my boyfriend for the 3rd time after a party again and now we are broken up. I lashed at him about his daughter but Ive been very stressed with him for the past couple of weeks. He just has not been nice to me and I was going to...

He wants to be a Daddy again. How can I get him to understand my feelings on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hiya I don't really know if I'm in the right place I could just really do with getting a bit of advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we've got two beautiful children together. Aged 2 and 3, I've just recently gone back to work ...

I want her in my life, but I don't understand some of her reactions. What's the best way forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection. She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...

Could my boyfriend have aspergers or ADD or a compulsive disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dea Cupid, My boyfriend is great but has some curious 'quirks' He plays computer games and then tries to rely on me to stop him because he cant stop himself and will otherwise play all night. He enjoys DIY and always has several projects ...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

My husband hates me while I'm working, then doesn't care about me when I lose my job! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3291 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm a newcomer to this country and I'm having troubles with finding a new job and my marriage. I got here few months ago, found a job which was my dream job since college. Bad news, got laid off weeks ago. It is a terrible feeling not having a job ...

My new boyfriend lives in a tip

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I went round to my new boyfriend's house. I was very shocked. The place is an absolute tip. The kitchen is stacked high with dirty dishes and the washing in piles, garden unkempt and bike parts everywhere. When he came over for dinner he brought a ...

I've been with him for almost 3 months, and I am struggling with the lack of sex. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3292 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my new boyfriend now for almost 3 months now. We met at work and he has been like a breath of fresh air since the last relationship I had was a seriously abusive one. Emotionally we get on pretty great, he treats me well and is kind ...

Why haven't I dumped him sooner? Why have I been so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3292 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The relationship has been really good but has definitely not been perfect; he has lied to me a lot. He first lied about being in touch with his ex, and carried on being in touch with her even after us ...

Please help me figure out how to deal with my awful in-laws!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Had enough of my in laws. None of them seem to understand what the word NO means. When my husband and I moved out, I thought they would stop. Still have my father in law dictating when we have my toddler daughter over. My husband is working after...

Was it OK to ask my landlord for a female property manager when viewing requested repairs? The male PM seemed annoyed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi, Guess I'm just looking for reassurance that I have done the right thing. I live in a rented flat and the landlord has a property Manager (PM) who does inspections which should only be done every 6 months or so or if I request a repair. Anyway...

He thinks I'm sleeping with someone else. I find his remarks offensive. What reply to him is appropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I met up with my children's father today. We have not been getting on as there is a real communication problem and I find it a turn off. I feel like I do not know him. We have never lived together which has also been a problem as I have just had...

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

I have recently come out as bisexual. Any advice on dealing with homophobic family members with ingrained prejudices, some micro aggression and some homophobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I have recently come out to myself and close friends as Bisexual but I haven't to my family. They are not outwardly homophobic but are generally full of micro-agressions and ingrained prejudices. My grandparents are super homophobic and w...

New baby, but he will not lift a finger to help in any way. What can I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend 3 years we had a bavy girl 10 months ago I have now realised how lazy my boyfriend is he does nothing to help me with our daughter even after a emergency c section I have done everything I clean the ho...

Why is he choosing to treat me with less fairness than he shows to the rest of the staff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I started working at a car dealership, in their admin team 14 months ago. From day 1 the sales manager took an instant dislike to me and I don't know why.... If I would ever say "morning" to him he'd r...

He thinks I should be flattered by his remarks, which I find hurtful. How should I respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I'm really upset about what my boyfriend has said and I'd like some opinions about whether I'm overreacting or not. I met my boyfriend on plenty of fish. For some reason he thought it would be a good idea telling me who else was talking to him w...

What did my friend mean by this question?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3293 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi, looking for sum advice, My male friend who I have known since we was 16. In the past week his wife had kicked him out, any cut a long story short, I offered him my spare bed untill things got bk on track (I try help friends much as poss), A...