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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't handle being pregnant and not sure what to do all alone! Why isn't he helping me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Heyy hii everyone.... I am in a grave problem. Help! I and my bf are in a relationship since 5 years. Though we love each other a lot now, but in past my bf's history is not that good. In first yar of our relation, he left me alone and ignored me. ...

Does he love me, why does he talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - i first met my second cousin in 2010,when we were introduced to each other by our grandparents. we don't know anything more about each other and we see each other only one or two times a year. but,whenever he see me,he comes up and talks with me as ...

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a seriou...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

I've got a boyfriend but I have a HUGE crush on his cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Ohkay , so im dating this guy ( lets say his name is ... bob ) bob and I are really close and i really love him , we broke up and then got back together. ( , but when we got back together we werent as close )anyway so then me and his cousin started ...

The sex has gone to zero, he said we'll try again soon, 2 months later, still zero. Though he still watches porn. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for just over a year now, our sexlife was great literally like rabbits! But within the past year it's become non existent. He's 6 years older than me, (im 20) but has never bothered us. I know he's not cheating on me that's ...

Broke up with my cheating boyfriend and now I am pregnant, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I have just found out that i am pregnant and i am absolutely devastated. My ex put me through hell for the past 2 1/2 years with constant lies, cheating and disrespect. He has alot of issue with porn addiction gambling etc and is involved in crim...

We've been together for 6 months but now he's pushing me away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I'm gonna make this quick. In college, just been diagnosed with epilepsy, secretly depressed - family thing I just can't talk about it. I've been with the most amazing guy for six months, we really love each other. Well I thought we did. I love him ...

My teenage daughter is breaking the family apart!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been married for 10 years and when I met my husband he inherited my 3 children too who were very young at the time, we have also had a child together... I had just left a violent marriage 6 months earlier and we were all still recovering (the ...

I'm telling the truth now, how do I get him to accept that and have faith in me again?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I admit to lying quite as lot to my boyfriend about being on some internet sites. That was a few months ago now. Since I stopped going to these sites, he has now stopped believing me. We break up every week, get back together and have a real loving ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

She said my 'offer' isn't good enough?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and I recently asked her to move in with me. However she turned me down. I'll admit we've had our arguments over the years, mainly because she kept saying she thought I acted single but I've never ...

Did I over react when I dumped him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend - I guess now ex boyfriend - is in his late 40s. We were dating a year and a half - exclusive for a year and 3 months. Over that time, I brought up the future several times. I want marriage and a kid and am ready to start nesting. He ...

I wonder if he could actually care for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I met someone on holiday five years ago. It was clear we liked the look of each other but nothing ever happened. He found me on facebook somehow when he got home and three years later we were still texting every other week. Last year he asked me...

I found out he has another girlfriend but he wont admit it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been toghter 16mnts an I recently found out he's been seeing another women.Although he still tries to hide her she makes herself well known around da neighborhood DAT they are toghter my problem is he will not admitt it an ...

Why do I think of him every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - i wrote a little while back about the affair i had. im still trying to put it behind me. i see that guy frequently out and about with his new gf. it hurts soo bad. its like it didnt even happen to him. i didnt get how little i meant to him until ...

I don't trust my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I do not trust my boyfriend. We've been together 4 years, don't live together but have talked about moving in together in the near future. We have problems in our relationship but the biggest one is I just don't trust him. I'm always questioni...

How can I have a conversation with him about this without being arrested for a domestic dispute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - After 25 years of marriage I have come to realize my husband is a liar...about big and small things. I do not trust him at all, and I find it difficult to believe anything he tells me, even if it's about the weather!! I want to confront him abo...

I mentioned my ex and now this man has blocked me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - When I was in college a guy lived next door and I lived there until the end of college and moved and he went to michigan we were just friends and neighbors. He came into town not to long ago and low and behold his aunt is next door that he was ...

He's a sweet and wonderful guy, but he never wants to go out and do anything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is gentle and makes me laugh, is loyal and sweet, helps me when I need it, makes sure I'm safe. I love him too, but things are getting just.. Ridiculously boring. I love going on walks when the weather is good, or to the beach...

What sort of relationship is this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I have a situation that which I know I should run for the hills and be done with this relationship but I am struggling. My boyfriend and I met 3 years ago during a LDR. We met up half way every 2-3 weeks and eventually he met my kids and would co...

She is a really nice girl but I don't have strong feelings for her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (M) - I have started seeing this girl who I know for 2 years now. I was never attracted to her but she made a pass at me a few months ago and now we have started dating. I still dont have very strong feelings for her but she is a really really nice girl. ...

I am sick of being depressed and it is as if he just doesn't care.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am having problems with my husband not supporting me emotionally. I have depression and anxiety disorder. I become irrational when I feel someone has done me wrong. Multiple times I have gone to my husband in need of emotional support and he ...

Is my new boyfriend a tight wad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I met a 45 year old lovely guy who said he is ' careful with money' On our first date he asked if I was going to buy the second round of drinks.I laughed and said it was only a coke both times but felt embarrassed me made the point. Then we agreed ...

We don't make love anymore, we just have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship as of about a year ago. We have been together for 3 years. The last 3 times we have been together we hardly make love and is more like sex. This past weekend we were together after not seeing each other for 4 ...

Should I ditch my boyfriend of 3 years because he's moving to NYC for a year or two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My bf of 3yrs is going to NYC for 1yr (maybe 2) He is 25 and I will be 30 this year. At first I was supportive. That he applied to go and got through. Now he is leaving in 2dys and when I think of it I get angry. He expects it will be fine and...

I am beginning to hate the husband I once loved like life, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, my problem lies with my marriage. We married out of love 4 years ago. Have a daughter and live far away from home. Recently I have been feeling less love for my husband that it disturbs me a lot. I don't feel any pinch when I see him ...

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The proble...

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and ...

Whose move next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - A man I like, whom I met several months ago and have bumped into a couple of times asked for my number when we randomly saw each other one evening a few weeks ago. I had a missed call 2 weeks ago and I sent a text back to say I saw the missed call ...

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always lik...

Twenty eight and throwing tantrums

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My lovely live in boyfriend has some sort of anxiety and depression. He has spoken to people about it in the past, and been on antidepressants before my time. His recount on things I've said or scenarios that have happened where he ended up getting ...

My ex treated me better than this boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I was in a relationship for 9 yrs with my ex boyfriend who I dumped a year ago since the relationship was going no where and there was lot of trouble as it was a long distance relationship. After breaking up I immediately got into another ...

Why would they be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Two childhood sweethearts. . Looked me up after twenty years.. One grade school kept in touch more than the other from Jr high.. they have children and our grandparents. .and from different states .. I finally have a four old daughter and am not ...

I feel betrayed, and I want to be happy again. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Ok my question is how do i get over a relationship that i just got betrayed and put all my effort into. i feel heartbroken and miserable every night i have been drinking every day and i still cant get over this. i look on social media and she is p...

They are all vain, shallow and racist. Will I be alone for ever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm a 19 year old gay guy who's never been in a relationship. And I feel really terrible about it. I hate feeling lonely and depressed all the time. But I feel like I'll be alone forever. I know it seems like it should be but the gay community ...

Should I run or risk a broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hello, well I've been talking to this women on line, we get along ,seems real good, but I think there is some red flags poping up, her car broke down she says, talk to her on the phone she seemed drunk, she told me she was raped about two years ...

The ex stayed with the family for the funeral so why not me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hi So I am after some opinions as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly but that's ok, maybe I dese...

My girlfriend has been texting a much younger man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Here is a the concern two weeks ago I found out that girl I have been dating for five years and living with four and a half was texting a younger man. I found this out one night awhile she was sleeping with phone still in her hand. The text were ...

Online friend won't talk to me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been good friends with a man online for over a year now, we chat nearly everyday and take the piss out of each other. We sometimes have disagreements but always resolve them by talking. A day ago I posted something funny on Facebook and...

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of ...

He's gone fishin' and I'm here all alone ..... again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hello I've been with my boyfriend of two years. We have a great relationship until summer comes around. Every summer My boyfriend loves to salt water fish and his summers are filled with tropical trips to the islands and lots and lots of fishing. I ...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

I feel suffocated by my girlfriend and have lost all my friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year. I am a uni graduate, where she is didn't study after school. She is currently in part time employment and I'm studying. Is it normal to give your girlfriend first priority for eve...

My boyfriend often gets angry at me for no reason and offends me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is getting angry all the times these days. He goes on weeks without talking to me. He gets angry if i talk about my work related issues or if i forget to buy his stuff or ask him to pick me up from work or to take me ou...

My partner of 7 years left me. I am trying to give him space but I want to start again from the beginning.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My partner has just broke up with me 11 days ago. We where together 7 years and have lived together for most of this. in the last 3/4 months we where planning on moving abroad to work for the summer. we gave up are house and moved in with his mum ...

I found an empty condom wrapper and a phone number in his clothes after he came home from a stag party!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I think I'm over thinking this but I need another view point on this one. What would you think if your boyfriend came home after a stag party, and then the next morning you found an empty condom wrapper in his pocket along with a phone number ...

Am I wrong for shaving my head even though my gf prefers it long?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm a young guy with an extremely noticeable receding hairline. I'm cool with shaving my head, I think it's comfortable and looks alright on me..but my gf hates! She makes me grow my hair out and it looks ridiculous. Am I wrong for ...

My boyfriend is too truthful!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We both Graduated from college; where I met him. He's trying to start up his legal justice career and I'm on the same path for child and youth studies. We've lived together for about a year ...

My friend ditched me when I was going to the hospital. Why did she get angry?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - A friend of mine recently got very angry with me, without me understanding why. I was wondering if you could help me with this. I had become quite sick, and wasn't getting any better. I was talking to my friend that Saturday, and she asked me how...