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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am ready to end this relationship! I'm tired of being alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I am sitting here in tears as I type this.... my so called 'partner' has given me no time at all this Christmas and the final blow...he has just told me he is apparently going round to his mums tonight instead of spending it with me the way he usual...

I feel so guilty about how I act, but how to communicate this to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I always feel like i am being used for sex. I know rationally this isn't true, but I can't help feeling that way and it ruins all of my relationships. I was in an extremely manipulative relationship from 15-20 in which I was definitely used ...

He doesn't mention me on facebook so I don't feel special to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - So I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what. But i have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We both have a Facebook and there's something really bothering me. He doesn't mention me or anything about me on there. It bothers me because all the ...

Was she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has pa...

I want to find a special girl but I am too shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, bit of a long question here. So I am a 22 year old male who has never dated or even kissed a girl. I hadn't really thought about it until recently. Seeing quite a few of my friends getting into relationships be it through Facebook ...

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a ...

I need to move on, how should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, yet, he hasn't talked to me about marrige. He knows that I would like to get married and have kIds but I'm 28 he's 29, and I feel like I'm getting to that point where I need to move on. How should I bring u...

Now that she appears to have moved on I miss her in my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Can someone help me understand this. I broke up with this girl about 7 months ago and I wont go into what happened and why I ended it. But it wasn't a nice break up, I ended it in a terrible way, unintentionally of course but as a result I was a j...

How can I cope with the pressure to marry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - How can I become immune to the social pressure from family and friends to get married and 'settle down' already? I'm in my twenties, in a happy longterm relationship and still studying. We have a three year plan regarding starting a family. I ha...

I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than ...

Cheater Cheater!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ...

Younger guys are attracted to me, but I would like to date an older guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Just a simple question.... I hope :) I seem to attract all of the younger guys. It must be me. :/ Im only 23 and I just need an older, more mature man and I wanna know guys of age 25+ what do you find attractive in a woman? I can be childish...

Should I give up now or wait and hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can give me some guidance with a problem I have. I have been seeing my partner for a year now and I'd say it's a beautiful relationship. We get along fine and don't have any problems. We have little rows now and the...

I have a neon sign above my head saying "AVOID HER"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - hello, need to ask a question, appreciate answers. I don't think people like me much,or are drawn to me, when I meet them, ie in a group, one to one, or in any social situation. Im a quieter person, yet 9/10 times I'm the one saying "hi" wh...

Boyfriend spends no time with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi there iv bin seeing this boy for bout 3wks know and he has said we are girlfriend n boyfriend but every time I ask him to spend time with me he says yes then when it come to it he doesn't answer any off my phone calls or text! He said he needs ...

How do I convince my girlfriend to have an abortion?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - Hello All, Need your help urgently on a matter. I am 28 and my gf is 31 and we have a relationship of 3 years that is not approved by either her family or mine as we have different religions. All through 2013 we have been having problems ...

I hurt my ex badly. Could he be trying to hurt me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I am in a serious emotional roller coaster dilemma. I am currently in Switzerland with my ex and battling emotional issues. Well we met 15yrs ago. He was nothing but nice to me. Although I took advantage of him and didn't really care because ...

How do I find balance in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Ive been with my partner now 10 months. He is great with my son who Is 5 yrs old and we live together now.we seem to get into arguments because of me I admit that.i have a very hard time letting go over some past things and I no that I shouldnt be ...

More time apart than we've been together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for two weeks. We get along great and we really enjoy being with each other. I've been sleeping in her department the past few days but we haven't had sex yet because she "didn't feel completely sure yet", in her ...

Who should I choose?? my boyfriend or my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hii guys, i am a freshman in college. My mom found out that I was dating my friend for 4 months already. She got super pissed, and and she forced me to break up with him. She also forced me to promise her to never date him or be with him ever again. ...

Does he deserve somebody who will love him as he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on my situation. I have been with my partner for about a year and a half. It has been amazing. He is the most genuine caring person and i love him to bits. My problem is, I...

I feel my privacy is being invaded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I've been having an issue lately concerning those around me and my private life. For starters many of my friends this year have gotten married, are in committed relationships, and have kids. Since this has come to the attention of my mother and ...

He feels our relationship is not healthy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for almost a year now. Everything was great and he always treats me like a queen. But recently, we started to fight over stupid little things. Due to that, he has tri...

I feel he is behaving badly on purpose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Why is he being like this? Should i cut him off? We've been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. I told him I wanted to take things slow as he kept asking me to be his girlfriend after the first date. We hit it but he's now coming off as bi...

I keep self sabotaging potential relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I''ve got a really bad pattern when it comes to guys. I meet someone I'm attracted to, I assume that they would never consider a relationship with me, I have sex with them and then freak out because I assume that they would never want to date me, ...

Blocked from facebook after first meeting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - The other night, I went to a bar with some friends. It's a bar where we go quite often. There is this guy who I always see there as well. He usually look at me a lot but never talk to me. It's been going on for about a year. I never really was ...

Finally reaching my breaking point in my relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I have reached my breaking point in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year in February. Here lately we have been fighting non stop! Today we have fought since last night! I am so tired of fighting but I ...

My girlfriend's previous lovers made her come but I can't seem to

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - Hello Aunts! I am a 20 year old male who has been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She is the only woman I have ever been intimate with. My problem is that I cannot make her orgasm except by rubbing her clit and she is getting very...

I have been chatting with a possible scammer online

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

29 December 2013 (?) - I have been chatting with this guy online and on my email and we haven't met each other yet. He was telling me that he would be away in Africa for the holidays and won't be back until Jan5th. He said he is anxious to meet me and I am having some ...

My boyfriend's boss pulled me on his lap. Was he flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - So I was at my boyfriend's Christmas party recently and his boss, who is married, grabbed my hips and pulled me onto his lap while my boyfriend and I were standing beside the table he was sitting at (we were saying our goodbyes to everyone at the ...

I would like to know where my boyfriend is during the day, and night, 24/7.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hi all, I would like to know if its too much for me to ask my bf about his whereabouts. By asking about his whereabouts I mean just asking him his plans for the day and what he'd be doing, not the crazy gf sort of asking every hour. Personally I ...

I am too attatched and clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I have a problem and I'm really hoping someone else has gone through this and can help me. I feel as if I'm too attached and clingy to my boyfriend. Not to like an obsessive point, but more like I'm with him as much as I can be, I drop everything ...

I haven't heard from him since we had sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi i met this man in April this year we had 4 dates i really liked him and we got on really well but due to problems on his side nothing came of it now boxing day we got back together he is still having the same problems not heath wise but family ...

Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when ...

Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his ...

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people ...

He promised to spend New Year's Eve with him but cancelled to be with his friend. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've dated my boyfriend for a year and out of the blue the past January he broke up with me. He became easily influenced by his mates as they broke up with their gfs and were single and he was the only one attached at the time. We spend New Year's ...

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

I love him so how can I tell him I am not ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years. I love him very much, but like most young love we have problems. A few months ago he told me he didn't love me anymore, we didn't talk for 2 or 3 weeks but like always we kissed and made up. All of a ...

I'm standing up to my controlling boyfriend and he's getting more and more mad at me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Dear all. Please help. I.ve been seeing my bf for around two and a half years. I used to chase him like mad,and initiate contact. He is a controlling person,and got used to me doing that,and took advantage. I totally changed my pattern around two ...

He keeps throwing my past relationships in my face!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hello everyone ! I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I love my boyfriend but lately things have been going downhill. He can't let go of my past. I don't know how he found out I hooked up with a guy before him and he keeps th...

I told her I was socially awkward and she laughed it off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I spent a day with a girl I like and her friend. I'm kinda socially awkward and didn't say much to them at all. It was really ridiculous on my behalf. She did say that she wanted to see me again so I don't think I came off too weird or creepy. So ...

Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even thoug...

Problems from my past are affecting sex and love in the present!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3973 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - my man would like to have sex with lights on and be able to see me naked ,but I don't have any confidance in how I look I am 45 but am a size 10 ,but have issues from a rape yrs ago and in my marrage when I tried to spice things up in bedroom dept ...

We met, then nothing, then we met, had sex, and now again I hear nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hi really hope someone can give me some good advice i met a man in july met up a few times had a few dates then i heard nothing for a month until a text saying he is in a awkward situation which he genuinely was we talked on Christmas eve and ...

Is this a double standard? She did not like me using harsh words. So why is it OK for her to do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend were leaving a pub, and we were joking around, and then as we were talking I saw my coach there, and I accidentally let a word along the lines of go away but more harsh. It was a slip. She got really mad at m...

I've stopped chasing him and making myself available. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I need some advice regarding my boyfriend, possibly ex. Anyway, we've been together 3 years. Up until a few months ago we'd see each other all the time but due to new work schedules we'd started seeing each other on the weekends and during the week ...

I wasnt a priority his life, so I broke up with him, did I do right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me out and maybe guide me on a decision I made. I broke up with my boyfriend of about 4 months today and I guess I just need to see if people think I did the right thing as I know what I am like, I will do ...

Do we break up now - with a wedding in vicinity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I had a habit of saying its not working anymore and lets break up which used to have a dramatic affect on my year old bf and he used to do everything possible to pacify me and drop the argument. However today he was done with me and said I am not ...