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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The Crying Game: what to do other than leave this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Im 40 years old and tired of a four year relationship with a 33 yaer old woman who cry's all the time. Ive asked and tried to comfort but she does it and has done it so much it infuriates me to hear her whiney voice and its always over attention she ...

I feel I missed out, I've only ever been with my wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I married 20 yrs I know all my wife's sex partners. We went to high school I've even know what they did because she told me year 20yrs ago. I have seen her have sex with one at a party. I cant get it out of my head its driving me crazy . I have ...

Should I feel guilty? My ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids, we haven't had sex in over 2 years, and I have started seeing someone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - my ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids we have had no sexual relations in over 2 years he hasn't even tried. he doesn't kiss me or tell me he loves me. He doesn't even touch me in anyway. I have talked to him about it. he said ...

I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm not sure if I did the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I dated my boyfriend for 8months and we started drifting apart. I attributed it to the fact that he was working at that time (it was vacation. We're both college students) so maybe that's why we couldn't hear from eachother much. That was actually ...

How do I get my girlfriend out of my house? I'm sick of her lies and her cheating...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating a girl for almost two years. She has constantly lied and told me she was not talking to guys. She talks to guys that don't help her I help her financially and emotionally, and I have taken care of her when she is sick or car ...

Need some help reading the signs from this girl....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc.. Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping ...

I'm so tired of my mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Ok well, this is pushing me to the limit I can't handle this any more I think there is some thing wrong with my mom. She wakes up at 330am every morning because she makes coffee right next to my room because the kitchen is next to my room, so ...

He cant be bothered with intimacy anymore, am I wrong for wanting more than just companionship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to want more than companionship?? Hi I'm in a relationship with a guy who I've known 10 yrs. I'm in my late thirties. My relationship has been a Rocky one. He has always been the one running back and I have allowed this. The last 6 mths ...

I'm trapped in a loveless relationship. Should I just pay him to leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Trapped in a loveless relationship. I am not married. I've been in a on/off relationship for 8 yrs. my problem is that after a split of around 9 mths I stupidly got back with my ex. He had lived with his mother most of our relationship which had ...

He tells me that he loves me because I love him and it feels good to be loved my someone. Is that enough???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on a trip and we'll be staying the night together at a hotel. I thought we would sleep together (for the first time), but he wanted to get a room with two separate beds. This bothered me because why wouldn't he want to ...

I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear from ...

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to ...

Need advice! Is he genuinely interested or just wants sex or some action?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This a guy I met at a party who's going to the same school as me next year, and we started talking on facebook. We would talk for 3~7 hours a night and we have really entertaining conversations. I can't tell what his intentions are, and I'd really ...

Boyfriend borrowed money and then lied about paying me back. What is going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi I've been with my BF for 3 years. About 6 months ago he borrowed some money and promised to pay it back the following month. It hadn't appeared so I casually asked if he had paid, he said yes, I thought it was just taking a few days but 2 weeks ...

How do I handle this unwanted breakup? And yet he still says he wants to be my 'friend.' Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi i have had terrible times with my guy friend. we have been really good friends ever since 2011. We have been very close and had intimate sex. But every-time he tells me he doesnt feel for me more than a friend. So finally in the month of Nov...

Why is it that he can afford this rent and living expenses now, when he said he couldn't when we moved in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He has been living with me for over 2 but he has always called it my place. He claimed he couldn't afford to split the rent ($1200/month) so instead contributed $300 a month plus we take turns ...

Confused as to why he keeps threatening to go to prostitutes if I do something he doesn't like!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - im in relationship with w for more then five years. the only thing i promised him was that i will never leave him or for sure i will never betray him. but i will leave him if i get to know that he is with other girls. if any girls cross into our ...

Should I submit and be treated like dirt because I'm pregnant or should I simply abort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old 2 weeks after meeting a guy I discovered how rude, controlling, short tempered and impolite he is and so I ended it. Now I jus discovered I'm pregnant I text him messages telling him of my suspicions and he has flatl...

Ways in which I can get my emotions out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This question should be realitively short, but basically i'm trying to find ways to get my emotions out? And it sound strange, but I need help. I have one or two mental health disorders, and I have always beleived the reas...

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which w...

Is this normal? Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. What can I do?

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29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me? We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess. I'm ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

Why will he not tell me the truth? Is my husband gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 years. In the beginning of our relationship he put a porn video on to see if I'd be willing to watch it with him. Just a few seconds on there was a shemale on the screen. He quickly turned it off and said he didn'...

Have I messed up any chance of having a friendship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-my-feelings-for-her-how.html because I thought I had feelings for this girl I know. I mean I still think I do but this could easily get confusing and too complex so I'll ...

I want to get my ex out of my head and have a normal life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - I was in a very tumultuous relationship for 2 years. My ex and I really loved eachother but her behaviors because of her rough past caused many arguments. I, on the other hand escalated situations. We broke up in a major way 3 times but we would ...

I feel isolated and hopeless to ever have a good relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I have been in a second time around relationship with a passive aggressive man. I understand he will not take responsibility for his actions, and will simply be contrary in order to evade "giving in" to me. He had insisted that we become engage...

The longer I'm with my b/f the more I worry about his past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Here's my problem...i need to know how i can stop worrying about my past. Im 19 and in my second sexual relationship....i feel each to their own but my personal feel about sex is that it is something to be done with someone you love..i never had a ...

My friend's behavior hurt and embarrassed me. Does everyone think I'm just a fat slob begging for food?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So there's this girl, whom I'm friends with. We're not best friends, but we do go out for coffee, we hang out with other friends, etc. I though she was so nice, and that she liked me also. Today she was with some people (who I also know). I sa...

I need help in ending a 2 year relationship. She has done nothing wrong and I don't know how to do this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Need help ending a relationship. Even thought marriage counselor looked at me and said "do not start a new relationship" when my divorce started I did. The person was wonderful and supportive and sweet and I can say nothing but nice about h...

My friend hurt me and I'm wondering should I give her the chance to do it again or send her packing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nasty ...

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

I miss talking to her! Will time bring her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - i still love this girl so much it hurts and i feel like crying. we tried being friends the first 3 weeks of our breakup. but she said i act crazy asking how she is i slipped i love you a few times as well. sex jokes with friends and simple stuff ...

How can I forgive myself for letting him treat me so badly and make sure it doesn't happen again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I spent two and a half years in a relationship with a man who treated me horribly. This man was abusive, manipulative and sexually violent, and always found a way to make things my fault. He said horrible things to me and made me feel like I was ...

I want to break up with my secret b/f but I'm scared he'll tell my parents and ask for his christmas gift back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years... He is smart funny sweet gentle loves me a lot... My parents don't like him and made us break up but we got back together and they don't know. On top of that Christmas he gave me a really nice gift that I ...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

My ex guy friends are not responding on phone. Do they feel threatened that they don't have control over my life now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally ...

I want him to end the friendship yet he won't. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have a male friend who is currently going through a divorce. We were friends for several years, however, he tends to be a bit self absorbed and while I have listened to his problems for the past several years, he has not been exactly atte...

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing ...

He didn't want a relationship, so why has he contacted me after 2 months of no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I had a relationship with a man for 5 years. in the beginning we had sex, but after 6 months it became just friends as he didn't want a relationship with me. For the next 4.5 years I struggled with being just his friend as I loved him deeply. ...

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one ...

He calls me immature for questioning his relationship with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for five years and have a three year old twins. His ex girlfriend, who is also his other child mother is a serious problem in our relationship. He cheated on me with her multiple ...

Did she cop out of the relationship and choose her career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Did she Cop out ? We were together for 1 year and like any couples we have our ups and downs.Im not perfect and never claim to be but then again who is? The last 4 months have been a right test for both of us because we were going to move in toget...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

How to get my boyfriend to gain his feelings back ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - So once again my boyfriend and I are having issues. He told me he Lost feelings and interest in me .. He said he wants me to make him get those feelings back. I have no clue how to do that :( I feel that after I see him tomorrow I will be a single ...

I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dis...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...