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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I shake off this feeling that he does not love me? Could be be using me for something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I am seeing a man from Africa. I don't know how he feels about me nowadays. Nor if he loves me. We only see each other once a week. I am american and am used to a lot of attention when I am in a romantic relationship. He works and goes to sc...

Was I wrong to ask if she would mind scanning her notes? And why did she say yes, and then not bother? And now ignores me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I ...

Maybe I shouldn't have gone looking for proof. Should I now ask my Mom if it's true about her former job in pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I just found out that my mom is or used to be a porn star. Although, I've heard about this from my cousins who I meet once a year on thanksgiving. Naturally, I thought that was lies, and figured that they were just trying to mess with my head. The...

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up...

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. Sh...

My boyfriend is respectful and caring but indifferent about love, what's the story?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Whilst he behaves is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or I should be a little patient with him? He ...

Our relationship is falling apart since he moved away, is it even worth trying anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend went away for college to play baseball and our relationship is falling apart, is it even worth the heart ache to continue trying? We dated for 2 years in high school, then all of a sudden he broke up with me the summer before we...

He acts like he wouldnt care if I disappeared and I know I need to be more confident and act stronger, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much, and really want to keep him and have a life with him. But over the last year i have noticed that i sort of move around him. For example, there was one time when he said he didnt want to be with me, and i tried to say f...

It seems like my girlfriend is getting too close to her male friend, they act like we did when we first started dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, ...

My child's father treated me badly but wants another chance, but I'm with someone new! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - i got involved with a guy in the university and in our final year i got pregnant and asked me to abort and i refused by then i was 29years of age so i told my mum about it an she called him to asked if he knew i was pregnant for him,accepted and ...

He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life but I still love him, should I stay or go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 1 and 1/2 years. He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life. He doesnt want me to be around his friends, co-workers or his family. I have only met 3 of his friends and recently met some of his co-workers only because ...

What would you think if your other half seeks emotional support from the opposite sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas......

In love with a drug addict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - there is this guy. he is a couple years younger than me. i'm 22 he is 20. i've known him for about 3 years. he has extreme depression and social anxiety. he is extremely shy and it was a lot of work to build a friendship with him. we have only hung ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Was she testing to see if I'm actually interested? Should I ask her out? Or was she just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

My Bf claims I'm not a REAL girlfriend. Is he right, wrong, or something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. I'm 22, his 23. He was a sweet guy and totally loveable in the beginning. I'm studying full time and I'm working part time and I currently live with my parents. I pay rent and bills and I'm getting my car s...

He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating ...

What can I do? I'm in love with a man and I'm in love with my professor who is a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is...

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...

I really want to forgive him and move on but I can't trust him any more.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi all, and thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are generally very happy. In general, it is a perfect relationship. Unfortunately, recently I found out that he slept with someo...

Why do people in relationships play so many games with one another?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I am a very honest person, in a good way. But i dont believe in lying or sugar coating. (im not an overbearing or rude person at all, i say everything as politely as possible i just know some people dont like it) So i dont understand why ...

How to get friendship back after breaking trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - i'm the most horrible person in the whole world. i had a best friend(S) of 14 years i lived with for 7 years who did a lot for me, supported me in all ups and downs of life and even paid for my school and bills when i couldn't work just to make me ...

Couples in Transition

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29 November 2012 (M) - Couples in Transition By Frank Kermit, Relationships When a couple is going through a change in the status of their relationship they are a couple in transition. This includes couples that are transitioning from monogamy to non-monogamy, from no...

We have sex 3 times a week but this isnt enough for me, any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a very healthy sex life. I loe to explore and try new things. I could have sex several times a day if my partner would let me. I have never had a man turn me down for sex before but my current partner stops me from touching him sometimes. He ...

We were planning to meet then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - hello i know you have answered this similar question many times but i honestly need help to let this go! i met this guy on face book. 2months ago.he seamed so amazing. we talked a lot, exchanged many photos and videos, called each other all the ti...

We hardly ever see each other, how can we fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I am having some problems with my boyfriend at the moment. We have been together for over 3 years now, but sometimes I don't feel like I am in a relationship at all because I hardly ever see him. A lot of this is to do with work, as I work during ...

I havent heard from him for 2 weeks and I'm really worried about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hiya everyone, My partner usually calls 2-3 times a week, he doesnt like to text or email if at all possible. but after i last saw him nearly two weeks ago, i havent heard anything from him. ive emailed and texted to make sure he is al...

I'm worried my boyfriend is going off me, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - lately me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot we have a 2 month baby together and i know his not happy about our living arrangements til we get our place and lately he seems to want to go out quite a lot instead of spending time with me and ...

My sad and depressed moods are affecting my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been feeling sad and depressed for the past year and i don't know how to deal with it, i am always moody even my period has stopped coming regularly. I have started a new job about 4 months ago however its a long distance wi...

Why make happy holiday memories when we are having a hard time, and even might break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and we have had a lot of problems recently with money and changing jobs and living apart after living together due to his work placement. Anyway, I have often been really angry at him and ...

My boyfriend cheated...should I take him back?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs has cheated on me with another woman that he said he knows for many years. He said is nothing serious, he helps her out when she needs him and he can count on one hand how many times he had sex with her while we been ...

What do I say to my ex when she comes to see me to get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of a year ended our relationship over things I've done. I feel like a part of my soul has been taken. She has given me chance after chance, and I've blown it each time. All I need is for a fresh start, and one more chance to prove that ...

Why does he not want to chat with me anymore? He said he'd marry me but then started talking about sex all the time, since then I've hardly heard from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - DC, I had a crush on a guy for close to four years; we flirted, and then when we(me) finally opened up, he told me he had a girlfriend, that he loves and would marry one day. He said we could only be friends..but he immediately offered to hang out ...

Great girlfriend but emotionally demanding and has temper, what to do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - Hi, I just need a bit of advice about my girlfriend whom I have been dating for 9 months. She's a great girl and we have very strong physical attraction to each other. We got sexual very early on in the relationship and still enjoying an active sex ...

I feel really jealous that he has moved on before me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - A year and a half ago I met this guy, we had a fling for two weeks and he returned to his home country. Four months later I went out there to travel, but ende up staying with him in his city for 7 months. We had an intense, unstable, emotional ...

Do you think he's lost interest or he's just mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - So to keep a long story short I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Instead of getting hurt I was kinda pushing him away and hurting him by not even realizing it and he always chased after me (I know I'm wrong for it). We saw each other the ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Firstly, have I lost any chance with him? Secondly, after confessing my feelings our friendship has become very strained. If there is no hope, how do I salvage our friendship?

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28 November 2012 (F) - One of my good friends and I have feelings for each other. The problem is, he lives in a different country and things have been very difficult between us. Even though he lives in a different country, he comes to visit a lot because he is be...

Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4394 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...

I really feel I need to get out of this mess, but he keeps telling me I'm making a mistake.. should I run as fast as I can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My Fiance, slept with his late wife's sister soon after she passed. before we got together he said he was done with her and that they worked all there feelings out and that they would never do that again.. let me also mention that the sister is ...

How do I preserve my libido when my husband is preoccupied with other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I have really no problem with my husband's occasional preoccupation with other women, such as cashiers that he jokes with for the most part. I don't feel much jealously at all. HOWEVER, when he wants sex with me, that is when I get a bit ...

One day my partner can be the sweetest person ever and the next he can be so mean that it can bring me to tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a partner i love to pieces and he loves me. But sometimes it can be strange. One day he can be the sweetest person ever and the next he can be so mean that it can bring me to tears. He always helps me out if i need it no mat...

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I am concerned my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have had suspicions before as in our first year of University I heard him talking, drunkenly, to one of his other flat mates about how he would love to sleep with this other girl he lived with and ...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

My boyfriend constantly brings up my past, how do I get him to see I've changed and help us move on together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 11 months. 16 months ago I split up from my husband and went a little crazy, craving attention from absolutely any guy I met. I slept with a few guys but would also get guys numbers and constantly text them and email ...

He's been separated for 6 years but wont get a divorce, am I a mug for staying with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months, he has been separated from his wife for 6 years! But still isn't divorced! He says she means nothing to him and its only a piece of paper. We have bought a house together and I have 1 child and he ...

I told her that I liked her despite her having a new boyfriend but the conversation didnt go anywhere, have I ruined our friendship? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - there is this girl that i've known since my college days. today, i discovered that she now has a new boyfriend ( which really came a bit of a shock for me). i never even once thought before that i like her at the that we are attending the same ...

Is he a narcissist? He's jekyll and hyde and I never know what to expect from him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - i am a mess. i have recently split from my partner who i believe may be a narcissist. im not sure where to begin, but this is what ive come to believe and know -he is jekyll and hyde. there is no predicting how he will act toward me from one day ...

He took parts of our conversation and posted it for everyone to see!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - so the other night I was chatting with this guy. we've had a sort of weird past. I thought he didn't care for me and was almost like a jerk. we literally stayed up all night for like 5 hrs talking about nothing and yet everything. he asked me ...