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male
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30-35,
*randonishere
writes:Well lately my girlfriend has been acting quite blank lately. We used to talk from dawn to dusk over texting. We would alternate on who texts eachother first in the morning. Yesterday, she never said goodnight. So I said goodmorning. She responded with 1 or 2 word texts. Then through out the day at school she wasn't texting back. (we're both in highschool)We made plans to hangout Tuesday. She came to lunch and said that she couldn't anymore and said that she had made plans with one of her other friends. So she completely ditched our plans to hangout. And she hasn't texted me since lunch and its now 9:34 P.m. She usually says goodnight. But nothing... She goes to bed around this time... Why is she acting so blank and different?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 I'm sorry to say that it sounds like she is distancing herself from the relationship to make a break up easier whether she wants you to do it or not. Such a rapid change in behavior when you can't figure out why is not a good sign.
It would probably be best to talk to her and see what she is going through so that if things do end then maybe they can end on the best terms possible before someone starts be too hurt by this.
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