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writes:My girlfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago... We saw each other once a few days after the break up to talk were she ended things completely for now. A week went by and she called me in Friday saying that she wanted me to bring all of her stuff to her on wed and left off saying that she missed me and felt a little lost.. So I woke up this morning and before I went to work I saw on facebook that she had been out partying all weekend and there was a picture of her being kissed on the cheek by a guy at the bar.. I'm not going to lie I'm crushed. I want her back and have two days until I contact her. What can I do to get her back?!?
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reader, kylieekristina +, writes (23 May 2011):
 there is no "getting her back" if she doesnt care. You need to find out if she did that to make you jealous, or to let you know she's moved on. then go from there
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reader, Philips  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 She obviously has moved on, so you should do the same. Maybe she told you she missed you because she didn't want you to feel bad that she moved over you so quickly. Don't be so desperate, just focus on something else. I know its hard to see an ex having when we are so miserable. However the more you want to get her, the more you think about her, the more miserable and unhappy you will get.
Just go out, have fun and forget that your ex was so important to you.. Their are other people who'll prefer your attention than your ex.
Remeber, you broke up for a reason.
Bottom line is..
MOVE ON!!!
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (23 May 2011):
Hi - get some perspective - she was out partying because she feels low and wants to forget that she does feel terrible. the guy just kissed her check - no big deal...
what you need to do is not get desparate - remain calm and try not to let your feelings of desparate love show through - it will only make things worse. Dont drop her stuff off to her- make her come to you - do something you wouldnt normally do and create a different view of yourself - she can then see that you're not desparate fir her. It sounds like you need to consider moving on as well.
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