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*yancoco
writes: i'm ryan, i really need some help..im just gonna sketch my situation.My girlfriend and i are been together for a whileMy girlfriend asked me for some space and time and I am worried because she has not contacted me in almost a week. I'm so tempted to call her but my pride won't let me because she was the one who asked for space. What does a woman mean by saying, "I need some time and space" to her boyfriend? I want to believe she is genuine and sincere and just needs some time to think about things between us but from what I have seen in other relationships, in movies, and what I feel in my heart is that my relationship could be over; she probably used the "space" excuse to sneak out to "spare my feelings". and one more thing I keep askin her why? but she won't tell me whats goin on. I told her that it hurts like hell. Then she told me this. I'm letting you go. not because i want to, but because i think i'm just hurting you. SEE?? I JUST DON"T GET IT:((Can someone, ANYONE help. I am an emotional wreck and I'm just looking for some understanding here. Can any of you offer some advice? it fuckin kills me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 May 2011):
"I'm doing this for you" yeah right. let her go, move on...
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reader, ryancoco +, writes (24 May 2011):
ryancoco is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe told me this. I'm letting you go. not because i want to, but because i think i'm just hurting you. after a few a days
maybe because i always ask her why she needed space and i told her that i'm emotional wreck. so she decided to let me go?
we only talk in facebook message 1 day 1 message
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 May 2011):
Yep she wants to break up and she's trying not to hurt your feelings...
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