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writes: How can I deal with someone who seems not interested in me any more or I don't know but sometimes he acts like he care for me still.but he doesn't want to be around me much and have sex with me anymore.I don't know if he need some space or hate me.how he's acting right now hurts me so much.at first I don't realize that am changing until I saw that he's not to me like before.it seems like there's some things that I'm doing that he doesn't like but not admitted to me or say it straight.but when I notice that change between us then I said am sorry to him and tell him that I realize I've changed and I will try to be me again.and I ask for his forgiveness and he said he will.I don't know if it's true or not but I tried my best to be away from him and am trying to get him off my head but it is so hard.I do care for him so much and how he talking to me and that he's not around me anymore lately is like I am not mad or something like that cuz I know it's all my fault or I don't know.and it is so hard for me cuz we're staying in the same house but when I think of moving away from that I cannot see him for along time and I don't know if he will change his mind or not then it's like my heart ache some more.please what am I gonna do?I really need a lot of ideas and advice please
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys very much.what am trying right now is to be myself again cuz these mess up situations and feelings make me not me anymore.and what else I'm doing that I think it can help a lot is praying that god will help me with my life and if there's anything that I did that he doesn't like or blamed from then god help him to forgive me.thank you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): I recently suffered the same behaviour from my boyfriend eventually i left as any man who dont want to be around me or have sex with me is not worth my time
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): I have gone through the same situation. I think that it would be best to break up. If it is hard for you now then it would be better for the both of you to go your separate ways. It's hard being with someone that doesn't pay attention to you anymore. Wish the best for you.
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