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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:this is a complicated question but really need help!me and my boyfriend have just got back together we split up 4 years ago and stayed friends we both still loved each other but didnt no how each other felt we love each other even more now but his ex has just had his baby i knew she was pregnant before we got back together but i couldnt wait for him any longer my feelings for him are so strong heres the problem she is only letting him see his daughter after 9pm and he stays till atleast 1am he always comes back to mine after but shes calling the shots and hes running to her straight away hes been for legal advice and they have basically said he hasnt got a leg to stand on they had an argument three weeks ago and hes not been to hers since nor has he seen his daughter we have been getting along perfect and our relationship is getting stronger we have been so happy but he has gone to her house tonight at 9 30 pm to tell her he is cutting all ties he doesnt want to put hisself or his daughter through her games im scared shes gonna change his mind and im gonna get jealous again i have pcos so its difficult for me to have a baby im very brudy anyway as i love children and i wanted to be the only one to have his children we have spoken about us trying but we dont want to rush things this baby wasnt planned by him they was only together just over a month she said she was on the pill but was throwing them away she has admitted to one of his friends girlfriend she got pregnant to trap his so he wouldnt leave her but he didint want to be with her so it back fired does any one have any advise for me please only post serious comments
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): hey, as a man Im dealing similar situation my ex and i have a 2 yr old she wont let me see her until it's at her house and when i want to go out with my baby she wants to tag, its a trap no less. i'm not saying all females do this, but most get really really angry when the man sees another women and she had his first child. keep supporting him, it's not easy on him because we can't do much in these situations, due to he's trying to keep some peace.however he should file for rights to be with his baby ALONE or with who ever he is with.
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