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I'm so confused.. should I leave him if I love him but it makes me sad?

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Question - (23 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2011)
A female Jordan age 30-35, *lex90 writes:

Hi everyone..

I loved that guy though I never talked to him in person, I used to see him at school but we didnt try to talk to each other. One day I found his profile on facebook, I added him and started chatting. I loved him more when I found out that he's smart and clear person as he recognized me ( that I'm the girl who used to look at him and smile) as the days passed by he started to ask me to hang out together, he asked for my cell number, he started to call me beautiful names (like u look hottie, your eyes are the most beautiful eyes. your body is perfect) he began to send me the "kisses" similes. I was stunned by the idea that I refused all of the above and asked him to stop doing them, he called himself "liberal" and called me "conservative" but he likes to talk to me and wants to meet at school. However in the chat thing I think he went too far :(

so guyz we are too different in the way of thinking from each other, he seems to be a womanizer or sth, and I hate it so much.

what should I do? should I meet him? or should I end everything right away? and if I should end everything how can I do it? and what do have to tell him? plz help me I have finals and I cant concentrate :'(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011):

I think you should take a stand and talk to him at school! If you don't like him and he acts different than he does online, then you could just tell him that you only want to be friends or ask him why he acts differently. If you like him once you talk a couple of times at school, you could suggest hanging out perhaps after school. But be sure to mention you don't want to rush into anything since you basically just met. I'm sure he will understand that too, if he is a nice guy.

ps: only keep meeting him if you really do like him and he doesn't do the same thing to other girls.

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A female reader, Alex90 Jordan +, writes (23 May 2011):

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Alex90 agony auntplz help me guyz

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