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Archived questions from: 18 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He'd been distant, so I broke up by text. But I don't understand his reply!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - So my bf has been very distant towards me. Actually he straight up stopped talking to me after a fight we had about my jealousy issue. I understand he needed time to cool off. It was a week then he called me, but I was in the middle of something and ...

Financially a mess, I do love him but this discovey has soured my opinion of him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I met a father with kids a year and a half ago. Initially he was staying with the kids and their mother to help keep family peace. After six months he moved in with me and my kids. Shortly after that he lost his job. I have been paying all of our ...

Being a girlfriend without the title!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for 3 months we spend all of our free time together ive met all the important people in his life but he says he doesnt want a serious relationship right now but he also doesnt want me to date other people and hes not dating ...

Why would he be avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - well i started talking to this guy 6 months back but in da middle for around 3 months we weren't talking at all due to his exams and he had assured me dat he will talk to me after his exams..yesterday his exams got over..i gave him a call but he ...

Will my mother be this way as long as I live at home? My girlfriend is scared to meet her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - ok, im 23, moved back home while I finish my last year of college, and my girlfriend of 4 months is 24. she has her own place, and bc we don't get to see each other very much through the week (im in school, she's at work) i like to stay overnight on ...

Pictures of his ex on his bedroom wall! And porn-type ones with her on his phone and computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for just under 2 months, and when i was over his i noticed on his phone and computer he has porn like pictures of him and his ex and a photo of her on his bedroom wall. so i gave him time to delete them etc. but he didn...

I like him but my friends and family don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - me and this guy, were not dating each other, but we hang round loads, and we always kiss and... Basically we act like were going out, but my friends all seem to hate him they say he's a player and all this stuff, but if i like him does it matter wat ...

Is he being a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is ...

H'es giving up because legally I'm still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for 6 months and we both have told eachother that were falling in love with one another. I am still married and have been seperated from my husband for over a year. I just found out our marriage is not going to be final for ...

I knew my boyfriend watched porn, but now I have found out he watches it every day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - hi ok i really need help. i knew that my boyfriend watched porn, and i was a little hurt but i just didnt really think anything of it. but now ive realised he watches it EVERY day even yesturday when it was his BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! i was with him all ...

How do I talk to her about her texting her ex and being so shady in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - I am having some troubles with my girlfriend...we were about to go out like a year ago and things didnt work and i ended up dating another girl for about 6 months but then i realized that i really wanted to be with the other girl so i dumped the one ...

Do you think she still has feelings for me even though she claims she has none at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - Ok.... i have a very complicated question. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I have cheated on her before and was caught. She has caught me doing the "SEXTING' (text) thing and we were able to get past it only to find myself doing it ...

Is he just putting on an act now he has been caught cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Well I have been dating someone for almost two years now, which may not seem like a long time to some people but he’s my first and I hoped my last. I’m not really into the whole dating thing but something about him just really blew me away. But last ...

She loves me but cant commit, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - I have been in relationship with another. 3 yrs and she gives me her love then freezes up cuz of her past. I have helped. Her through this and now I'm taking the brunt of it. Cuz of her past she cannot commit, even though she is. She loves me dearly ...

How can I move on when I have never felt this way about anyone before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - i left my boyfriend of 7 months for someone i just met. by the way its a girl. She was super sweet. we were talking for a few weeks then i got locked up. well she sent me flowers to show she cared she called me all the time just tell me that i was ...

Is he pretending to be busy or is he honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...

I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity and my boyfriend couldnt feel anything, now he thinks I was not a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend disvirgins me,he doesnt feel anything.i dint lose any blood when i was disvirgined and am sad bcos my boyfriend said he wasnt the one that disvigined me.pls help because it is normal for a guy to feel something within when he disvirgins ...

Why is my boyfriend of 3 years afraid to feel attached to me or does he simply not love me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 21 and we have been dating for almost 3 years since the beginning of college. In the first two years he loved me unconditionally even though I acted like a spoiled kid.. I still regret my action and my constant looking ...

What was once loved is now lost, can anyone help me grieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Ok, so I just left a relationship with one of my best friends. We've known each other for a few years, and a few years ago we made out for a bit, but I was with my 1st boyfriend at the time and wanted it to work out. Unfortunately it didn't and we ...

My life as his second wife is taking me nowhere, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I fell in love with a married man, who is my hubby now. I'm a Muslim, my religion permits man to marry upto 4 times. I met him 8 years back and had pre-marital sex. He is my only partner, may be this guilt forced me marrying him and not other man. B...

We broke up and I slept with someone else, but now we are back together she wants a break just to sleep with another guy to get back at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me 8 months ago and i slept with someone else after a few weeks. After this she wanted me back and i told her what happened and she still wanted to get back together with me. It was OK for a couple months but then she ...

I want our family back together but how I can I do this when there is another woman involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - he left me a year ago saying his feelings had changed in truth he had feelings for a girl he met at work, he has been unwell since he left saying he is really upset by what happened and is so sorry for hurting me, he has been leading me to believe ...

He wont even hug or kiss me, so why does he expect me to have sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29. We got to know each other in office for one month before becoming an item. Now we are together for 3 months. During the one month of courtship, the chemistry was great and we started holding hands from time to tim...

I really want a second chance with my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the ...

My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway ...

Have you ever been betrayed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - This is a little different. Have you ever been betrayed by someone you trusted. This can be a spouse,friend, family etc.... tell how they betrayed you and if you ever forgave them. what did you do after the betrayal...

I don't love my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Yes i have a bf, but i don't love him. .i know he loves me so much but i don't have feelings for him. .i really need someone to love,how do i get a guy to truely love....

My boyfriend just dumped me, and I just found out that his ex is his current housemate...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just dumped me, and i found out that his housemate is actually his ex girlfriend, and he never told me. I got really angry. isn't that something you would tell a new girlfriend? he always had me stay over his house too, yet never told ...

I want to begin a new life with my new man but I cant move on from my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I am a divorcee with a son.I fell in love with my best friend's boyfriend. Having known my best friend for years, I knew how hard she presses her boyfriends when it comes to relationships. She forces things outta them e.g to go out, to spend time ...

Should I tell him I cheated with my cousin or just keep it to myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I broke up with my babys dad 3 months ago.I started to go out with this new guy about a month already.hes been trying to have sex with me but for some wierd reason i cant.....i cheated on him a week ago.i had sex with my cousin and now i dont know ...

I'm jealous of his past relationship - am I being silly or could this be a problem if I moved in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I've fallen for a slightly older guy, who I like except for one issue: I am a virgin and he has lived with someone for three years. I am sort of upset about that and jealous of his prior relationship. I feel like I don't want the first time I move ...

My ex text me out of the blue but because I had deleted his number I now feel like an idiot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - my ex who didn't text or call me suddenly text me asking if I was ok but I delete his number and ask who is this so he text back never mind. now i feel like an idiot and i wanted to talk to him but i accidentally delete his number again. What should ...

Part of me wants to break up with her, and the other part wants to stay so I don't hurt her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - Ok... how do i start this off... i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years... our anniversary is coming up real soon (less then 2 weeks)... and i dont know what to do anymore... i feel as if she has gone into this fantasy she has had since ...

She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online...

Is my girlfriend going behind my back with a married man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - OK my gf is a tour guide and one of her male work colleagues (around 34) is a married player (disgusting I know!). He openly admitted to trying to find a one-night stand last month (around the time he married). I've asked if his wife knows, and he's ...

How can you tell if a woman is a victim of domestic violence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - What are some of the not so obvious signs that there is an abusive relationship going on? What are the subtle signs that women might display hinting towards being victims of domestic violence?...

My ex denies me access to our son

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - ok so i was with my childs father for 9 years, it wasn't the happiest relationship, his mother hated me she tried to destroy our relationship and he would never support me she would call me all the names under the sun, and he would just stand there, ...

Why does my boyfriend call me fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - hey my boyfriend calls me fat after i confided in him and told him i wanted to loose a lot of wieght, but then he'll turn around and call me beautiful. what is his deal???...

Why does my boyfriend leave out of nowhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I was with my boyfriend and father of my child for 3 years and he recently left May 1st, but its not the first time he has left. Everytime that hes left before he always come back home within a day to a couple weeks, confused, and depressed. ...

If I tell him about the third webcam guy, I know I'll lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - first of all im 16..i was a bit of a webcam "ho" before me and my boyfriend started dating. this all took place last year. well..i told my boyfriend wen we started dating that i had never done anything with a guy. but i didnt tell him about that. ...

He seems to care but his actions speak differently..why is he this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hi, It's been a while since I posted something, but I really need your advice. The relationship I'm in is an utter headache. We're together without the "title". We kiss, we fool around, we belong to each other--meaning we don't date any...