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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He broke up but then acts all weird when seeing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - i was with a much older man (33 years) and he sent me a message ending it (were together for 6 months). he said he couldnt see me to do it as if he did he want to get back with me......like why would you send someone a email saying it??! how unfa...

Because of my childhood & past I'm co-dependent but I want to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - HI, I am not sure how to put all of this...anyways, I was very abandoned as a child (at 34 I can admit and see this now)...anyways, my mom used to leave me alone alot while she went out and it caused me alot of anxiety. She used to have to leave a ...

Do I leave my wife and child for this affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Should I stay with my wife and child or not? I cheated on my wife with a woman from work. The affair has been going on for about 1 month. The affair would have continued but I recently moved across the country for work. Our marriage was in ...

My boyfriend is never the cause of the reactions he gets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - What do I do when my boyfriend thinks that he is not the cause of any fights or the reactions he gets due to his rude comments, or sarcasm. He only wants to deal with my reaction but not the stimulus that he has sent....

New guy I'm dating is backing off because of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I'm not even sure where to start... I met this guy about a month ago, we hit it off really well and had a kind of whirl wind for the past 4 weeks. Everything was going great, until 4 days ago. I have been sinlge for a year before I met this guy...

What kind of a cold hearted person is this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - So I dated this guy let us call him J last semester and part of this semester. We broke up in Feb. of this semester. Last June the guy dated on and off for 4 yrs which we shall call C and I broke up and 2 months later J and I dated. Anyways J and I ...

He always comes back to me when other women hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I met this guy over 5 years ago when he was one of my employees. We talked everyday but never anything that I thought might lead to a relationship then or later. He was married and I respected that. I never though of him as a partner at all. ...

Why wont he take me seriously and go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Ok I almost had An affair with a married man that is twice my age. I am 31 years old and married for 6 yrs. I started to fall for this man at work who is a surgeon that is really attractive for his age. We started having coffee and talking on the ...

I want us to either be together, or not, because I can't take this inbetween stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I'v recently been dumped by a guy who I was with for 3 months but before that we been together on and off. He broke up with me this time because I wanted a break, I just felt we were getting too serious and I got scared as i'm moving away this ...

I feel left out when my girlfriend is with my best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - i love my girl a lot but I'm not sure whether she loves me or not cause whenever she is with my best friend they seem to have a lot of fun and I'm left out .......please help is it lack of trust from my side or what ?????????...

Clingy or having healthy emotional needs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - How do you determine if a girlfriend is being "clingly" or is just having healthy emotional needs? Where do you draw the line?...

Manager is so two faced and talks bad about everyone...surely she cant get away with it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Afternoon all, I have just come across this site and was hoping for some much needed help and advice. I have some issues with my manager at work-she has been there about just over and she seems to be nice enough to your face but speaks ill of y...

I have a good job while he is very depressed about his, and very moody, what can I do for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now (living together for 1) and I’m 22 and he’s 27. When we first got together I was studying at university and he was earning a lot so used to spoil me rotten and pay for everything. However when I ...

Is he interested or just weird? How do I get his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - So im wondering if this guy is interested or not..or if hes just weird. I see this guy at the bar every now and then.My drunk friend told him I liked him a cpl of months ago and she said that hes not interested.One night we played pool together ...

I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I ...

Do I wait for her to come and find me, or do I go and find her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Dear Madam, I am a 29 year old male. About 3 weeks back, I met a girl in the university I attend. she's passed 18. Well, we believe the same doctrines as christians and when I approached her, she was very responsive. She seemed to enjoy my company ...

I have a boyfriend but am attracted to my female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Hey Im not entirely sure of my sexuality because i like a guy and he like me, but i also like this girl i hang out with alot. Shes really pretty but im not sure if he feels the same way about me. I want to try something different like in the po...

Am I being a gullible fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - hey all i really need advice. this is quite long so forgive me and hopefully you may help me. last year i split with my long term boyfriend-we were dating for 7 years and during that time he was emotionally and on 2 occasions physically abusive....

Torn between two wonderful men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I need some major help. I'm torn between two wonderful men. The first one I'll call him Fred and the other I'll call Matt. Fred and I have been together for 11yrs. I love him so much. We've been through so much. But a couple of years ago my f...

How do I cope with conflicting emotions while continuing to support him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I am dating a great guy I met at work. We have known each other for almost two years and been dating for six months. Over these months I've gotten to know him much better and we have gotten quite close. However, we've had to go through some dif...

Is this a mid life crisis or has she fallen out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Hello, What I am finding most difficult is I don't understand what happened to my wife. After 17 years of apparent happiness and what on the face of it was a life with so many good things happening and ALSO to look forward to but BANG she says 'I...

She says she doesn't want a relationship but we text for hours

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - when the girl i have feelings for says she has feelings 4 me but she doesnt want a relationship right now. we stoppd speakn for a few days then i tld her how i really felt. for the last couple of days weve 6een txtn for hours. i jux got dne txtn her ...

I really like him but am afraid he might like a different girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - There's this boy I like soooo much. However, he's younger than me. Is that a problem? And I don't even know if he likes me. He never noticed me the first couple of days. Then I noticed him looking at me and when I caught his eye, he smiled. He ke...

I really like him but he seems to like my friend instead

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Im quite young but really mature. I can sort out my friends lives easy. Im fully ‘out‘ so everyone knows so guy friends are rare, but theres this boy. I love him, he sorta likes me (in a friend way) and everyone says we look cute together. At first ...

I feel like I have no room for error with my depressed girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Hello all, hopefully someone out there can help shed light on my situation. My girlfriend and I have been together almost two years. We love each other very much and always try to help each other succeed and be happy. We also both show our lo...

I wish I could remember. why am I stuck in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I have a huge problem i really need help with. Over 4 months ago i got back with my ex i had been with since i'v been a teenager. We have both gone throug rough times together and i have suffered badly from depression in the past. We were both hard ...

Looks at other women while talking to me. Haven't confronted him yet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating this guy for 18 months and I really thought it was my imagination, but whenever we go out to a pub for a drink, I see that when he is talking to me, he isnt actually looking at me, he is eyeing up the barmaid or passing femal...

We are in love but afraid to be with each other

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...

Does this mean he has had his fun and is now done with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Basically i have known this guy for about 3 weeks now...we used to text eachother everyday up until we met last thursday for a drink... i went back to his house and left the next morning; amazing night and we both said we felt very relaxed around e...