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writes:Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is doing is "focusing on his studies."One of the reason why he dumped me because he were going to different colleges. And he thought that we was not going to work out. Another reason is because of SEX. I am still a virgin. He won't admit it but its true.My question is FACEBOOK page is full of girls from is school and our city...If he is dating other girls why won't he just tell me the truth? Do you guys think that he is not telling me because he wants to get with back with me or because he feels guilty?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): So he dumped you for a reason perhaps including lack of sex... (-1 to his score)
He doesn't respect you... (0 to both - to many it don't matter)
You haven't took him back and unsure (+1 to your score)
Excuse the scores its my way of saying whats positive and whats negative. If you wanted him you would have taken him back no questions asked, however, I think you are jealous about the girls on his facebook.
Don't think about competing - he is just a player - he has someone else, you mean nothing to him and it seems like he doesnt mean much to you, so just move on...
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (19 May 2010):
 I doubt it's guilt, honey.
The reason people don't tell the truth is because they don't want to face the consequences of their actions or words, that's why.
If Mr. Playa can't or won't respect the fact that you're a virgin, that's a clear indicator of what this guy bases your relationship upon.
Seriously, what has he done for you lately? You're not listing anything here that tells me you're getting *anything* but grief out this...spare yourself, move on to a guy who'll respect you and treat you well. Don't and you know you're in for more of the same.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 I agree with raiders,
move on please. He's not worth your time. I suggest then when he asks are you dating is to tell him none of your business...in a polite way.
Maybe he will learn a lesson from this because no-one deserves being dumped for that reason.
Good Luck!
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reader, raiders +, writes (18 May 2010):
 He showed you his immaturity, not being able to handle different school and the no sex cause your still a virgin, I think you should not sit around wondering if he is a player or not just be thankful you don't have your name added to his list.
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