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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What is he thinking in his mind??? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was ...

Does she deserve another chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - This might take abit long. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a bit strange. She was suddenly dressing up for work. Few days ago she had a ...

18 year age difference!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide ...

He's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all. He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and ...

It seems like I'm going to lose her... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hey,Guys, I have some problems with one of my friends, And i need you help. This is the thing,one of my friend's a girl, who has been my friend since high school, is going to celebrate her birthday, and asked me if i can give her a prese...

Deprived of sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my fiance for three years, we moved in together about 4 months ago he recently lost his job. sex before was not an issue since he has no job sex has gone down the drain. i almost have to beg for sex or masturbate, i am older than him ...

My boyfriend is stealing from me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, here's the thing, my bf and i been together for 2 years coming up to 3. hes not working and looking for work now. In the two years i caught him stealing money from my purse and confronted him about it. he promised me not to do it and i ...

Why did I cheat on my boyfriend when everything is so perfect? What is wrong with me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - First of all let me start by saying that I already am aware of what I have done, I am not looking for comfort or criticism - what I have come here for is help or insight into my behaviour. I cheated on my boyfriend, I met someone through work las...

My ex seems to be using me as an ego-boost, how do I get through to him that this is not acceptable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been split up for 4 months after just under a 2 year long-distance relationship. We agreed to remain friends and have done so, due to the fact we were really close and told each other everything - more than we have told our cl...

Girlfriend and I were over before I knew what actually happened! And still don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Now I accept that our relationship is over.. I'm hurt yes blah blah but I'm trying to move on as soon as I feel ready. More on that in a sec. But my backstory has me asking questions and would love to know if anyone has been through something ...

I have given him an ultimatum to get married, but I don't want to lose him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - im in a relationship with a guy for one year.he says he like me and can also marry me but doesnt love me and not give commitment now.we both are 27.my parents are worried because i should get married now.i gave him 3 more months to tell me whether ...

He is back on friendly terms with his ex again, is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - hi in have been seeing this man for about two months we were friends before but he was with someone someone who he had been with for four years he was really down saying he was only together as the she has a five year old son and he had brought him ...

I take a beating from him because I love him, but I cant cope anymore with his accusations

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year and half..I saw him working one day and decided to talk to him and we exchanged numbers..in the beginning this were great.. 2 months into it he heard stuff from people that was not true..and started calling me a hoe ...

Our different cultures are becoming a problem, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we live together. I'm 22 he's 30. So I'm British and he's from a Muslim country, he's not religious however but he is set in the culture from there. So we've ha...

Long distance relationship stress!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years; he's traveling for work and I'm in medical school. We've talked about getting engaged once we can be in the same city and we've both met each other's families. We have a fantastic...

I have spent a long time liking him for reasons that are not comprehendible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I'm now going on 3 years that I've liked this guy. I'm gay, he's supposedly straight. Infatuation? Don't think so because it's not like I don't go out with other guys and fall for them. Obsession? Nah cause I'm not dying without him. Crush? I think ...

My partner found me on the street with another man, and now he has broken up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi please can you help me here , I was with the father of my son for 6 years now there was ups and down but we solved them and get back together again, but now He found me on the street with a guy around 9 at night ,he just came and i went to him he ...

Is this how scorpio men show love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Please help! I have been dating a scorpio guy on and off for two years and I am still lost. At the time we met in May 2008, we had just left our respective partners. He told me he wasn't ready to get serious because his last one lasted five ...

We broke up, got back together but he doesn't treat me right now1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just got back together,after a two month break. I don't drive,and sometimes it's hard to hang out. This Friday,I asked him if we were hanging out, and he responds with, "Umm I dont know?".."What are we going to do?" As if it ma...

Why did I have to fall for my friend who is in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - One of my really good friends and I knew each other since high school but we really didn't start talking and getting to truly know each other until this year, which is our senior year. My friend, she's gay, and I really got close, we're so ...

He comes on strong and then pulls away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year and a half. I have fallen in love with him and I dont know if I should tell him because he has me confused. One min he acts like he really likes me and another min. he's pulling away. What should I do....

Is there a way we could get custody of her without going bankrupt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My bf has a daughter who is 5 (I'll call her Mini) and she is still not potty trained. She also says "I love you" to everyone she meets. We get Mini for 1 week every month and during that week we usually have her pretty close to being potty trained ...

I broke up with him, and want him to fight to get me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me he denies it. and i still broke up with him. me and my boyfriend has a on again off again relationship . we just cant seem to stay away from each other .. my boyfriend isnt an emotional person but i want him...

Could the problem be that he's gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I saw a guy recently and first time in the bedroom he refused to have penetrative sex or oral sex.Up until then lots of cuddles kisses.Could he be gay?He wanted oral from me all the time.He is from Syria but 44 and travelling around Europe for20 ...

Can this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles... looking for some feedback here! My current boyfriend and I have known each other since high school and have been together for about four months. We moved really fast once getting together, although neither of us were trying ...

Nitpicking everything and turning it into a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm nit-picking everything in my relationship and turning it into a fight. Sometimes, I feel like I'm so in love and I couldn't imagine being without my boyfriend, but ever once in a while, I don't want him t...

Why am I still worrying about the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I liked my ex boyfriend very very much, and I let him be my first . But now that we are done I have moved on to other guys, but every time I'm happy, my past comes back, and it makes me feel horrible , and messes up every relationship I have now , ...

My girlfriend is too innocent for her own good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hey there, Been with my girlfriend for just about 3 months... Have known her for about 8 but have always been informed she was "out of the game"... Unfortunately i originally have a bad reputation but have fallen head over heels for her.... The ...

She never wants sex anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - K so here's the thing: I'm 18 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about two and a half years. We started having sex a couple of weeks after we started dating and had it once every 2 or 3 days for a while, but now she never wants sex ...

How do I live my own life without letting everyone elses opinions getting to me so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i have been in an interracial relationship for 3 years. at first it was fun and wonderful when it was just him and i, but as we started getting serious , he wanted me to introduce him to my family and friends, who took our relationship very badly, ...

Should I break-up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. he is really sweet when i see him in person. he has a good sense of humour , and he told me that he would wait unti l iwas ready for sex. We are both virgins, but he sems to be more confident ...

Help! Am I just too sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi I don't stay with my lover at the moment, we chat but she is always busy on google and other sites when i want to chat she's always too busy doing other things, does that mean she does not love me? It feels that I am not important to her but ...

She was too immature to be in a relationship after 9 months but had the biggest crush on me for 2 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hey there everyone, I have been going out with a girl for 9 months and we just recently broke up. She was saying that she is too immature to be in a relationship. She just wasnt ready for any commitment. I wasnt asking much of her. She wanted to ...

My family is draining me dry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I PAY for everything. My whole family are on the take and I’m sick of supporting every loser I’m related to. My parents say that it’s my duty to make sure that everyone is OK and it’s our culture. But when will it end? I’m 20, i go university i...

After his surgery he thinks I'm going to leave him, how can I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for amost 3 years and we have talked about having a baby i already have one child who is 7 but seem to be having trouble getting pregnant so we have gone to the fertility clinic i had to have a operation 2 months ago to ...

Doesn't get into a relationship, doesn't let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I like this woman and we have been very good friends for a few years. About six months back I asked her if we could get into a relationship as I was serious about her. She told me that she wanted some time to think about it. We continue to be good ...

Is he commenting on other women to get a reaction out of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - tonight me and my boyfriend were watching a tv show and tara reid the actress was on it, he started commenting about how hot she used to be before her breast implants etc..then later during the show he mumbled, "tara reid is hot" and i said huh? ...

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...

How can I forget about her past and forgive her for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I,ve got married to a beautiful girl last year, after few month one day she started sharing about her past life, but some how she was not ready to open up, this kept on going for few days. and then the time came when she shared every thing about her ...

Should I move abroad with him? Even though I am young I am still scared of making such a big move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Recently, I've reached a bit of a crossroads in my life. But in saying that, I have no idea where to go from here. I'm lost, really. Not sure what I want to do, etc. Anyway, you get the picture. Almost say it's a quarter-life crisis. I'm wondering ...

Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the ...

Is it possible to change how he views children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated for around a year before becoming exclusive. I have two young (grade school aged) children from a previous relationship. I have been aware the entire time that ...

What can I do about his gambling addiction? I've wiped out my savings trying to help him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for 5yrs now and found out that he has a gambling problem 1yr into our relationship. At that time, I didn't know the extent of his gambling but he has since lost his parent's home, his father passed away and he gambles ...

Why is he no longer attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is 44, I am 25. When we first met, he pursued me, trying reallyyyy hard, and I know he thought I was really hot. He still tells people about how beautiful his girlfriend is, even tells me if he could ...

Should I get his parents involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - So I dated this guy for two years and we broke up about a year and a half ago. I guess you can say I led him on recently but after a little while, I realized I didn't want him back. I've tried severing ties with him several times but he's resorted ...

I think he's been cheating, but he denies it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i broke you with my boyfriend whom ive been with for 6 nonths because i felt like he was cheating on me. we had an on again off again realtionship.. he just wasnt doing rite by me i felt therefore i ended things with him while he in training inthe ...

Why would he beg me to remain friends just to ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - What does this mean? I tried to tell this married guy that we cannot be friends anymore because I had feelings for him and he for me and I am married 2 so that was the best thing to do.He talked me out of it and told me that we need eachothers ...

Could he be losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Ok i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, When we first got together he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and we used to kiss all the time but recentlly he just isnt really kissing me i've asked him about this and he just ...

Am I really that selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I am 48 years old, separated for 18 months, divorced for 2 months. My older daughters, 31 and 29 are both married and have children of their own. I was married twice. My daughters were from my first marriage, my second marriage lasted 20 ...

We are arguing over pointless things. I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. We've been dating for five months and I know I'm in love with him. We have been so happy, until a couple weeks ago. I really don't know what happened. I just fell under alot of stress and press...