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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I lost my best male friend 5 years ago but I still miss him!

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4 May 2010 (F) - Me and my male best friend haven't spoke to each other in about 4 to 5 years. We were very close for almost 12 years, and I loved him so much. We would tell each other everything. We had even kissed a couple of times but we never had sex. We had ...

I told g/f I'd be home at 7, but came home 2 hours later. I screwed up!

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4 May 2010 (F) - I've been dating my girl friend seriously for about a month. Last night I told her I was on the way home from the bar with the guys at 7pm. Long story short I didn't show up till 9pm. She had told me she was cooking dinner for me and seemed ...

I wonder if when we are older, things might work out between us? We just broke up but stayed friends.

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4 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice on my current situation. I broke up with my boyfriend over the weekend. We are/were at university together and had been going out for 5 months. During this time we have had lots of arguments, so...

I want to trust him but I can't!

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4 May 2010 (F) - Okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and about 2 months ago i found out through his friends that he had slight feelings for this other girl, who is meant to be his best friend. He told me he loved me but had a 'soft spot' for her. I ...

How can I trust someone who keeps important secrets for our whole entire relationship?

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4 May 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 7years. We had our ups and downs. She's kept a secret from me for 7years and finally wants to come clean 1st strike. She drilled me hard about sites like myspace and etc. I stopped using them. Come to find out she ...

How can he be so selfish? We only just broke up and he's already hanging out with girls!

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4 May 2010 (F) - How is he so selfish? We seriously JUST broke up,he JUST dumped me. And he is already hanging out with girls. How do I know this? Facebook..I know I should stop looking,but I can't help it. We were together for over a year,I can't just shut him out ...

I don't see my internet boyfriend enough in real life!

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4 May 2010 (F) - hi i met this guy in a chat room about a year ago,we both felt something special,we kept talking everyday and we made a deal to meet first in person to decide where our relationship can go,so we met and it was cool and he became my internet...

I've been hurt and I think he's taken...

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4 May 2010 (F) - I've been single for quite a while now and there is this new man in my life, we've been talking for 2 weeks. We've kissed twice and everything is going great. I'm too scare to continue because i've been hurt and i don't think i can go any further ...

My boyfriend is selfish with sex!

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4 May 2010 (M) - I'm a 23-year-old gay guy, and I've been with my partner for over three years now. The one major problem in our relationship is lack of sex. My partner never touches my penis, never gives me a handjob, never gives me a blowjob, and never let's me ...

I'm scared of throwing away someting really good, but why can't I commit?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I'm scared of throwing away the best thing that has happened to me but on the other hand I'm not sure if I'm 100 percent committed to this guy. We been together a few years now (not living together), we live a couple hours away from each other. The ...

Am I falling out of love? Or just trusting him?

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4 May 2010 (F) - im ten weeks pregnant. been with my boyfriend a year and i guess we fell madly in love. i use to nag him alot, question him and didn't trust him, and always wanted him by my side. then i opened my eyes and realised i couldn't keep doing that, so now ...

I'm afraid I'll never be happy with anyone!

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4 May 2010 (F) - dear DearCupid, I am 21 years old and have never been in a healthy relationship. my last relationship was with my ex boyfriend who only used me and lied to me about his wife who had left him and who he still lived. he also got someone else pre...

How should I handle his rude behaviour during our long distance relationship?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I have been in this relationship for about three months already. We used to be at the same school so we get to see each other everyday. Those were the times when i felt like I was really valued so much. He would bring me home everyday, we talk on ...

I'm paranoid about people using me! How can I get over this?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I,m very anti-social. and I dont like goin out to pubs or drinking. It all started when i started secondary school i was bullied coz of my weight and My glasses. I was even used as a prank by I boy. He said he fancied me and stupidly I believed him ...

How do you mend a broken heart?

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4 May 2010 (F) - *** HOW DO YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART? I have found out my boyfriend has been constantly lying to me about various things and has been cheating on me when he swore on his childs life that he hasnt. For weeks he has denied this and made me out to be ...

I'm worried if I leave my boyfriend for his best friend I will ruin their friendship

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4 May 2010 (F) - I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with ...

Why have I lost interest in sex?

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4 May 2010 (F) - i really need some advice. i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him so much and he makes me so happy. the thing is, i'm just not sexually interested. we don't have sex a lot of the time, but when he wants to have ...

How can I deal with our differences?

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4 May 2010 (F) - Hi! I have this guy who is 13 years away from me and I’m really finding it hard to cope with our age differences. I will only be turning 16 while he’s at his 29th this May. This’ll be kinda long and I hope somebody out there can find time to help ...

My girlfriend lost her virginity to another guy while we were on a break!

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4 May 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Well me and my girlfriend were both virgins, well I still am and we have been going out for 4 years. We were waiting for a right time for us to be together before we actually do this and we both agreed. We both love each other so mu...

I went through my girlfriend's phone for a second time, and I have been hurt yet again....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - This may be a little long... but I have a lot to get off my chest. But here I go. The first time I caught her, we were doing a little rocky. We have been falling in and out for a bit over a year now. First started talking back in summer of '08. I...

I am very jealous of other women around my boyfriend but I am curious about having a threesome! Would it be a bad idea?

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4 May 2010 (F) - So iv been with my bf for 4 years we have a beautiful son and a really strong connection. were completely in love. Now about ME I am a super jealous babymomma. i have suspicions of somethings i think he might have done while i was pregnant but ...

How do I get over my fear of kissing and touching? It is holding me back from getting into a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Hey, heres the thing. I like this dude(I'll call him Fred). Well I think I do. I cant stop thinking about him. I dont really want to get into a relationship because I freak out about the whole kissing thing and the touching. I really dont know how ...

Should I keep dating him?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 1.5 years. We usually get along really well and spend a lot of time together. However, we fight quite often, and especially lately. Our last fight wasn't too long ago and we were almost going to break up. Howeve...

Should I not go to the party just to avoid my ex?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex over the phone and I know it was a bad thing to do but I found out he immediately went back out with his ex which is fine by me. The only bad thing is he avoids me and my best friend is friends with all his friends but him( she ...

How can I make my boyfriend feel more needed?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I've been seeing my guy coming up to 4 months. We're a lot closer now than we ever have been. I had been on my own before him, coming up to 5 years (apart from one 10 mnth relationship nearly 2 years ago) I love him, but i haven't told him yet. He...

Should I stay with him for the sake of the family or move on?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I'm with this man I have a 2yr old child with him weve had an on and of relationship as he chooses to leave and come back when he feels like it. He's left me for up to 6 months twice he says he wasn't with anyone else but I don't believe him. Now ...

I just cant break up with my boyfriend even though he is very abusive towards me

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4 May 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and i have almost been together for 2 years. I love him more than anything and am head over heels still sooo in love with him. He used to be like this with me in the beginning. I have been through tons of serious relationships but ...

I want to have sex more often with this girl and I'm confused about what she really wants from me.

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4 May 2010 (M) - a friend of mine (whom i dated in high school for a whole month) and i have been seeing each other off and on for a couple months now. we've had sex twice. once when we were drunk, and once after a nice sober night at my house. lately though she's ...

I really liked this girl, and I'm tired of seeing girls leave

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4 May 2010 (M) - I recently got out of a relationship and met up with a girl I had a huge thing for in high school. We hadn't talked for six months, but I learned that we both had just gotten out of relationships, and that we still had pretty much everything in ...

Baby's father walked out

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4 May 2010 (F) - My baby's father walked out on me and I am 25 weeks pregnant with our daughter. We were doing fine he was taking me to my appointments, coming over spending time with me, talking about moving into a place together etc. One night I got mad at him ...

Is it too soon to move in together? My parents disapprove of her

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4 May 2010 (?) - OK so I'm in a relationship with this girl. She's beautiful, funny and in my eyes amazing. Recently I introduced her to my parents, and it didn't go well to say the least. They completely dissaprove of her. Why? Because of the age gap. I'm 19 and ...

He's controlling and the sex isn't too great, what do I do?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I have this boyfriend, and he's the sweetest boy ever. We've been together for 2 years and, hes yet to cheat on me, and is the "ideal boyfriend" However, hes very controling that it makes me not want anything to do with him. Also? The sex isnt that ...

He hasn't finished his education, and this is driving a wedge between us!

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4 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for five months. We are inseperable, we are best friends and very much in love. But in the past, all I've dated is low-lifes, guys that deal drugs, guys that don't go to school. My boyfriend has ma...

It's been almost a year since he told me to wait for him to get back on his feet!

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4 May 2010 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for 10 years he's 30 im 34. I have 3 children which he help raised. He doesn't have children of his own. He always work and help me with the bills. in 2006 he started dealing drugs went to jail for 4years I stood by his side ...

How do I stop doing this, and if I'm going the right way to handle it?

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4 May 2010 (F) - ok so, heres the deal, I have an amazing boyfriend, hes not perfect, but he perfect for me. I have really bad self eestem issues, and i feel likei have to bring up every thing me and other boy talks about to him, to make him jealous so you know, he ...