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writes:first of all im 16..i was a bit of a webcam "ho" before me and my boyfriend started dating. this all took place last year. well..i told my boyfriend wen we started dating that i had never done anything with a guy. but i didnt tell him about that. all together there were 3 guys. so far ive only told him about 2 and hes got reallyyyy mad every time and even confronted those guys. he told me if i lie to him again its over. i cant tell him about the other guy. i just cant. please tell me some advise please. the guilt is eating me alive every day. he keeps saying it feels like ur hiding somthing but if i tell him i'll lose him=/ Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 May 2010):
 Unfortunately you lied. The thing about lies is that they almost always come back to haunt you. You either have to come clean and hope for the best, or let the relationship go because you cannot be honest with him. One thing that you can point out to him is that his "confronting" these individuals makes you very uncomfortable about being open with him. He should accept you for who you are.
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