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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Back with my ex, but still feel so lonely, and worry that if he ever left I couldn't start over!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - hi I have a problem, I m back with my ex and I feel like this is pushing all the other guys away, many guys who I may like don't dare and talk to me because they already know that I m still with my ex and I will always do, these times I feel trapped ...

Am I being unreasonable to expect these things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I'm a newlywed only married about a year. My husband never learned how to drive and I really would like him to. He just won't do it and won't even try. I am getting really tired of hauling him around places. He takes public transport but compl...

How can I say "no" to my neighbors without becoming the building bitch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - this isn't about a romantic relationship, but moreso a neighborly one. I just moved into a new building. I live on the first floor and these kidsare ALWAYS out by my patio. They ask for food, gum, something to drink, etc. At first I would an...

He played me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - [Moderator note: paragraph breaks were inserted to make this easier to read. Also, ".." was removed from every single sentence. Please use standard punctuation and paragraph breaks when following up. Please.] Haha. Here's the thing. My ex boyf...

I can't feel empathy for anyone! I want to, but I can't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I'm well-liked, I have lots of friends, and I'm a pretty sweet person. People trust me and often cry to me about their problems. With friends, typical teen situations like suicide, parents, grade-failure, love, are the topics talked about. With a ...

I really really like him and I'm worried I've blown my chance by seeming controlling.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - okay basically, me and this boy have a lot of history and weve been on and off for the past 3 years, and hes mucked me around a lot, but i have forgiven him and hes said hes going to change. recently he told me he loved me and said he wanted to meet ...

My boyfriend has a fat fetish... and I'm not fat!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a fat fetish?! what do i do...?? i only found out by reading his emails and saw loads of BBW adult sites he had signed up to. i am totally normal sized (even slim) and he has never suggested that i gain weight or anything like ...

Girlfriends sexual past is causing trouble for me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - I just found this site and decided to ask about something that is causing me trouble to see what others think. I have been with my current girlfriend for two years... She is older than me, and I was a virgin when I met her which I think is one of ...

Wife doesn't satisfy me sexually like past loves...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - my former girlfriend was raw with me in bed,she made me feel that no other woman can give me hot sex,now am married and cant find such satisfaction in my wife,yet i love her,what do i do?...

I'm living in a fake happiness! I'm depressed and I cant get over him, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I need help getting myself out the biggest mess/fantasy world of my life! Im truely in love with a friend of mine and i cant snap out of it. Im lost without him, the thought of him being with anyone else tares me apart. I can't be happy anymore, i ...

Why did he blow me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I asked him out and he said that he wanted to go out with me maybe next weekend. He said that he wanted to go on a real date with me maybe on a Friday or Saturday and that he would see me tomorrow at lunch. I sent him a txt a couple hours later. He ...

Why is my friend behaving so weird with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Why is my friend behaving so weird? i thought it would pass but its gone on for so long now! Hes said stuff in the past such as we;re great friends, we will always be friends, i'll never fall out with you, i love you(as a friend). But....

I am struggling to trust my boyfriend because of my past, and he is only making things worse by not comforting me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - im 18 and my Boyfriend is 24. We have been together for over a year now and he is everything to me. we have fun, get along well, and im his First Love. i have been hurt badly in the past and have serious trust issues because all boys use to do was ...

I still do care about her and I don't know how to reach out to her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - hey guys Im in a dilemma, i would have never thought a day would come for me to seek advice from a forum, I started dating a girl whom i used to totally admire, prior to us dating i was coming out of 2 year relationship so i told my curren...

Why does my ex boyfriend act in cycles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up oct of last year. a little over 7 months ago i guess. He got a girlfriend right away (rebound) but then he confessed feelings for me says he wished we could get back together all while being with her. Then he saw me a...

He loves me, he's not ready, he comes back, now he won't even be friends! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I'm confused. My boyfriend broke up with, right. Like the night he was doing it I managed to stop it the first time. Cause he was telling me how he wasn't ready for a GF. So I had pep talk with him and got back together with me saying that he was ...

Worried that my fixation on him will ruin our friendship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - I have come to University and in my first year. I have met this person (male) and I feel we get along very well. But over the last 3-4 months (ive known him for 6 months) I constantly worry about him, what he is doing and always want to be around ...

Should I give her time on the trip to cool down? Or is this the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - Things have come to a head recently with my gf. For a long time we have fought over what I think are small things like what time to come to bed, how to hang the washing etc etc. Just last night I informed her that I was going out with my mate and...

Why cant he just tell these other women he is married to stop them flirting with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Hi, My husband's exes are getting in touch with him, calling and sending texts even though he doesn't answer them. I do understand that he is committed now but the problem I have right now is that this line they are texting and calling he got afte...

Could it be obsession or destiny?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - i am really confused, i had this guy that had a major crush on me back when we where in elementary school, we met on his first day of school, i was playing hop scotch with my friends and my mom started talking to his mom, i noticed him immediately ...

Why does he need to have these other girls in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 4 years, we have a 1 yr old son together. Out of these 4 years there have been 5 "other women" in our relationship. He has never physically cheated on me, but he tends to build friendships with other women behind my ...

Is it wrong for me to want to wait for her despite the fact that she is engaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - I'll just get straight to the point. I am 20 yrs. old, and I am in love with my best friend who is 26. She has a 4 yr old daughter. She and I have been friends for about 2 years now. We are extremely close. I love everything about her, her smile, ...

When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...

It feels like he has done a 180 degree turn on me and I have no idea how it happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I met someone online because well I was tired of trying all the traditional methods or ways. Well the guy I starting talking to is in another state. He has asked me to move several times and I just wasn't ready to ...

I really like him but I don't want to be the rebound girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Hi i'm a student and i'm 22. I met this guy 2 years ago. Last year we were in the same section in college. We started to hang out and we clicked together, there was chemistry. we like the same things, and wants the same thing, we laugh all the...

How can I deal with the pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I had been in a relationship for 7 yrs about a year ago I found out that he was cheating on me, b/c I loved him I just figured that if I stayed with him and showed him that I loved him he would stop and of course it never did about 8mo. after I ...

I feel guilty for wanting someone else despite being in an open relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - ive been in an open relation with my boyfriend for a few months now and even though it is an open relationship i feel guilty for wanting someone else. im flirting with another guy that im madly and truelly in love with and i keep getting a really b...

Why can't I get over the crush I've had for 6 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I have no idea where to start. I have had a crush on this guy since I was 13 and he was 20. I am now 19 and I have been talking to him online through facebook and myspace. I was in a relationship for about two years and I had a baby boy. During t...

I know I should let go but how do I do this when I love him even if it is hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I need some serious opinions on this. I met this guy at work three years ago. We worked together and he had pursued me in the beginning. He kept asking me out and I told him no. I just was not interested. Eventually I ...

Our relationship is crumbling after I had to move in with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I recently became homeless and was forced to move in with my boyfriend. Now our relationship isn't the same and it seems to be crumbling down. We're always fighting and it seems like every little thing we do or say gets on each other's nerves. What ...

Confused about this reconciliation we're going through after I found him on a dating website!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I dated this guy for 2 months and he suddenly stopped communicated and I quickly discovered he was on a dating website. Things between him and I had been amazing and I really felt like we had something special and he was "the one". (I'm in my late ...

Should I stay? He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got together.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Ok, I might bullet this to make it clearer I am 23, Female, been with my boyfriend for two and a half years We live and work together in a pub and I am currently finishing my degree He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got to...

Boyfriend with the wanderlust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Things have been going ok for a little while with my boyfriend, until a couple of weeks ago where now all i feel is a mixture of love and resentment. He's planning on going travellng around southen france in a few months time. This all sounds ...