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writes:I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the newest cars.i was working as a domestic worker and this guy asked me to quit,i did.he buys us food(my litle bro and i), expensive clothes,now he bought a biger tv sets and a sound system.my problem is he is VERY BUSY.he doesnt have time for sex.he is a divorcee,told me so and that his wife left because of hs busy life! im not a cheating type but at 27 i think i need more sex.he keeps teling me we need to have a baby(but he doesnt have time for it).i bumped into my ex boyfriend last wednesday,gee,stil good looking!we went for a drink and before i knew it we were in his place having it.that was the best sexual healing for a record.i dont want my bf to know that ive fooled around,i dont want to cheat but i need sexual healing at times.should i privately do it wth my ex to satify my sexual needs or i should wait for my sugar daddy?he is foreva on business trips!pls help [Moderator's note: Question edited for clarity. OP, please avoid using abbreviations and text language.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): I say hook up with you ex and your sugar daddy, it's not like he's going to find out. Like you said he always away and how do you know he's not cheating on you while away on business.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Dear Ms. Digger,
If your Sugar Daddy is likely to resent your having sex with another man (and he most likely will) you will be in serious trouble. Make a choice, one way or another, and live with it.
Rgds,
G
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): i think that its strange that you want to have sex with your sugar daddy. most girls like you just want the money and not really the sex...but have to swap the sex for the money.
so now you're in a situation where you are getting money and not expected to give sex... that sounds like a dream come true in gold digger land.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): recently a local radio station had the sugar daddy hotline abuzz. the young women who use these rich 'senior citizens' for material gain. very pathetic because the young gals deliberately use these men, and these rich men only have themselves to blame for having these younger women use them. why not admit it: you are only with your sugar daddy for his money. love? what love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys you always know how to put me in my place.thank you for dis incredible response.i dont deserve my 'sugar daddy' boyfriend.he is a decent and very honest man,loyal! He is coming home today from a busines trip,i wish he doesnt read the guilt inmy face.i promise myself that il never fool around again.it lowered me and another thing is my ex is now thinking better of himself.i realy love my curent bf,its just his busy life that turns me off.thanx again
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 What if you are discovered?
Would you lose everything ?
Are you willing to lose everything for the sake of your sexual satisfactions?
Only you can answer that question.
To the man , you are just a trophy and he can get another one when it suits him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): Hi,
My advice to you is not to ever have sex without loving that person truly. It's not good for your concience if you just sleep with someone casually. I guarantee that you would not want to be with someone who just sleeps around with anyone they bump into. Sex should be accompanied with love, otherwise, you lower yourself and please think of others before yourself.
Secondly, you refer to the man you're with as a sugar daddy instead of your boyfriend whom you love. You should be in a relationship if you love him, whether he's filthy rich or not. In short, what goes around comes around. You can't escape from the karma you create. It will come to you and then you will wonder why your life is like this and that. Better to avoid those things and just live an honest and loving lifestyle.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 It's women like you that get the rest a bad name - 'Gold digger', 'Parasite', 'Only with him for his money'.
So why did you settle for this guy in the first place, if not for the above? Think we all know the answer.
Do the decent thing and leave him - you're obviously not good enough for him.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 You can only have one man at a time. There can't be a boyfriend no. 1 to give you money, a boyfriend no. 2 to give you sex, a boyfriend no. 3 to hang out with or talk to you. It's a pity that he can't buy your love and loyalty. Unless you are a queen you can't expect royal treatment. This is not sexual healing, private session. It's cheating. It's selfish. There is no way to sugar coat this.
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