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41-50,
*fogalilly
writes:What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night and he was at the same bar I like to drink at, when it was time to leave he took off to another bar down the street, our friends called him and tried to get him to come back, but he was pretty drunk and being quite a pain. So I said "oh hell," I'll just go get him, I dragged him out of the bar and what do you know our friends left him. I am so attracted to this man, I took him home and we slept together again. I had a few beers but I was not that drunk, I never stay the night with him, I usually leave by 7am. I know he is a jerk, he has told me several times what he is, but I just don't let him bother me. He knows that I care about him, and if I wasn't so cool and knew better the two " I love you's" he said might be taken the wrong way. He said nice things about my body, " don't change it."I don't know if he set me up, or our friends set us up, or it was just coincidence. I think our friends know what is going on between us. I am just ready to yell at him because he texts me and asks me if I am ignoring him. Then I text him back and he ignores me. I was going to a party on Wed. night and I wanted to ask if I could stay over, because I would like to have a few beers. I just wish he would be honest with me, and end it or say what he wants. I am at the point where I just don't care, I asked a guy out that I met a couple of weeks ago and had plans this weekend, but now I probably should cancel them, since I have went and done this again.I should have stayed away, we broke it off two weeks ago and I said that I did not want to see him for awhile, and he said back let's take a break for awhile. I am just one screwed up woman.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (8 October 2009):
ffogalilly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really don't know what he wants, frankly I am just tired of it. I really don't care what the outcome is, because I am the one who has feelings, and always gets hurt in the end.
I am not but I should be strong enough to say no, I am not taking you home and sleeping with you. But he knows exactly what buttons to push, to make me do what he wants. Whenever I say no to a man, they usually get angry, and I don't really care because I have always marched to my own tune and did what I want, I have been single for at least 13 years, I have flings, not relationships.
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