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female
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41-50,
*helle12345
writes:Where do I start?? I'm so depressed and angry!! I'm married with 2 children and 1 on the way 2 my husband (27wks). We split in sept 2008 we had been sleepin in separate rooms for most of the year. We got pregnant the last time thru a fertility program. Anyway on the 3rd go we decided not to worry about it and separate. I fell pregnant then didn't I. We now live separately.Late Oct I got an email from an ex boyfriend I had when I was 15yrs I haven't seen him for 17yrs. Anyway I've fallen madly back in love with him. He knows everything... He sold business because he was moving down here to be with me and last sat we had a huge fight and now I'm not sure where we're at. I told him in anger I was gonna get back with my husband. He knows I'm not but he's very angry with me. Actually 2 be honest we fight a lot. I can't walk away from him. I'm usually a strong person but hell he's got me thats for sure.One of our problems is he has a best friend who's a female. But to me she is really like a girlfriend. They go out for lunch at least 4 or more times a week. She was living with him as well as others, she moved out the other day. Yet he'd still go over to her place and sleep on the floor. He said that shes finding it hard living by herself. He's now rented his property out and moving in with her today.It drives me mad!! He promises there is nothing going on. He said she knows about me. He's known her since they were children and their parents know each other.To me they spend an awful amount of time together for casual friends.They were an item about 5 yrs ago. But decided they would be best off as friends. Am I over reacting?? I just want to keep bangin my head against a wall! I know I should just forget it. I love him and I believe him when he says he loves me. What do i do??
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