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writes:sometimes he will come and see me.. he will be in a huffy mood.. he won't tell me why.. any tips on getting him to spill?my boyfriend is really amazing.. his is kind.. he supported me and is still supporting me since my granny died two weeks ago..but sometimes he will some up to my house and say things that he doesn't mean.. not about me or too me.. but i dont like it when he is is that particualr mood.. it puts me down as well.. i try takling to him but he just says there is nothing wrong.. how can i get him to tell me?
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reader, shortstuff4789  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 i have found the best way to get them to spill is to be quiet, let him be upset and when he is ready he will tell you . make yourself available to listen but dont be pushy and dont be judgemental or offer your opions when he does tell u things unless he asks. but dont let him walk all over you when he is in thaat mood either. tell him, I will not tolerate you being mean and putting me down so if you are going to be like that (either you need to leave or i will leave... what ever the case may be) and you can talk to me when you are feeling better. and stick to it . most of the time i dont get halfway through it before he is nice again. it really works. let me know if this helps
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (17 February 2009):
 you have to know that most guys dont open up as much as girls do...so just ask him the truth on why he's mad, if he wants to he'll tell you.
gudd luck
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