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*_seidner06
writes:I asked a question on this site awhile ago about my ex and if i should give him a letter and what not. I have another question about him and I. Lately,I have been having these reoccuring dreams about him and I getting back together and him saying he still loves me.I wake up and want to call him or text him, something but then I remember we ended on bad terms cuz I found out he had another girl while we were "talking". So"in the name of love" I acted like a crazy sycho ex and slashed her tires...So anyway, I always think about him and want to know if he still has feelings for me and stuff, but i dont want to him to yell at me and tell me to leave him alona again...I want him back but dont know if i should try to leave things as they are or try to talk to him again...I love him with all my heart adn soul.
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reader, llcooljayce +, writes (18 February 2009):
 You need to leave well enough alone. Once a cheater...well, you know the rest. He's not going to change. Move on and find a good guy who's going to love you and be faithful. Best wishes!
J
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (17 February 2009):
 Dreams are not about other people; they are about ourselves. In your dream, your ex represents something you would like to have in your life. It could be him, though I don't understand why you would want a cheating boyfriend back. More likely, in your dream he represents some quality or experience you wish for. When you were together, what was the most important thing about him to you? You're probably longing for that.
If you look into for yourself and ask what you are wishing for and work toward it, rather than trying to find easy satisfaction by calling your ex, then you'll also reap the reward of the effort and you will grow more mature and confident, which is something that you probably need, given you slashed that woman's tires.
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