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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Pleeeeease say he isn't gay!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - dear people, I need help - me and by boyfriend have been going out for 5 years, I never used to wonder if he was gay until recently, I mean he has a friend who acts so strange and seeing them both together makes me wonder what kind of relationship ...

Stuck between a rock and a hard place.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - So you all know me by now. lol my wife couldn't figure what she wanted. well the divorce is over been finalized. Well she has been seeing this guy for 2 months and she talked to me 2 nights ago saying she misses me that she started seeing herself ...

My jealousy is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - i m a very jeluos person and everytime my boyfriend talks to other females i get so angry but i know hes not going to do anything and i think if i dont get some help with my problem then me and my boyfriend are going to break up and i dont want that ...

He's stressed out about a lot of things, is this his way of saying it won't work to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I've been going out with this guy for around 3 and a half months (4 if you count me going on holiday, but we kept in touch through email). I'm crazy about him and I thought he was crazy about me. Since I got back from holiday we've had some ...

A woman should shud her mouth and sit in the corner - he's abusive and strange. what's goin on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hi My husband just beat me down to the floor last night and held me there. I refusd to be held down so I fought to free myself. He told me to calm down and stop being angry I was calm and I was not angry. I was fustrated I was being accused ...

There's no sexul chemistry, am I right for wanting to take a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I need advice, I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years to the day. He is an awesome person and he treats me like a queen, however I have never felt a strong chemistry with him, especially in the bedroom. Recently I met someone with whom I have a ...

Conversation starters? I'm having trouble creating new and interesting conversation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a two yearrelationship and we have hit some bumps I need help with conversation starters we live 4 hours apart but we always ask the same questions each time we talk or at least I do I need help I love this man more than anything in ...

My husband left me, had me arrested and now I have a restraining order on me and he has a new love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - my husband left me 2 weeks ago.he has his own place that he never gave up the entire 2 years of our realtionship.anyway,i went over and went in without permission and although i didn't find proof of infidelity,i found out he had a pay increase by 4k ...

He's not there for me like I want him to be. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend and care about him and God knows I do but he can't do anything for me. He dnt give the kind of attention I need and not as affectionate as he used 2 be. Everytime I try 2 leave him . He blames it on me and I on the other hand d...

Does he want me or his girlfriend? He can't have both.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I ended things with my ex over a year ago, it was hard and hurt me, but I had to becasue he wouldn't commit to me, in the way I wanted him to. He wasn't happy, and asked if we could jsut carry on etc, etc, I couldn't do it, even though I still felt ...

Is it unreasonable of me to ask her to stop contacting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I went through a recent breakup. We were separated for several months. During this time she dated someone briefly. She denies it but I know she was very attached, if not in love, with this guy. He was involved with someone else ...

He cheated on me, are the twins his? And problems with his daughter...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Message: 10356.1 (1 of 1) Whose ready for a long story??? Well I found out in Jan of this year that my husband of 8 yrs. ,whom I should say I adore more than life, cheated on me in December. it supposedly only happened once. I am 28, he is 42(...

My mum thinks I'm sleeping with her fiancé

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) - I have a really confusing problem thats been going on for a couple of years now. My mum believes im having an affair with her fiance (kind of my stepdad). she is wrong nothing is going on, she kicked me out of the family home last year and i now ...

He wants me, we've both got partners in the same company...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - WHAT'S GONNA HAPPEN?? He wants me but his g/f won't let him go. She gets out of control when she sees his interest in me, like she's a psychotic wacko. I really want this guy - there's a mutual attraction between us and has been for at least 6 ...

He sends mixed messages and won't even come out with me without a reason. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Im unsure on what to do. please help me. 15. me and a boy at my school like eachother. He has confused me. But iv spoken to him and he says he isnt ready to progress anything. When i try and ask him to come out after school. he says and do what? ...

We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we...

Exclusive, non-serious relationship. Is it worth being in one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - My question is, should I have hope in an exclusive non serious relationship turning into a serious relationship? Non serious meaning (nothing more physical than the occasional hug and holding hands, talking and going out and having fun). Basically...

My family has always picked on me and I have had enough. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I am 41 years old, and i have been picked on by my mother and one of my sisters. it is like if they think they are more supirior. they will pick on every little thing possible, from the way i talk to my dog, to the way i walk , to the way i raise my ...

Am I nitpicking or do I have a valid reason for having hurt feelngs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Be honest...am I nitpicking?? Last night I took my boyfriend to dinner, what I ordered was HORRIBLE, he even said it looked bad. I couldn't eat it at all..I had a few bites of my sides and then just didn't touch the meal. My boyfriend loved hi...

Whats your opinion on me kicking out my lazy, work shy, immature partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have several problems with my partner of 4 years, we have a child together, I have a son from a previous relationship and he has 4 other children from other relationships that don't live with him. One major problem is that he is irresponsible and ...

My partner lies to me - but I love him - should I give him another chance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 6 years after we met through one of the dating ads in a local newspaper. We clicked immediately, enjoying many shared interests, laughing at the same silly things and generally sharing life together. We did not move ...

Could my boyfriend be bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Could my boyfriend be bisexual? I have this weird feeling inside that something is not right in the relationship. My boyfriend would be happy only having sex every other week. He never gives me oral sex unless I ask for it. He acts like he is ...

We split up 5 months ago but he won't move out!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I split with my boyfriend (and father of my 3 year old twins) 5 months ago after years of him lying and stealing from me but he still won't move out. Nothing has changed, I still do all the cooking and cleaning and look after the twins by myself, ...

He is so controlling, how do I get out of this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I have a problem and hope that any one can give me some advice. Well I was engaged with this man for 16 years and he never asked me to marry me, I have a 4 year old son with him and 2 teenage daughters from previous marrage. My ...

Should I give him another chance? I found texts to his ex begging her to come back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been dating a man that when we first started dating still had feelings for his ex of 5 years, they have 2 young children together and have been broken up for 2 years He at the time said he did want to get back with her and is ...

My partner's friends don't like me, and my partner does nothing about it. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Okay, here's the deal. I live with my partner, and 2 of his friends that DO NOT like me. One day, they used me as the scapegoat, and started yelling at me calling me nasty names such as whore, slut, skank, hooker. Things like that. When I confronted ...

I'm a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife! Advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - I am a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife. I never had a problem with that before we were married. she is gorgeous, and sexy, and I truely love her and enjoy my time with her, and yet I cant seem to get hard, I can however, when i ...

He asked for my number twice but never calls, don't know why..what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have met this guy online, he sent me a friend request i accepted and we began talking this has been going on for the pass two months, during this time we found out we had basically almost everything in common, we love the same music my ...

Upset that my bf looks at dirty pictures! Shouldn't he respect my feelings and stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - hi i was really upset that my boyfriend looks at dirty pictures as it made me feel like i was nothing and not good enough... I know he loves me but he goes on about that its just a guy thing and i should just get over it! i have tried to get over it ...

How do I get my BF to enjoy oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years whom i hope to marry. For the first 6 months of our relationship he gave me oral sex. Since then it has been an uphill battle. How can i get him to enjoy giving me oral sex? Yes i am healthy down there, a...

His texts are shorter and there are no more endearments! How can I get him interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have met this really nice guy at work he and I have been chatting for along time now at work but because we work in different departments its been hard to talk for long periods. so one day he said we should meet up outside of work, so we did and ...

I'm not a bad looking girl..what's a girl gotta do to get a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hey this is really bugging me.. im not an ugly girl but im defo not stunning but i have a gud figure..Anyway i dont understand why boys aint interested.. I get comments like your well sexy or your a sort n that rubbish but no1 actually asks me out ...