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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Chosing between my friend and this guy I like...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - my problem is that there is this guy who my friend likes. but the thing is that she knows i like him too, and have liked him for two years since i was in the seventh grade and he was in the eighth grade. now i'm a freshman and he's a sophmore. well ...

She's 'kinda seeing someone'...should I stay interested or just end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a girl a few weeks ago and really like her. I asked her out, she said she would love to go out, but she was kinda seeing someone. Understandably I was very disappointed, but a few days later she texted me a random "how you doin?", ever ...

After a whirlwind courtship, he suddenly decided to end it..what happened?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 57, female. I recently started dating a guy whom I met 40 yrs ago. He said he had the biggest crush on me when I was in high school, so we had a couple of dates and he said all the right things, we spent lots of time together...

I'm not sure I wnat to marry her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Okay you may remember me, the guy with the fiancee' with the visa. She wasn't sure if she wanted to marry and I didn't know what to do since we only have 90 days to marry. Well now that she is here she does want to be my wife and get married but ...

Why don't my parents like me...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I'm 13 and the youngest in my family. Sometimes I feel forgotten or like my parents don't really care about me. Throughout my childhood I've always felt different and like I don't really belong. My parents get mad at me easily. I remember when I ...

How do I tell my dad I HATE the kickboxing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This is a really stupid question sorry :( But I have joined a kickboxing class and I really don't like it. You have to do 40 press ups not stop, and 100 situps and countless other things. This is hard with d cup boobs ! But my dad really like...

I recently found out my cheated on my 10 years ago. My love for her has now completely gone.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I found out recently that 10 years ago, my now wife had a drunken one night fling with a co-worker. She was drinking a lot and for some crazy reason thought that I wasn't in love with her any more. She did the classic 'after it happened, I realized ...

Help! should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - help! should i take him back? I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, and still can't get him out of my head and love him to pieces, we where together for a year, then he decided to steal my jewellery worth thousands and sell it, to pay a debt off h...

I want my husband to compromise more with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am 32 years old and my husband is 45. I find that one he acts like he doesn't remember important conversations unless it has something to do with something he likes. He only satisfies me 50% of the time when we're in bed. He always says things ...

I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and i"ve known him since i was really young. Everything was going good in our relationship and we planned on getting married and having kids in the future like five years from now. Well i ...

We fight a lot over stupid, petty things, we don't know what to do about this, any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. Our problem is that we fight a lot. Usually it is petty fighting about stupid things. His main complaint with me is that I am too quick to attack. For example, if he says something I don't ...

Any advice on my rocky relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for nearly five months and it has been the most rocky five months I've had in a very long time. The thing is I always forgave him for the things he did even though he constantly upsets me. I thought he was changing last ...

Should I just accept this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Am I being unreasonable? My partner and I are both widowed,I am 72 she is 65. We have been together for 11 years and are extremly happy.we bought a house together 5 years ago and we have no money problems.I moved north to the area where my partner ...

Where do I find the strength to walk away as even my 3-year-old daughter suggests, seeing how he upsets me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am at my wits end... I have been in a relationship for 2 and half years, most of which has been bad, but I can't seem to walk away and when I do decide to get my head together he comes back and wants me again, I love him so much but can't f...

Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...

I'm pregnant and my situation with the father is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently came across this site and found reading other people's similar stories really helped and made me want to get views on my situation. I am 21 years old and was with a manipulative man for 5 years (since i was 16), the re...

Should I stop paying the mortgage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My Ex-partner lives in the house we own jointly. I have moved out into another property and now pay 2 mortgages. She refuses to pay her half of mortgage and expects me to pick up her tab. I have asked that house be auctioned she refuses; the house ...

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice about whether I'm being unreasonable with my boyfriend. He broke up with his ex (who he lived with for a year)in June 2007 after a pretty rocky relationship - he says she cheated on him four times in the year and I know ...

He adores me but why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - a friend gave me good advice and made me see the truth in my relationship. how do i get enough courage to take her advice? i've been in my relationship and my boyfriend has nothing to complain about. i am extremely patient with him, i don't nag or a...

My boyfriend is bothered that I'm "beating" him in the career field. Is there anything I can do to support him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in the same profession, and he's been having a bit of a tough time lately. He's someone whose self-image is closely connected to his academic and professional success, and for most of the time I've known him (we met in grad ...

Why is it such a big deal to me to think about my boyfriend's sex life with his ex'es?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has had two girlfriends before me, both of which were long-term relationships. Naturally, he was intimate with both of them. And I totally understand that. However, it really bugs me to know the extent of their physical relationships. ...

Is he distancing himself from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Alright, so I will try to explain this as best as I can. But first I will let you know the important factor: it's a long distance relationship. I started dating my brother's friend four months ago, although we live four hours away from each other. I...

My wife and my father do not get along! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - My wife and father don't get along. Both of them are stuborn and I can't take it anymore. My father has a lot of issues. There is no love in his marriage, he doesn't have any friends, he feels like people don't acknowledge him for the person he is...

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...

He had absolutely no compassion when I told him I was raped.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - While discussing with my fiancee about when I was raped when younger he couldn't put his arms round me and when I cried he just got angry and said we were in a shitty relationship, does he really love me? or will he abandon me?...