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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex will not leave my house! How do I get him out of here??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - my ex will not leave my house! im at my wits end with him.his girlfriend dumped him about a week ago,and right now he is basically homeless.he has tons of family members in the area that he could stay with.he came down a few nights ago and i didnt ...

Was I wrong to break-up with him? Was I too impatient?

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1 October 2008 (F) - I just broke-up with my boyfriend recently and everything that was said during the break-up and aftwards gives me mixed emotions on what he was really thinking. First he always said, when we had fights, that I am not good for you or you should be ...

I feel like I'm 'broken' and he won't want me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - I am really having a hard time in this semi-new relationship (4 months)! Both of us have been through hell, emotionally. In short, his first marriage ended when his ex wife left him for another woman and he still has a hard time trusting women. ...

Hurt beyond repair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Hurt beyond repair? (I still love him) I have been married for 10+ years. We were really special when we met our friends referred to us a Romeo and Juliet. Over the years our kids have caused us to argue and fight verbally really bad. In a...

Do you think he wants more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - So I was seeing this great guy for about 3 months at the start of the year. Everything was great and we were like boyfriend/girlfriend except we hadn't actually had 'the talk'. He introduced me to all his friends and I got on great with all of ...

Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

1 October 2008 (M) - Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I got married to a woman I havn't even known for 3 months. I should have thought it through more because this is horrible now. I didnt realize all that came with being married. She is even 6 years ...

Boyfriend in control....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it ...

Do I confront my boyfriend about being gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - not really sure where to start but here goes..... i had been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and thought he was 'the one' i then discovered he had stolen all my savings and spent them on some online computer game. i also found out that he had ...

I don't know what to think anymore. Everytime I leave the house I feel like she is talking to someone else. Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 October 2008 (M) - Hi. My situation seems like a pretty common one. But I don't know what to do. My girlfriend and I have been dating 8 months and we moved in together after 3 months. At first everything was great and it only seemed to change a month ago. She now ...

Do I have to tell him the truth to save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - I really need help! Ive been with my so called boyfriend for 2years now, wll I say "so called" because 9months into the realtionship he told me he had a girlfriend he had been with for 7years!!! I obviously finished with him but some how he worm...

How do I get his trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Okay basically my boyfriend of five months split up with me because we were going through a rough patch and he didnt see the point in us continuing anymore as it was so complicated. I was absolutely devastated as I loved and still love him with my ...

I clam up when I have to confront my ex, as a result of the abuse he's put me through. Then I explode on my wonderful husband, who thinks he's second best, not true! Help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - I am happily married to a wonderful man that treats me with the utmost respect, love and he is so incredibly compassionate. My problem is that I was married to a verbally abusive man prior to my now husband and I have 2 children with him. I move...

My boyfriend of two years suddenly broke up with me with no warning. Now he tells me that he cheated on me and felt I deserved better. We both want to try again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - help, i need advice-- my boyfriend of over two years suddenly broke up with me, after asking for a reason he told me that he had cheated on me last year and the day before we broke, he said that he couldn't go on lying to me, he felt to guilty a...

From a failed marriage to an unhealthy relationship, what's next? I am left feeling sad, dissapointed, lonely and a bit resentful. How to shake off the bad feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (M) - I have recently come out of a divorce where the breakdown was very long and drawn out and quite messy at the end. For a long time before the divorce was completed i suffered with a terrible depression. I was in quite a state for over a year which ...

Why have I lost my sex drive at such a young age and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! ok i have a problem its not serious to me but to my husband it is. ok we've been together since about a month b4 my 17th birthday im now 21{almost 22}we've been married 2 years and for some reason i just really dont have alot of ...

She never wants sex, how can I spark her interest again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

1 October 2008 (M) - I am a 21 year old male in a relationship with 1 girl for going on 2 years now. We plan on getting married in a little over 2 years after we both get out of college. When we started out having sex, it was perfect. Every weekend we saw each other ...

I'm dating a wonderful man, but he is dependent on medication, which makes it hard to connect. Do I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - I am a 48yo female dating a wonderful 50yo man, the thing is that I realized he was dependant on oxycodone for a shoulder injury and I confronted him. He is on suboxine, however he seems to be in a deep depression, one day he would seem great, then ...

I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend, I feel so lonely

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Hello this is kind of long but I really need help. I have never been a needy person, one year ago I move to this country, to USA, because I received a job offer just out of college. I got the job of my dreams, and profesionally I feel very well, bu...

I found naughty pics on her phone, but she says they were for a job at a strip club. Is she hiding something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

1 October 2008 (M) - i think my girlfriend is cheating i found some naughty pics of her on her phone and asked her who she sent them too. she said it was a strip club for a job. i dont think strip clubs do job interviews over text messaging. then she sais the lady she ...