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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He went to go down on me and then stopped.. now I feel like the most insecure person in the world.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have to put this bluntly, otherwise i'm going to go off into loads of upset drabble and i don't want to bore you with that... I've always had trouble with my 'private' area, as a female i'm so worried all the time about what it looks like and s...

I feel as though he resents me over uneven income.

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13 October 2008 (F) - Is there a solution to uneven finances? I am thinking that men have a harder time jobless and at a lower level income ( unemployment income) for the most part. Any ideas? I sense my boyfriend (well we are separated over this) harbors quite a lot of...

Personality change!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - So I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 months today. And at the beginning of our relationship he was all sweet and always wanted to be with me and made time for me if he could. He always made me so happy when I was in a bad mood. He would ...

Problems with self image, how can I enjoy my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem. I am really self concious about my body. I have a problem with eating and I overexercise and have some unhealthy habits. I don't do anything extreme, and I manage and hide them well, but I still am not satisfied with how I look. ...

Is there a way to go about regaining his trust? He says the chances are slim. However I never cheated him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - thank you all for reading this..hopefully you will be able to help because I am in need of some advice.. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half now..we've talked on and off but never got back together..I do still have feelings fo...

Do I still love him? I take him for granted but he doesn't deserve it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I am so so confused. I just cant figure out whether i am in love with my man, or whether i just love being with him. We have been together on and off for 4 years. Recently, I have been feeling very little in the way of chemistry and sex dri...

We are meant to be getting married but he keeps starting fights about how much sex we have. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Is there any advice for us???? I have gone from being so very very happy when my now fiance proposed to me 2 months ago to feeling like I just want to cry. Basically we had a huge argument last week which resulted in lots of screaming and shouting ...

She terminated our long distance, online relationship. Should I still call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x. Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I...

What should I do to clear my head of this obnoxious secret she kept for a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - My girlfiend told me that she had slept with another guy in the past. According to her, she swore that nothing happened between them. Is it hard to believe that, even with the circumstances that were given. Ever since she told me I've been confused ...

Is he cheating or falling out of love with me, or am I just paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 October 2008 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for over 2 years. We have a 16 month-old together. For a while now he has been changing a lot towards me and I think he is either cheating on me or falling out of love with me. It is too the point to where he ...

I have trouble committing. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hi I met this girl during "vacation" and we had a one month "affair" (she was in an LD). She got in some minor fight with her bf and I could tell that she was waiting for me to ask for some kind of commitment. But every time the opportunity aros...

Do I wait and let him have his space, or do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Myboyfriend of 18 mo suddenly says he needs space(no time limit). He says he loves me and does not want to split just needs space to figure out what he wants. I haven't spoken to him for a few days, and it is hard. I love him and my kids love ...

My parents fight every day, and my father hits my mother. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hello my name is cha. Im from Korea and I live in Ameria. I just want to get off from my chest. I came here when I was 15. When I arrived in America, I didn't know any of Western cultures especailly Enlglish but as i have been educated in public ...

He knows the smell of smoke turns my stomach, but he won't quit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My husband started to smoke after we had a big fight. He did it and said he did it to spite me. He knows how i feel about smoking. I was raped by a man who smoked and that is the one smell I just cant be around! everytime i am it triggers horrible ...

I love him, but our families don't get on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hi im 30 and my boyfriend is 20, we love each other but i dont get along with his family and he dont get along with my family. what should i do? when he was locked up i was the only one there for him not his family. so should i just move on and love...

We've been fighting a lot recently and now she seems really distant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please... 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend it seemed like we hit a rough patch I dont knw what happened but over night it seemed like things changed abruptly like she stopped talking to me as much, we didn't flirt as much, hold ...

All my new husband wants to do is save save save!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, I'm having serious concerns... I recently got married to my 2 year boyfriend .. and we love each other a lot but my main concern is MONEY! ... He is a pilot and pretty well loaded... I just found out he has a bunch of money saved up in the ...