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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He has a gf but is he after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he had a GF so we took the friend road. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things ...

I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she ...

I found out my fiance was unfaithful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I found out my fiance was unfaithful. We haven't spoken since. I feel that I need to be told if the whole 8 years we were together was a lie, that when he told me he loved me it was true. I sent him a text explaining that if he ever cared for me ...

Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight after 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, ...

Is there more going on with my boyfriend and his female best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a best friend that is female. Which is fine with me, my best friend is male. Heres the thing.They dated about 8 years ago and now are best friends. When me and him first met(not knowing we would be together) he sad if there was ...

Should I continue to work at this job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I'm really embarassed.I work in a shop which is very difficult,i have to run up and down a long flight of steps,and carry heavy boxes sometimes, so i am bound to get warm.Today,the person in charge pulled me to one side and told me that some ...

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on my current relationship. He is a great guy I think I am in love with him. I am not sure if it is for the right reasons. My husband committed suicide in front of me 1 year ago. I am sure sure if I will ever really get through ...

My girlfriend is starting to ask my help in paying her bills

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend who i love very much and she says she loves me, she works nights in people care and exhausts herself doing it to pay her mortgage and bills and the money is not going far enough so shes started asking me for money to make up the ...

He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after ...

Could this be emotional abuse?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi I think I have been in an abusive relationship. Started dating in February, he was loving and things were good. but slowly over time he showed he had a short fuse, ranted to me on the phone about spending time with family, said our time pre...

I've recently split with my boyfriend who I loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me.He still had feelings for on of his past ex's. Now he calls me for long chats. What am I to make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hello, im really confused hear I've recently split with my boyfriend who i loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me and he still had feelings for on of his past ex anyway, are split was his choice but we still talk often,anyway i usually speak to ...

I don't want to leave my job but if it comes to it I'll have to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hey, i asked for advice about 12 days ago, concerning a meeting with my boss and how my work was affecting my health. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-work-is-damaging-my-health.html Intially I was really pleased about my meeting. He real...

My wife and I don't have sex at all after marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 32 and my wife is 34. We got married 8 years ago. We knew each other only for 1 year before we got married. Our sex life is nonexistent and stopped soon after we got married. The Story: Our relationship started as many others - we met ...

My boyfriend and I are so different and it's causing problems.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just wants to see me as and when it suits him and if there is nothing else better to do. We dont share many similar interests except watching tv. He drinks a lot and I don't so any time he goes out he doesn't want me in his company cos ...

I want to leave my husband but I can't bring myself to do it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 3 kids. I want to leave him but I can't bring myself to do it. We constantly fight, he curses me and even calls our kids names, I hate him for how he acts. I've asked him to go to counseling ...

My Blackout Ruined Everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I met the man of my dreams over a year ago and we became fast friends. We shared everything; our love of creating art, our personal politics, past relationship woes, our taste in music and... our love of alcohol. About a year after meeting, w...

Why is he turning on the only person who wants to help? ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I'm really upset. My boyfriend has gotten really depressed lately to explain this I better start from the beginning. We met years ago and stayed friends until we lost contact because I moved away and lost my phone. He moved house and then a year ...

I'm a married man, and I prefer masturbation to intercourse. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I am having some problems with my sex life. I am a 28 year old male and have been married for 5 years. My wife and I waited to have sex until after we were married. I was not a virgin and she was. After about 5 years of marriage I am f...