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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Caught my husband doing my sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

22 October 2008 (?) - I left work early cause I didn't feel well. And I caught my husband doing my sister (now my pregnant sister who I'm not talking too). Here's a surprise he's drunk again. We also have a 3 week son who's very needy. I'm so upset I threw my wedding ...

Her words don't match her actions! What to I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, I am really confused by this girls actions. I have a new neighbor she is 20 yr old. I am 40 and single. She came over and introduced herself the first week and asked if she could her laundry since she does not have a washer/dryer. I ...

Problems at school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - im haveing these bigg promblems in school. im 15 and in the 9th grade.this boy i really liked asked me out i really like him ALOT AND HE LIKES ME but theres these girls that i guess hates me so they told him to brake up with me.he dident but i broke ...

Have a given him too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Well this might be a pretty long story but please take sum tim to read it and please give me sum advice... Well the thing is, my ex split up with me just over a month ago and now hes asking for me bk but i dno cos let me tell u wat happend wen we w...

How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been seeing another woman for over 20 years. I made a mistake and got married to someone else and I am very unhappy. How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love....

We're so different that it creates a strain on our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have our fights, but I feel like they are more often than should be in a normal relationship and they are becoming more frequent. I have a very hard time communicating without getting ...

A lot of trust issues between him and I. Any advice?

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22 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend, "Pillsbury" for over 9 nine months. We met thru a mutual friend of ours. For the past 7 months he was doing drugs and standing me up and it almost ruined our relationship on several occasions! Now, for 2 months he has ...

She said there was no physical attraction...can we overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi All I'm a nice normal guy in his early 30s who's never had a long term relationship and a few short term. I have interests and don't feel I meet the right sort of person for me. I recently went out with a girl from work for just over 1 m...

Does her crying mean she cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi, please help. My girlfriend has a not so nice sexual history including having affair with a married man and also a history of cheating. I love her so much and won't let go but it upsets me. I asked her when she was with another guy sexually ...

Will this have a bad ending?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been divorced for 10 years and have had an off and on relationship with a woman for the past 5 years. The first time we split up, I think , after 2 years. I feel that we moved in together too fast and it created problems for us both. The ...

Where and when did I become public enemy number one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Here is one for you.. You see a girl for two years, she sees someone’s, you say fair enough ask no questions and say if its what you want good luck with it, heartbroken you get on with it. Weeks later she cries saying it is all a mess you are kind ...

Read her journal: did she sleep with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - There is one particular ex my GF has that for whatever reason, more than her others, rubs me the wrong way. I don't like this guy one bit. However, he was her first boyfriend, and stopped dating I think at 16 years old. We are 22 now, but she is ...

Is she giving me mixed signals to play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend split up about 5 months ago now. We were together for 1 and a half years ish. I believe it ended because she didnt want to be with me because of how i had become, how my life revolved too much around her, how controlling ...

Problems in my current relationship drove me to another man, who I developed feelings for after a brief affair! Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 11 years and we have 2 young children who we both love very much. We have experienced many problems in our relationship together but we're still struggling along through endless battles. Last year I hit rock bott...

Can a person resist temptation and survive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Can a person resist temptation and survive? I have fallen in love with someone that I have no business loving. Ya, it started innocent enough. It was a situation where it was SO not a worry, I guess I didn't protect myself, the way I would for ...

Should I email him at his new job, to apologize?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - This guy I worked with left work 2 days earlier than he should have. He sent the Head Boss an e-mail. Before he left there was a disagreement in the team and after he left I found out that another team member had e-mailed our direct boss at home ...

This break up has really messed me up...help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Im feeling so rubbish at the moment, so many feelings and emotions are getting to me. My boyfriend left me a month ago, we had been together for about 2 and a half years, and he was my everything. we split up once before and then got back together ...

My bf says he loves me but he's really better off single. I don't get it *guys opinions please*

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - ok iv been on and off with my boyfriend 3 times now and he has recently said to me that he is not happy being with me and that he was better off single and i asked him why and he said because i feels like i dont love him and i said 'if you're so ...

My bf isn't working and just lives off me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 23 years old, we have a house which we rent in a village near our parents houses. We've been together for nearly 4 years now and while ive been with him he hasnt had a job. I find myself having to pay for everything for him. ...

His ex is a pathological liar--I am sick of dealing with her! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hey every one, have a bit of a dilemma.my husband's ex is a total bender, i am sick of dealing with her.i want some help. let me start. she befriended me as soon as she found out who i was and as our children went to the same school i wud see...

My gf doesn't want sex that much...has the spark gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and at the moment I feel like we are an old married couple. We only have sex once a week, when we do it is amazing but it leaves me wanting more. We are only young after all! We have tried all sorts of things ...

We can't stop fighting, how can we get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 9 months now and i am completely in love and i know that he is too, but we fight almost every couple of days, and not little fights, most of the time we say we are going to break up (even though we both know we wont ...

My boss says he loves me, but its more of a sick infatuation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have a boss that frequently hits on me and claimed that he loved me. It's very uncomfortable and I tried to make it clear i was not into dating him. he write messages with strange "i love you's" or things like "When we are married in vermont,...

(I'm in love with this older professor, but I'm married to someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please don't judge, but I am in love with my professor. I don't know what kind of love it is, if it is how a daughter loves her dad, or how a woman loves a man, but I have been in love with him for over a year now. I am 21, and he is 58...

I have personal issues about this woman from his past! Why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I love my Fiance, and we are getting married in 5 months. There is a relationship in his past that really bothers me. She was divorced and with a child. She was a bartender at a trashy young bar and lived at home with her parents. She also ...

Angry because he won't have sex but he still masturbates daily! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm angry at my boyfriend, he masturbates daily and lies about it. We don't have sex anymore and when I ask him about it he comes up with a different answer every time. I don't know if he's lying or not. We are always talking about breaking up and ...

Do I have cause to think he might be cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I made arrangements with my boyfriend and some of our friends to go out for my birthday last weekend (Sat eve/all day Sun). Up until the Wednesday of last week he seemed very enthusiastic, but then he text me saying 'shall we see what the weather ...

He's not fulfilling his promises to me...should I still date him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I work in the nightclub industry as a dancer for three years, and have begun to really hate it. Then about a month ago, I met a guy in there whom i liked, and he promised to take care of my bills and whatever i needed, so long as i didn't ...

I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...