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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I get this feeling my boyfriend might break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is about to break up with me. He's confronted me about the situation a few times but I haven't done anything about it and this time I think he means it. For a while now he's been telling me I'm too controlling and I say ...

He was obsessed with me to begin with, no it's the other way around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and I am absolutely in love with him. When the relationship first started, I was a little bit freaked out because he was so obssessed with me, and expressed his fear of losing me to anoth...

My boyfriend is introverted, how to deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I need help here, my boyfriend is very introverted ( very very) and I am very extroverted, I like him just the way he is, I am inlove with him in that way, when we are together everything is perfect, he does everything for me ( we normally ...

Why are there so many awkward silences between us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend stopped talking to me as much and we seem to be having trouble talking to each other. Lately we have been having awkward silences when talking. I don't know what to do.... Does anyone have sugestions on what I could do to make it ...

What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...

In the last 3 weeks my husband's behaviour has become very odd.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - In the last 3 weeks my husband's behaviour has become very odd. He just sits in front of the TV in his underwear, eating nachos and drinking endless bottles of Diet Coke and Pepsi. The programmes he watches are usually reality TV or, worse, porn ...

Does she have an ulterior motive in wanting to marry me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I have girl 8 years older than me and we are planning getting married but I don't know if she truly loves me because too many times she is only polite only when we are having sex and after she is just being much of herself and not doing the things ...

My boyfriend has many young friends at the age of 36 and it's a bit frustrating for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy when id worked through my own past issues, I have a five year old girl, and him a ten year old. We had both looked to god for the right kind of love, and when we met it felt very meant to be for us both. We even saw a shooting star on ...

My girlfriend was a prostitute... and it turns me on. Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Hi, Well, where do I start. My girlfriend is Thai and I met her in Thailand in a bar where she was working selling sex. 1 year later we are still together and she is about to come back to Australia were we will likely be together forever...

I love someone else, but when I see my ex all the old feelings come back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I need some of your opinion. Well I was engage for 16yrs, and he never ask me 2 marry him. I am the one who always asked him 'when are we going 2 get married' and his answer always is 'someday'. Well we had some problems like 7 ...

I found hid old love letters to his ex, and now I wonder about our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - At the risk of being a total cliche, yes, I found the proverbial "box of love letters, poems, and cards" my boyfriend of 3 years wrote to his ex-wife during their courtship ten years ago. I don't have a problem with him having a past and holding ...

When he's drunk, he's violent and mean. Should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (?) - When my boyfriend of 5 years gets drunk says like im ugly, I need to lose Weight and many more. One night we went to a night club and he got drunk (again) and started hitting the waitress in front of me. When she left, I give him hell. He told me ...

After 2 years, he just dumped me to go date other females! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - he told me that he loves me but not in love. two years of being together and a year n a half of living together. i supported him and his career options and he lost the career. i helped him start school all cause of me i never asked him for nothing. ...

He left me without giving me any reason! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if my boyfriend left me without any reason? We've been together in one year and 10 months. When he go to boracay last august 16-23,2008, since then he changed a lot. He never texted me and he is so moody. He never called me hon ...

Did I marry the wrong girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I have been married for just over 2 years. Love my wife, never want to let her down. I can't get over my first love, although we haven't been together in 10 years. We are still friends and chat very often, however we have not even seen each other ...

My best buddy's gf hates me..what's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - heres some backround info first of all. I met this guy about a year ago and we connected pretty fastly. we became bestfriends and he was so nice! when he met me he introduced me to hs gf and she seemed pretty cool. i found out she was and still is ...

He tried choking me and I kicked him out! So why do I feel so sad about all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Two week's ago, an incident occurred with my boyfriend of 3yrs.,He tried to choke me which is the 2nd time, but there are other problems. He actually gave up his apt. to move in with me when this happened. He has been calling me telling me he is ...

What can I do with this cocky flirty guy I met at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Well, this guy I met who is a military. He was very friendly when I met him last month. I met him over a business contact. turns out that he was very kinda flirty, then a week later when I go to his office he had someone else treat with me instead ...

His ex gf is trying to steal him back! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend has been going out for 6 months. We went out months before but two his ex girlfriend came back into his life. Supposably he was confused and didn't know what to do. In the end he chose me because he "loved" me the most. A ...

I'm bored with my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I`m 17 going on 18 and i am having relationship problems every Friday. i go see my gf and its the same thing every day and I`m getting bored then another thing is that she works 6 hours after school on friday and 8 hours on saturday. And i feel that ...