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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I forget about the past so I wont ruin my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi i need advice. i was in a relationship a year and a half ago where we broke up. he tried still being my friend but he kept lying to me. now we recently got back together because he begged me for another chance.. but he finally admittied to me ...

He tells me I am chubby! Do you know how I can deal with my weight issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some help here dealing with a couple of things or an extra point of view. CONTEXT I used to have a very nice body (waist 24in/62cm)but a couple of years ago I decided to quit my job and start a business with my partner. So now I 'm wor...

I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...

His mixed signals confuse me! Am I imagining that he's reconsidering his choice to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My ex of 1.5 years and I broke up nearly two months ago. We had a very good, loving relationship, but a problem loomed as we are both approaching transitions in our careers that might take us to different places (we work for the same, very l...

If they're keen and kind I don't want to know them, whereas if they treat me unwell I can't stay away! What am I doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Im 41, single female, never married, no kids! So, "whats wrong with you?" I hear you ask, well - lots of people do ask me that! I seem to have an issue with guys in that if they are keen and kind and a bit full on, then I dont want to know, ho...

Does my ex hate me or does he love me? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Does my ex still loves me ? that is my question and my problem right. We were in a relationship for 2 years on and off. We have been through a lot. Depression, we've even been to the police but after that we forgave each other. the police scene...

My boyfriend's not good at expressing his feelings, works a lot, has a female friend that I'm jealous of, I'm so stressed in this relationship, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hello I need an advice here, my boyfriend is really wonderfull, he treats me like a princess all the time, my problem with him is that he is very affectionate physically talking, he hugges me, he kisses me all the time, and he is always ...

I miss my ex who was abusive to me, we want to take it slow, how do I make sure I do not get hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - So my ex and i are currently talking again-i am on a break with my current boyfriend because i can't get over my ex. anyway, i broke up with my ex because he was emotionally abusive and disrespectful-pressuring me to smoke and drink and sleep with ...

My boyfriend shows my nude pictures to his friends, isn't this wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - My boy friend used to be addicted to porn but now he doesnt havethe internet and is forever taking pictures of my bits. I wouldnt be to bothered but he shows his friends at i'm still young and i feel very uncomfortable but he says if i love him then ...

My classmate pressurises me for sex and I'm starting to feel scared to say no!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Theres this boy in my class and he says i have to have sex withhim, but i dont feel ready. Its horrible though because he says stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable and he's started putting his hands down my shirt and once down my skirt i told him ...

Is it worth staying in this relationship?? So many problems when we've only been dating for 5 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I'm dating a younger man, 10 yrs younger. He recently moved to my city with his 2 kids which he has custody of. My kids are teenagers, his are 3 and 4. Several problems here:He is without work and has asked me to buy him lunch or take him to the ...

The hurt increases everyday. I can't stop thinking about him. Should I email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of seven years was deployed at least 3 times to the war in the last 4 years. He is divorced and has two grown up kids, I was never married and I don't have any kids. We live in two different countries, we kept in touch all the time ...

The girl my brother wanted to date told him she will only talk to him when he has a car and a cellphone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid i am very much happy to be a member simply because i hope i will find it interesting and enjoyable. I am having a question for you:I am having a 18 years old brother and he is a grade 12 learner.He is in love with a grade 11 gi...

I hate that I love him because he is nasty to me and won't let me follow my dreams! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because hes so nasty to me. But i love him so much when we met i was a mess and he stopped me from doing anything stupid. But now its changed he acts like a real prick and expects me to run after him like...

Although she treated me badly, I miss being with her! How do you get over someone that was bad news for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - I have just come out a relationship with someone i always knew was capable of being quite vindictive and nasty towards me. When we broke up my fears came true and she treated me terribly. Now the dust has settled and I have had time to see exactly ...

My girlfriend's been acting weird since last month, did I handle this the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Since last month, my girlfriend been acting weird. She no longer has things to talk to me. When we agreed to talk online, she didn't show up and the next day, she didn't tell me what happened. After some days, she text me, saying she been waiting...

She's accepted a teaching job in the country and is leaving in three weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - How do you deal with this? I've been seeing someone for nine months, we've been getting on very well and she's enjoyed my company. She's finishing a teaching degree and I haven't seen a lot of her in the past 1-2 months, but it is an important tim...

Dating for five years and he's always putting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for five years and he tells me he has strong feelings for me everyday but how could I take him servious when he always downing me and always have something negative to say to me, what am I suppose to do?...

I had such a traumatic time with my ex and now it's affecting my marriage.

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11 October 2008 (M) - Hello; my dilemma is while I love my wife and KNOW she is everything I've ever wanted, every action I take is "tagged" with my ex. My ex and I broke up badly after 3 years, we were supposed to get married, as I had proposed. She had had several ...

We each feel rejected by the other so neither of us want to make the first move verbally. Should I say something?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I was the victim of a "player". That's how it started out. Then he got another girlfriend, and I was hurt. Instead of allowing myself to continue the hurt, I decided to play him back and did back to him all the rotten things he did to me. Like, ...

I love him very much, but I don't know what he is thinking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend("A") for the last 7 months until a week ago. He told me he wanted to remain friends while he still had feelings for me, he said that love was a strong word, and that he wasn't sure about what he wanted. Anyways, a few days ago our ...

I don't get it, why is he ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Im hurt by his non-responsive attitude and would like opinions. Im a little confused about why this one guy wont text me back. We are friends, id say we're even close. We have had a history together and we constantly talk. However, he wont...

Can I get him to open up more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi this is a little bit complicated but here it goes, I have a boyfriend which is very wonderfull with me, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but the thing with him is that he is very introverted, so for me ...