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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my fiance one year now and we only see each other twice a week. The two days out of the 7 he would rather spend at home or with my family. I get all dressed up trying to look cute and you would think since we only have those two ...

His parents don't like him seeing me so he "sneaks around" to see me and I hate it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - help i dont know what to do well okay here goes. me and my bf have been going out 4 about half a year now and we love each other to bits. his parents were fine about it till earlier on in may and that made them dislike me. Now they still haven...

Wow! Have I blown it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy about seven months ago in a karaoke bar. We started talking and afetr a few weeks we exchanged phone numbers. We ended up sleeping together several times and I really liked him. In the summer I had to go away for work purposes and he ...

I feel like it's all my fault. I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy in early March and he gave me his number. We started going out for drinks together and getting to know each other. We soon got involved in a sexual relationship and he told me that he wanted more than sex one day but wasnt ready for a ...

Should I ingore her or should I just be her friend like she wants even though that's gonna kill me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - Ok everyone I'm SO confused and need major help and advice THANKS! I met this girl at my bowling alley (we bowl in the same league and have been for years). I told her how I felt about her, and she liked me too. she was dating this kid and the...

I made a commet to my boyfriend and I don't know if I hurt his feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hello everybody, and thanks for read my post, I think I said something to my boyfriend that wasn't good, we had a discution 2 days ago, he is a very quiet guy, he doesn't raise his voice, but I am very volatil, and sometimes I say things that I ...

Why can't we call this a break instead of breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 years had many problems lately, mainly because of my anger issue,we went 2 days without speaking then he finally decided that we needed to talk, he then told me that it was over for us,that he just couldn't do it ...

My LDR needs too much attention and he becomes tempermental!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, Please help I need your advice. My relationship with my long distance Bf for 2 yrs is getting to be in the rock bottom. Our plans to meet each other has been push through due to some personal problems. Lately he has some major problem...

Should I pluck up the courage to give him a call or just wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago I started seeing this guy. We had known each other for 18 years and during this time there has always been this tremendous chemistry between us. We never got it together though because I was always in a relationship with ...

She says she loves me, but can she...if she wants to try with her mate to see if she loves him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - My gf dumped me sunday cos she said she was confused about things, and assured me there was no-one else, then wednesday she told me her heart loves two guys, her mate and myself. she wants to try things with the other guy and see what happens. she ...

What do I do to keep her from pushing me away?

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3 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend was molested by her older brother when she was 7 and again when she was 12. She is also bi-polar and the combnation of this things gives her nightmares. She is beging to push me away even though she tells me that that I am the only one ...

How do I accept that marriage will never happen for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I am 36 years old and never married. I have been living with my boyfriend of 5 years for the last 3 years. I have a 13 year old daughter.(not his) Anyway, He convinced me to quit my job and help him build his buisness. Which I did, with no pay. ...

He does'nt want to marry me,I don't know why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I don't know what to do. I was engage with this man for over 15 years, but he does'nt want to marry me. I dont know why. A year back everything changed. Well, about 5 months ago I broke the engagement, and He never tells me how I look, or that ...

I should have known when we met in the psychiatric hospital!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - i dont know where to begin, i met him in a phych ward, i was withdrawling from alcohol and him cocaine. we confided in eachother alot and stayed in touch, he was 28 i was 23, he was living with his grandma and i was living with friends, about 2 ...

Ex-gf sleeps with friend 2wks after breakup, now wants to get back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - Gf and I dated 2.5 years, towards the end, we start taking each other for granted (I definitely take my share of the blame), less talking, more fights, etc... We planned on going to the Olympics together this summer. 2 weeks before the trip, she ...

I need some neutral insight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - I was reluctantly planning on moving to florida to go to school at a community college full time august 1st. july 26th i invited my friend jamie to my friend davids birthday party, because she was nice and i thought she was cute. she brought along ...

Why does he feel the need to lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. Our relationship is really great. For about the last two weeks things have been a little strained. He went on a trip with some of his friends to vegas about a month ago. I saw some pic...

I feel like I'm nothing to him anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Ok i have posted before but i am desperate now. i have been with my bf for 15months.. i was everything to him now i feel like a nothing to him. He says daily he loves me and im wondering if it is just habit.. or friendship love or what 1....

Am I being insecure or are my fears right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend does not tell anyone about me. No one knows about us. I work for him and when I have tried to quit once bcoz of my feelings for him (He was looking for girls for marriage at that time). Prior to this, we were dating but he sa...

My boyfriend is so shallow about my hair...To weave, or not to weave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Ok so my problem is that my boyfriend is reeeally shallow and this is why. He's creole(blk and french) he's only dated mixed females, he's told me in the past that his preference are females that have "good hair" little breast,big butt and that ...

How do I get him to stop smoking weed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I've been married for 6 1/2 years and when we first met we both spoked weed. I stopped 4 years ago and we've since had a daughter who's 3. The problem is my hubbie is still smoking. He is so moody, bad tempered if he doesn't smoke. He usually waits ...