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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will I ever get over the hate for that slut???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I are together now. He had a brief affair with our neighbour who is married. We were all friends. When I caught them together he asked me what about us, well I told him that as long as he was involved with her I would see to it that ...

I'm tired of his empty promises.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and been living together for 2. Recently I went into his phone to text myself (couldn't find my phone) and there were messages to and from this girl he used to work with, "Vanessa". We've...

My boyfriend says he is in love with an older woman.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I don't understand what I can do. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I truly believe that he is my true love. I want to marry him, and spend the rest of my life with him and I've known this every since ...

He says I scare him because I want a commitment. How do I respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating a 52 year old (i'm 43) for 2 months, today he emailed me, he says: I scare him because it seems I'm pushing for a commitment and he's not ready for that right now. How do I respond to that??????...

We fight, we break up, but somehow keep ending back together again! Why do we have this pattern?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hello I have been in and out of a relationship with someone for over four years now. we fight and then we breakup and sometimes its a really bad breakup and then months go by and we will get back together. this has happened so many times now i...

I think I need to leave my babies father. He loves drink and drugs more than us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hello this is a single mother to my 3 months old son ... the father is a bad person he uses the drugs n goes out a lot with his wrong friends n comes home to cause a lot of problems for us (me and my son) i plan to leave him he is always asking me ...

Lesbian's girlfriend's love has faded and now she seems to have feeling for a new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My girlfriend, let's call her 'W', and I have been officially a couple together for 2 years (we were friends for 7 years so our friendship foundation is very strong) but last month, she emailed her friend to tell her that she has developed some ...

What is he waiting for time to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - We have been in love and had a wonderful loving and caring relationship and got married for over two years now and almost out of the blue couple months ago my hubby said that he does not have any feelings for me anymore and does not want to be with ...

What to do with a disappearing, lying, stealing husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for a little over 5 years now and our marriage has had some problems. when we first got married my husband drank a lot and did drugs I knew how much he drank but he tried to hide his drug use from me but I always ...

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

Do I have a trust or control issue here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - I am still asking myself what went wrong after what seemed to be a perfect 5 year relationship in which we lived together. I was ready to get married, I always have felt that I am a good man. The problem... I couldn't say no, I basically waited o...

My son is a drug addict!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - My son is a drug addict, every time, he needs to get better moves back home, and destroys the peace and leaves a mess behind emotionally. But we have a very hard time to say no to him, as we love him but it weakens the marriage, it gets in a weak ...

She's pissed off at all guys, right now.. But I still like her and want to ask her out. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - The homecoming for my dance was this past weekend. and there was this girl that I really like and before I got the chance to ask her she got asked by another guy. This guy then started being a total jerk to her and now she's pissed really at all ...

What should I do now that I have told him I don't want him to propose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in college and have been going out for two months. My boyfriend and I have talked about the future and such, and now he wants to propose to me. I told me I didn't want him to propose yet because we are only eighteen, in our ...

I'm pregnant now and I dislike this 'open' relationship I have with the man I love! Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - In the beginning of my relationship I had agreed on me and my boyfriend in having an open relationship. More or less on his side he got to flirt, sleep, pretty much do whatever he wanted. At first it was no problem because I Thought our relatinship ...

She says she loves me but says it won't work! What should I do?

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23 October 2008 (M) - Hey my dad just split up with this girl's mum and we were really close. after a month of thinking i finally told her i love her and she said she loved me back. but says she wants it to work but says it won't because of what other people will say. is ...

It was just a kiss with this other guy! Should I tell my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hey i am dating this sophmore and i am a freshman. we went out once before but for only a few days. a month later we are back on again. i do like him and i know he isn't with me to get in my pants. but i do like somebody else who is a sophmore. this ...

My boyfriend is cheap!! What do I do and how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 7 months long distance. We usally see eachother every weekend. At first I went there everyweedenk and for bus trips and cab rides it was over 100$ a weekend(plus everything else, alcohol, food etc.) He comes down more ...

I love my cousin but don't want to upset the family! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've liked my first cousin for 4 years now and only today i found out that he liked me to for the same amount of time. I thought it would be wrong if anything sexual should happen between us but if it did it would ruin the family and i dont know ...

My life has changed and I feel so confused and alone right now Please help!

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23 October 2008 (M) - I split with my boyfriend about 1 year ago as we were living in different countrys because of work commitments and i was having alot of problems because i seemed to be changing and not being the way i used to be, i just wasn't motivated with ...