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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! Dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I found out I am pregnant, for most this news would be exciting and happy as it should be for me. I was indecisive about what i wanted to do and when i decided i knew i had to tell the "sperm donor". The relationship I had with this person was at f...

My girlfriend seems so cold towards me at times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm new to the site but I just wanted to fire out this question and I hope Ii can get some responses back soon. I'm currently in a relationship, and am very much in love with the girl i am with, but there are times when i don't know how...

He's backed off and become distant. Should I wait this out?

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30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has backed off and gotten distant. Our kids are not getting along-he says he loves me but when we have our kids he wants to keep them apart for a little while. When I tried to tell him about my feelings and how I wasnt ...

What can I do to make him happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend got mad at me because I hugged my dad when he got me an ipod today for my birthday. My boyfriend said he doesn't want me hugging other guys. What can I do to make him happy? ...

On a scale of 1-10 how important is sexual compatibility?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - How important on a scale of 1 to 10 is sexual compatibility in a relationship? How devastating can sexual differences be to a relationship? Are there ways to overcome these differences and make things work? Or is it a case by case thing. I'm looki...

If anyone out there has any ideas or knows how to let go I would appreciate you sharing it with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for 40 years and my husband passed away. Now I find myself in this relationship that is verbally abusive, I have no trust, he consistently lies to me, I let him walk all over me, I know this is wrong, it is not me to come across ...

I'm pregnant and my partner has started acting really weird, what is going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am 3 months pregnant and confused. I have been with my partner for 5 years, he is 23 and i am 21. We broke up over a year ago then got back together within 6 months. Recentley he's been acting strange. He will say he'll meet me then will let me ...

Why won't he come and see me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am seperated and have 2 children, I got talking to a nice man on the internet and we have been in contact now for 10 months, we have emailed and text each other every day and we have chatted for hours on the phone. He is divorced and has 2 grown ...

He doesn't love or want me so why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I've been with my partner bout 11 years. Four years ago he had an affair which lasted on and off a year.. he eventually left but never admitting the affair saying he was working until he had no option but to tell the truth. After a bit ...

All of a sudden he is not interested in me or my pregnancy - we met online; what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I really do not know where to begin. Its simple though I met an incredibly sweet man on the internet. We hit it off really well , we were always online or the phone. I even helped him with a few bills. Even went as far as even buying him a cell ...

My boyfriend insults me but says he is joking. Would you take it as a joke?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend calls me names like b__ch, sl_t, w___e, ugly, fat, smelly, tramp, etc. But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it. Well I dont take it as a joke, and I take very seriously. Do you think that Im overreacting? Would you take ...

What do you do when the love of your life leaves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - What do you do when the love of your life leaves you claiming he no longer loves you? We were together for 2 years and he told me I was the love of his life. he was my first boyfriend and we had everything in common and a lot of stuff, well it w...

Is there a way to break this cycle or am I just doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Why is it that the only women I seem to attract are the ones whose lives are a broken down mess, and who are needy, neurotic, insecure know-it-alls, who like me as long as I do what they wish, but the minute I think for myself or want to do ...

How can I make him feel the way he makes me feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend with every inch of my heart. He is so amazing to me and treats me like a princess. So why is it that every time he even just calls me I end up getting pissed off at him? I've been telling him for a while now that we have bad ...

What would be my best option?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hoping someone or a number of people can help a bit here. I am on an important committee and am respected for my contributions. I briefly dated one of the guys in the group. He broke it off as he met someone else. I took it pretty maturely but at ...

I'm really very bored of my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am 18 years old, I had a best friend, she is my best friend from last 2 years. I was admiring her so much that I used to help her a lot, even she was like that but nowadays she is not caring for me at all. She just hesitates to talk with me. ...

In love with my ex boss/ married man...after he told me it was over at home, its not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am so frustrated, I like many of you got involved with a married man, and he was my boss. Its so sick the more i think of it. He had told me he was unhappy in his marriage and it had been bad for a long time, well after 6 months of us seeing each ...

She's amassed $70,000 in debt!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hello; I've asked a few other questions, so I don't want to overload the board, but I figured I'd try one more. I have been with my girlfriend for 6+ years, engaged for 2+ of those years. I don't believe we will ever have a wedding -- after I p...

Because of my friend she doesn't trust me any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hey people I need a little help, I mean I have this very beautiful GF... lemme just get to the point guys she doesn't trust people that easily and my Best friend told her that I went off and getting girls msns and sort... it pissed me off to no ...

Falling Again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a Big problem!! I am married and find myself falling in love with another man!! This is so seperate from my marriage!! I still love my husband and we are happy! Is it possoble to be in love with two people at once? And, what should I do?...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

Troubled and dysfunctional family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help, at least advice from anybody who can have a little attention to this. I have a very disfunctional family and it's really killing me, parents never been good to me specially mother who seems hated me frome the very start of ...

Past love comes back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - hey Quite a hard situation, and I feel like a dick for some of it, get that out the way first. I was seeing a girl about a month ago called, let's call her J, and I really loved her but we didn't see each other much (she goes to college, me 6 fo...

I need to draw a wedge between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm Peridot. I was in a relationship with this great guy, but now it's somehow falling apart. I don't know how to get him back... And plus, there's this girl, who is trying to make problems between me and him purposely. She calls him up, chat...

My boyfriend and I fight constantly, I'm scared I'm gonna bring a baby into a horrible relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 22 and need some help. In July of 08 I found out I was pregnant. When I told my mom she went off and told me my life was over and I wouldn't be able to do the things I wanted. So after telling me this I kinda started freaking out even more ...

My relationship has gone stale, how can I revive it and start being myself around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and about four months ago, we moved in together. We've had problems in the past that are still lingering around, trouble is, now that we're constantly around eachother, the problems have bec...

Am I expecting too much from my boyfriend with responsibilities, and is love enough?

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29 November 2008 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Apologies for the ridiculously long essay, but I am feeling very sad and sorry for myself tonight, and am using this process as therapy! Some background: I have been with my bf for a little over a year now. It star...

Do I stay with my wild boyfriend who loves me or go back to my ex who says he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have found this site really useful and have read it recently to help with my situation, however, I have joined today to be able to get some real advice for my exact situation. I cant talk to my family as they just change the subject (although we ...

I'm afraid to let my parents know that I have a boyfriend as they think I'm too young.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he ...

Should I break up with my "imaginary boyfriend"???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - hey people, Basically, I was introduced to a guy at college, I thought he was cute but hey I think everyone got good looking friends. So anyway, we started to get to know each other and he WAS NOT my type of guy. I like the type of guy who is a dar...

As the years pass I feel as if I've lost "the one". Does anyone else feel like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - We had known each other since childhood, it was almost inevitable that years later, as adults, we would get together. We both came from unhappy homes and in the past had problems with drink and drugs. Together we straightened ourselves out and ...

I'm really upset and angry at my dad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello, not really a romantic relationship problems but a family relationship problem. I'm a 19 year old woman who has just moved out to the big city and got her own flat for the first time. I'm a first year university student. Before that I ...

I don't like how he always tries to teach me... does he even like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello Friends, Am not brilliant enough what can i do. I have a boyfriend and he told me at the initial time he loves me, but as time goes on he discover that am not brilliant, he always talk to me, try to teach me, but the way he teaches me is as if ...

Dilemma!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Friends, Me and my English girlfriend decided to get married in Jan 09. Our love started 4 years back and thats why we decided to get married after living together. I came to India in Jan 08 because of expiry of visa. Being in India, I was renovati...

My boyfriend insulted my colored hair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am very angry and upset with my boyfriend. We were out with some friends of his at a bar. They commented on my colored hair. I dyed it black. My original hair is dark brown almost black. My boyfriend said I reminded him of Rosie O'Donnel...

Wanted to get married and made HUGE mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and I had been together for five years, but he always changed the subject when I brought up marriage. One night, I broke down and told him that I thought we should either get married or split up, but he didn't respond well to the ...

I feel like I'm falling apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - This is quite complicated but I will shorten it to my best ablilty. Basically I met this guy. We have met once previously a few years ago, but the contact this time was purely online. I find it a safe medium for me as I am still coming to terms ...

I got a job and he's gone all quiet on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend has split up with me, but hasn't told me. I saw him a week ago, when he said he would text me the following day but he didn't. I have thought for a while something was a bit 'off' but thought he would eventually open up as to ...

What can I do with my cheater boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a troubled relationship for the past 6 years. It has been on and off and he has cheated with numerous women. I recently took him back and we began counseling and therapy for his bi polar disorder. I am supporting him and I went to his ...

I love him but have never had anyone else and now I find myself looking at others, why am I having these thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - this may sound stupid and may sound as if im taking my boyfriend for granted. ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years im 20 and hes 18 initially the age caused a few problems between us but we worked through all the problems that ar...

He said he has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - me and my boyfriend met at the beginning of the year and before we met i had booked a trip to go trevelling for almost a month. we moved in together a week before i went travelling and within the week i realised that he had a problem with coke. he ...

Depressed girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I'm a girl and I'm 17 years old.. this tragedy happened to me 2 years back.. my second cousin showed interest in me by his behaviour and I fell in love and then suddenly he started to ignore me.. now it's been 2 years and I still love him.. ...

She has also made up so much crap about me that I find it hard to believe she was at one point my wife...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I have been married for four years and my wife and I broke up some two months ago. At first she wanted me to stay with friends for a while as to give ourselves a break, but still being husband and wife. I soon found out that she was starting to go ...

I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past. She is a virgin, so with her being a virgin, I believed she had never done anything remotely sexual. I was wrong. Within the first 3 months she told me about flashing some random mexicans. I...

Back with my ex after 2 years and I'm NOT happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Back with my ex after 2 years. I split with my ex for 2 years in that time I had a relationship with some guy that didn't work out, after it finsihed my ex who I had been with for 15 years said he wanted me back, I said I'd need time to think, it ...

She's just not herself since we broke up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - hello friends, We broke off a month ago. She still behaved like before but I brought myself to the friendship boundary and she was often hurt by this but soon she adapted herself to this to some extent. Since then we have been having hard time acc...

I feel like she just doesn't love me anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - Since school started after the summer, my girlfriend of nine months has been feeling distant. On IM she started giving short answers and stopped calling me. I knew she was having problems, but those problems had nothing to do with me, and it felt ...

Do I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I was with a girl for 18 months and it may not be a super long period of time and we are still young but i knew she was something special. Not like any girl i have ever met. I love her with all my heart. Well at nights for the past couple months i ...

How much "baggage" should one take before bailing on a 6+ year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6+ years now. I love her, I know I do, and we get along very, very well. But there have been mounting problems over the last few years that have recently come to a head, and I'm finding myself helpless and stuck. ...

Do you think he will ever get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Me and my bf finished on sunday I had already written a question on sunday there sayin that we always argue .. we still toked on the fone on the monday a cppl of times and then on the tuesday and wen i was at college on the tuesday afternoon he had ...