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*ngelinaGC
writes:I am 3 months pregnant and confused. I have been with my partner for 5 years, he is 23 and i am 21. We broke up over a year ago then got back together within 6 months. Recentley he's been acting strange. He will say he'll meet me then will let me down at the last minute and then he'll switch his phone off. I don't know what to do. He knows i'm pregnant and says he loves me and the baby so much and that we are the only things that keep him alive. I don't know whether to leave him or not. When i confront him he says he's been working or he wasn't feeling well. All of this is stressing me out and i'm worried about the baby, i wanna be with him and i don't wanna be a single mother but i can't let him treat me this way. Has any-one been through this? please help!!!
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reader, blazee +, writes (30 November 2008):
 He sounds quite scared..
remember youve just told him your pregnanet.. he is gonna have a little kid, thats a lot of responsibility and its going to change both of your lives for the next 18 years.
Youve put something like that on him, and although i agree he shouldnt be acting like this try and sympithise with him, because hes probably quite scared and nervous
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reader, petina1 +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Sounds a bit dodgy doesnt it and after knowing him for 5 years your gut instinct tells you something is seriously wrong. Now you have the task to find out what. Is he seeing someone else, or is he terrified of taking on the responsibility of being a father. He may not have really wanted to take up where you left off before because of all the reasons you broke up in the first place, have you rectified any of that since being back with him. One thing for sure, he is the father of your child and must do right by the baby, supporting the baby etc. You really need to sit him down and get to the bottom of all these things to be able to have a happy pregnancy and be settled in this situation you are both in.
hope this helps.
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