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writes:I'm a girl and I'm 17 years old.. this tragedy happened to me 2 years back.. my second cousin showed interest in me by his behaviour and I fell in love and then suddenly he started to ignore me.. now it's been 2 years and I still love him.. extremely.. even I cannot put it in words and he is busy in his own life.. he don't even cares made some girl interested 2 years back and still she loves her.. and aunt agony you know this has changed my personaility completely.. I was a young cheerful child.. now I'm as quiete as a dead body.. now I love to live alone.. I don't like to talk to anyone.. I love to listen to songs.. I love to stay upset.. I have become very serious like a 50 year old lady.. most of the people around me complained that they often find me absent minded.. every time when I see him at my homeplace or anywhere.. I run to somewhere alone place to cry.. and every time my heart pains like I'm crying for him for the first time and some few days back on my first cousin's engagement I came to know he loves her and haven't express to her.. and my first cousin was getting in engage with his love.. now the thing is I want to change myself into a playful girl.. I don't have any boyfriend.. he was the first who I loved a lot and might he be the last.. please help me to change myself..
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 You sound like you are in a rut. I dont know if you are working or not but you really need to do something life changing now. You have been in despair for long enough. Try to do something now for yourself. Get to gether with friends or family and do something exciting, bowling, cinema, pub, club, anything. Buy yourself a new outfit, have a new hairdo', re invent yourself. You need to forget this guy and move on. You are a young lady and have so much of life ahead of you, go out and have a new adventure. You have cried for long enough and now it must end. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how strong and beautiful you are and let the journey begin. Good luck. hope this helps.
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