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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that. It tears me apart knowing that she is with someone else, and she has a daughter with him but she is not happy. What do I do?...

A rock and a hard place, need some advice PLEASE!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I recently wrote about being miserable in my relationship and wanting to be with another woman... well my girlfriend just had a death in the family and her brother just got 130yrs in prison so.... I feel like she really needs me in her life right ...

What shall I do? Does he like me... or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Right how confusing is this, i really dont understand advice would be great. i went to this birthday party about a month back and i ended up kissing my crush Lewis. So the next day as it was a drunken kiss i was all oh okay so we didnt really m...

I feel the distance is getting worse between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hi, All this has happened since I started seeing my girlfriend, and have been seeing her for 10 months now. Basically suspicion started when she'd text her ex girlfriend say kath about kath's son whom she calls her own as well. At first i could cope ...

I think I only love my boyfriend as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I'm so confused! I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and we've said we love each other but thing is i think i only love him as a friend! we were good friends before we got together but i don't want to hurt him. i don't ...

I really don't want anyone else I just want him and I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Right, I met this guy in May. We kinda dated till the end of June then we drifted apart. While we were dating he asked me out 3 times and I said no. The reason I gave to him was that we should wait til we know each other a little better, but the ...

How do I know he loves me? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - How do I know if my boyfriend that I have been living with for 3 years is still in love with me. he spends a lot of money on his ex and takes care of the house she lives in and is still filing taxes with her but has spent every night with me and is ...

How can I tell my girlfriend in a good way that her facial hair bothers me a lot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and love her very much, but she kind of has a lot of facial hair and it really bothers me. I haven't said anything over the years because I don't want to hurt her feelings and ultimately it doesn't keep me ...

Crazy abusive girlfriend, but I still want her back. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Long story, but worth the read. I dated a girl for three years. At times things were amazing. I loved her and wanted to marry her. Were were compatible in ever way and we loved being together. Had so many great times together, but she became i...

Any other problems in our relationship we've had, we've always been able to talk about. But our sex life is a taboo subject. Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my fiance for over 2 years now. early in the relationship we had a great sex life, we were averaging twice a day. over the last six months there has hardly been anything. We have had sex once in the last three months. That's not ...

I'm on the pill, but I still got pregnant ! We really can't afford another child, but I refuse to abort/adopt. How do we over come this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hey I have a major problem. After our 3rd child I put my self on birth control so I wouldn't end up pregnant again. I've been on it for 9 months now and last month, on October 25th, I was suppose to recieve my period and didn't. On November 1st I ...

I can't get over the past, even now we're back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - So i asked a question similar to this before. I had trouble with my boyfriend and his ex having conversations that they shouldn't have been whislt i was with him. In the end we had to finish our relationship as i was so paranoid and he was ...

I don't feel anything when my boyfriend kisses me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - so my boyfriend (arron) and i have been getting closer and closer lately and i thaught everything was great till last night when i relized that when we kiss i dont feel anything and that its really hard for him to turn me on. we have gone as far a...

Can we get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I am a gay man in a 10 year relationship. I've known my partner since we were 13 and 14 and began dating at 18 and 19. Almost exactly ten years later, he tells me that he's lost passion, and doesn't know if he can get it back. We have an ...

I kept letting him down, now he doesn't want to know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hey I wonder if you could help please. I was in a relationship for 2 yrs before we split up in february. A few months after that i met another man. then after 2 weeks of seein him my ex came and asked for me bk. I was so inlove with my ex at th...

Recently married and attracted to someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I started a new job this year. Instantly when I met my new boss I was attracted to him but I was engaged and he was my boss. He also was new to the job. No one ever knew of my attraction to him. A few months ago he quit and I got married. Well a ...

Feeling low after ending my affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hello all- I am a married mom of 4 and recently broke off a 2 year affair. I have been reading through alot of the post and it seems alot of people are having the same issues. I am just feeling really down in the dumps today. I know its going to be ...

He's gone cold, and doesn't know why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Well here is the problem. I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for nearly 2 months. Just today I came back from a 4 day trip that I went on with him and his family. Without any forewarning to the unusual behaviour it seems like the d...

She's cut down on the sex - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - My female partner of nearly two years (shes 26, im 28) has gradually been cutting sexual activity out of our relationship. At first (three months or so) we would make love once, twice a day. Yeah the normal honeymoon period stuff. She was very ...

Should I continue my friendship with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hi everyone, So i have gotten myself into a pretty confusing situation where i dont even know what i feel anymore. It all started 3 years ago when i was in highschool, I was 16 at the time and thats when i met him, he wasnt just any guy, he was my ...

He wants to settle down soon, where as I just want to go crazy for a bit.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my guy for almost a year. I love him very much but we argue so often, mainly due to my lifestyle. I am a student and really want to spend my time with my mates doing work or at my job. He has a full time job with sporadic hour...

She yelled at me and accused me of cheating. It's only a picture!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Is this cheating? I have a picture of a female musician on my binder. It's a normal picture, not one where she's half naked or in a slutty pose. Girlfriend: Who's that woman? Me: That's a musician I like. Girlfriend: Do you think she's pretty? Me...

He has completely withdrawn and I feel terrible about all of this. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Please help me sort things out. I'm so confused I don't know what to do! I found out 4 days ago that my husband has been having an emotional affair with a woman in the building where he works. He told me that he was in love with her, she was in ...