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writes:Hey people I need a little help, I mean I have this very beautiful GF... lemme just get to the point guys she doesn't trust people that easily and my Best friend told her that I went off and getting girls msns and sort... it pissed me off to no extent but it tore me to shreds when she said she was doubting.. I mean this happened two months ago so after that we was good but yesterday my other friend said he hated everyone and now she doubts me again... I really need help in this guys I mean I told her I'm patient to wait and earn he trust like I did last time..Thnx guys =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea but me and my best friend are friends again we spoke and he realized that i love her. So i spoke to her and everything that time and proved to her that i'm not lying.. but she said that she doubts cuz it's easier and that she does it to make sure that she doesn't get hurt so we argue everytime.. and i asked her if i hurt her. but she said no and i told her then why is she doubting. So she said that she never completely trusted anyone. So now idk what to do... I mean i tried everything everything i tell ya! I mean after that incident with me and my best friend we went like a good month good and well and now she doubts me again.. And she tells me everything she even told me that she still talks to my best friend so i told her it was fine (since i still consider him a friend but somehow i think i have made a mistake) And now i don't even feel like admitting my feelings.. So i told her that i will stop bothering her and now she says that i never was bothering her and that since i think that way she's gonna go to her parents place.. idk what to do anymore it's like my heart is sinkin to the bottom of my body.. and she sometimes tells me that i should get a better gf that she only makes me hurt and sad but i told her that deep down she doesn't want that... Am i just too confessive? I'm sorry i said soo much but plz find it in ur heart to answering this
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea well me and my best friend are friends again just not like before yesterday we talked and he realised that i like her alot... enough to love her.. But she said that she always had trouble trusting anyone and also she said she trusts me but not completely and trust me i convinced her many times that i'm not what others say.. But she once again doubts me even though i told her many times that if i was a jerk i wouldn't be with her and yet i'm with her now seems to me like i ain't breaking through to her..
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reader, katatonik +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Reassure her of your feelings for her--show her your post here if need be. Keep in mind though that there is such a thing as "too jealous" and if she continues to distrust you without cause it is going to damage your relationship. Take care
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