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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He feels betrayed I dated others while we were on a break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello, my long term boyfriend who sometimes has given me lots and lots of stress has finally confessed to me that he finds it hard to deal witht he fact that I was dating others before I dated him, and he is afraid I will one day leave him. He says ...

Does she really love me or is it an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well. They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X...

I'm losing him to porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - OK, here is my problem... PORN. Well I guess it's more of my fiance's problem than mine. At first I thought it was just something he watched whenever we weren't able to have sex, but more and more I see it as a problem. When we first got together he ...

They want me to go to college but I don't want to go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my name is Selena and I am having a lot of problems with my parents, they want me to go to college but I don't want to go. What should I do! Should I listen to them or not??...

Am I not seeing what everyone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Here I go again - I have been seeing this guy for 3 years - he has two girls I have one at home too. We get along fine when it is the two of us - days fly by - we giggle wrestle and just have a good time and do projects and such I help h...

How do I fix a relationship I screwed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for about 3 years and I believe I have screwed up in that I grew complacent and began treating the relationship like a friendship and not a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. This is my first relationship of any kind and I really a...

He's becoming increasingly mean, rude and he intimidates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I liked this boy for about 3 years, I didn't tell him because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. This summer we slept together (drunk) it didn't go very well and I wasn't really prepared as in not shaven. So it was never going to be perfect ...

Why do so many men have double standards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Why do so many men have double standards? My b/f is always clicking on sexy videos of hot females in his free time, a habit which greatly annoys me. So I decided one day to simply set up my own account and start watching sexy videos of hot men. He ...

How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...

Why don't I want sex with my boyfriend any more??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months now. He is the only guy I have had regular sex with. Every time he kisses me I get claustrophobic and when he tries it on with me I get annoyed and it does nothing for me at all. I am now only ...

My insecurities are looming again... help!

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25 November 2008 (F) - Hi there guys. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now. I got with him just a week after spliting up with my ex boyfriend (he dumped me because of my insecurity and jealousy). I didn't really have time to get over my ex, but I liked th...

Break up money trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hiya, I've recently had a relationship break up which has been very difficult. It was me that did the breaking up and obviously the feeling wasn't mutual so my ex seems to have been rather bitter about it, this of course I understand. However w...

Feelings for a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - What's the normal time a girl should wait around on a guy? The only problem is... this guy is my best friend of 6 years..I feel like I am losing him It all started when he admitted he had feelings for me(I had no idea).. then I admitted I felt ...

I'm ashamed that I went through his private conversations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. He is married but since the start he repeated that he is in hell and is trying to get out. He convinced me to start this relationship by saying that things will be ok soon and that we ...

What can I do for my boyfriend who was molested as a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend going on 3 years now. We're both in college and have been together since high school. He admitted to me about a year ago that he was molested by his babysitter's son while in elementary school. This ...

We plan to marry in January but I can't forget that she has been unfaithful, please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Dear Sir, I’m happy to stumble upon your website. I have a fiancée whom we have dated for 6 years 3 months. I really love this girl and she claims to love me too. We arranged to get married early January 2009. All the marriage arrangements have been ...

Do you think what we have done is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been in love once when I was 2nd year college and we broke up after to years for the reasons we don't understand and it's hard for us because we are to far from each other and maybe we are not really meant to be... then after that I never ...

Did I tell my friend the right thing? We talked about her on/ off relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - a girlfriend of mine called me the other day to tell me of a situation between her and her lover of almost 6 yrs. she then told me that it has been on and off for the past year. with arguments about other women etc.. she told me that they were to ...

He will surely want to return to me as it usually happens and I always give in - but what should I do this time?

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25 November 2008 (F) - hi, im a single mom aged 23 with two kids. the kids dad died in a accident 4 years ago when they were just babies. i live alone with my two kids in a lovely home. i had 2 relationships since the death of him, the first one i finished as i didnt ...

Is my BF out innocent flirting or something much more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've had sneaking suspisions about my boyfriends 'friendship' with a girl he works with whom is also a married woman for some time now. So yesterday I thought I would get to the bottom of it by getting into his email account and looking through his ...

Was that too harsh?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (?) - All the names here are fake I went to this school dance with my friends. I ask my best guy friend, Alex (who I have a crush on) to dance. I kept stepping on his feet accidentally. Later after the dance I over heard Alex talking to his bud. ...

I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in ...

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, ...

After 6 years his wife still won't sign the divorce papers. Wouldn't it be better for her to let it go ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I really need some advice... I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. we've been seeing each other for almost a year and things are wonderful when we're together. Currently we live 3 hrs apart, but we talk daily! The problem is his wife! They are ...

How do I make him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My husband told me tonight that he doesn't give a s**t about me....I have wanted this to be over for a long time. When I spoke to him on the phone, I told him that if he feels that way, he should just go (he hung up). We have no kids, and the only ...

Confused... does he love me? or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hey guys, quite new to this but really need help on this one! I have asked everyone I know for their opinion and now I am asking you! please help!! When I was at college 2 years ago I had a best friend there who just also happened to be my "friend ...

He lost his sex-drive. How do get it back ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I am so confused... and need some help. I have been with the same man for 4 years. (He is 21 I am 20) We were sexually active soon after we got serious, we would fool around a lot, but not much sexual intercourse would happen because I wasn't on ...