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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over ...

My husband has been cheating on me all along with his ex wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My husband of 12 years has been cheating on me, the other woman called to tell me, he in turn confessed. They have in fact never stopped sleeping together she is his ex wife. This was a year ago and I cannot get over it, it is on my mind most of ...

I hired a private investigator to see where he was going and was shocked at the report!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm 26 and my husband is 28. We've got a four-year-old son who is so adorable, and my husband is a great father. For the past month and a half his behaviour has been suspicious. He's been going out late at night claiming to have extra work - yet ...

I found some more forwarded emails from her to my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend secretly kept in touch with a girl he once worked with about a year ago. They exchanged emails, chatted, and text and he hid it from me very well. He wanted to date her sometime ago, but he was rejected. They however stayed friends. She ...

Dating an older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old and I'm dating a man who is 25 years old than me. I always ask him if he has a problem with our age difference. He says he doesn't. So am I the one with the problem? Sometimes I feel like our relationship is only sexual and I feel ...

He cheated - should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - basically my bf cheated on me for a couple of weeks just kissing nothing like sex or anything then when one of his friends told me he broke up with me but then just a couple hours later was begging me to forgive him and give him another chance. ...

Infidelity and physical abuse... is this fixable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Well Cupidians, I am 2 months out of a 3 year relationship. I encountered forms of infidelity throughout it from her, 5 guys entered the relationship through her. The last was a full fledged infidelity after 2 weeks of being broken up yet sh...

Did I do something wrong to the potential love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live tog...

I want to go out with him to get over my ex, but is it not fair because my heart is elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! I have a dilemma. I have a date this week with someone who seems really keen on me, but I am getting cold feet and don't know if it is fair of me to go and meet this guy cos I'm not over my ex. My ex and I split up over a year ago ...

Am I pressuring him into sex when he's not ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend and I have been going out for two months now. We are both 19 years old. After about a month of going out he started trying to initiate sex and at first I was unsure so we held back and waited. A couple of weeks ago I felt ready so we ...

Her sexual past haunts me daily, I didn't even ask, she volunteered the information!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for about six months now. I purposely never asked about her sexual past. However she has offered up more than enough information on her own.I cannot seem to get over her past as much as I try. I know I can't change it, I do ...

I think she sees me as nothing more than a sex toy... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and i have recently moved homes and she has not been able to join me as she works near to where she currently lives. Since i moved home our relationship has deteriorated into arguments all the time and ...

Now I'm reticent to express my feelings to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I know there is a social idea that people who are inexperienced with relationships get attached too quickly and think what they are feeling is love. I haven't had many relationships and I know that I definitely fell into this category for my first ...

The father doesn't want to step up now that I'm pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm 30 weeks pregnant and I'm not with the father any more. We were together for about two and a half years then in Feb I moved away but he still came to see me, we ended up breaking up the day after I got pregnant. I was 14 when I got ...

Am I REALLY ready to get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My fiance and I have lived together for 4 years and I asked her to marry me about 3 years ago. Lately our relationship fell apart where we don't talk about things. My fiance is 6 years older than I am and I love her very very much. We had some ...

The past is the past... why does he want to know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating someone for almost 8 months. I have never been unfaithful to him, nor in any of my other relationships. I do not carry myself in a classless manner, and I have respect for myself. However, he has been asking how many men I h...

I won't be used... but I still want him and love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Three weeks ago my partner of four years left me. He went back to his ex wife. They have no kids but his mother always wanted them to get back together and his ex never gave up on contacting him. He was very torn as he loves me and loves my company ...

Improving is needed... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together almost 4 years (in April). When we were in high school she would right me love notes an she always had said she and I would be together forever, now it's down the line I have made my screw ups and have ...

I don't get how he's gone totally different it's like he's had a personality change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I would never dream of cheating on my boyfriend! We've been together for a long time! At the start of the relationship things were PERFECT and I'm really not kidding, he was the most amazing boyfriend I could ever dream of but just within 7 months, ...

Nothing I do helps... My boyfriend is addicted to games!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - To put it simply my boyfriend is addicted to games =,= and I love sex but usually after he's done going out with his buddies he's on his games UGHH! and he's so hot I can't resist.. and I've tried a lot of things, teasing him showing up naked even ...

Why has my boyfriend changed so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, within about 8 months he changed A LOT! sometimes he treats me as a mate more than a girlfriend, he will come to see me but just sit downstairs have a cuppa tea and then leave, I'm not ...

I had begun to put this all behind me but now am forced to try and talk it out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I'm trying to recover from an always unrequited love. They were my good friend beforehand and they know that I like them. I just never told them that I love them, to spare us both the humiliation. I told her that I liked her almost a month a...

We are driving each other nut's, and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together 6 months ago and since then we argue almost everyday. At this point I don't even know why we are agueing. We love each other and when we calm down its really easy to see this but we are driving ea other nuts with ...

Anyone dealt with infidelity? Never dealt with this... till now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My husband of 19 years. cheated on me with a "young" woman (probably early 20's) voice recorded in my car! He totlly denies it., told, by other's - alway's will - even my therapist said so. I am a 42 year old pretty - look (told) about 34 years. ...

My boyfriend has given up on trying to make me orgasm!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he still hasn't been able to give me an orgasm. This is nothing new, as I've never achieved an orgasm with anybody (but myself). Other than that we have a great sex life. We experiment with ...

My new partner's ex is trying to break me and ruin my life.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am really struggling. My new partner's ex is trying to break me and ruin my life. They were never married - she fell pregnant when they dated for a few weeks - so they have a child together and share the parenting. But she controls him by ...

My girlfriend is pregnant but I also have feelings for another...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I am in the armed forces and left for deployment with my relationship being rocky at best. Half way through I managed to get home for a week and all seemed better. 3 weeks later I recieved the news my partner was pregnant I was overjoyed and still ...

Not sure about relationship

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18 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a great guy, and we have not really hit problems until these past few weeks. We have had a rough fall and I am going through some issues with school. We are an hour apart, but we see each other ...

How can I prove my feelings for her so that we never break up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was studid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other ...

I feel like my wife has just died and the grief is horrible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My wife and I are having a big problem. Over the past 3 years I sometimes drank too much. I no longer drink at all now. (I was a fall asleep drinker)I have never been abusive, sarcastic or bad to my wife in any way. I have always supported her in ...

I'm so in love with another man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for 9 years wif my husband for 11 and I don't love him, I have been having an affair solid for the last year with a man I was once in love with as a teenager although I have been seeing him on and off for 4 years, I am not proud ...