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writes: My boyfriend got mad at me because I hugged my dad when he got me an ipod today for my birthday. My boyfriend said he doesn't want me hugging other guys. What can I do to make him happy? Reply to this Question
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Maybe you should ask yourself what can you do to make YOURSELF happy..
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (30 November 2008):
LEAVE HIM! imagine your life with a guy like this... you will have friends, relatives, acquaitances... are you always going to be on eggshells with others becasue .. your boyfriend tells you so?????? What bigger prove do you need.. he commanded you to not hug YOUR DAD again?? Leave him..
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 November 2008):
Are you serious?
He's just shown himself to be a controlling manipulative freak and you want to make him happy?
The answer is that you will never be able to make him happy. He doesn't even like you hugging your dad so there are bound to be lots of other things that he is not going to like.
When you are so depressed that you daren't even look at another human being, have cut off your family and friends and will happily forgive him when he punches you in the face... then he might be happy.
If YOU want to be happy then get out of this relationship. No boy should ever have that much control of you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Jizelle +, writes (30 November 2008):
Thats crazy! Is he threatened your going to fall in love with your dad or something?! Your dads not 'another guy', hes your family.
Sorry but your boyfriend sounds a bit twisted, if that was a serious comment he made. Not to mention controlling.
I'd ditch him, theres something wrong with that.
xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Okay, first of all, I've been in a situation like this and it didn't turn out pretty, so hopefully the same thing won't happen to you. Your boyfriend is being posessive and controlling. It's not like you were hugging another guy who is your age and could be a potential love interest, it was your dad!! That is one of the first things an abusive and insecure boyfriend will do. After he seperates you from your family, he could begin making it so you can't see your friends too. These are warning signs of a possibly abusive relationship. Don't let it happen to you. Just explain to him that it was your dad you were hugging, not a potential boyfriend or anything and that you may hug whoever you like. You guys aren't married yet and its not like a hug is really cheating. Please be careful.
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